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BodyMaster1 -> Conversation (11/27/2013 9:15:17 AM)
Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? Why are most people avoiding cyber sex?

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 9:26:56 AM)
Aha the ass play man. Maybe because most don't equate stimulating conversation with cyber sex? There are numerous chat rooms on the web where one can (still) find cyber sex partners. As for stimulating conversations, I'd look here or on Fet. We certainly had a ton of fun with your first post. Welcome to the discussion side.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 9:36:48 AM)
Ah, you mean specifically sexually stimulating conversation. Maybe most people are not interested in sexual conversations and cybering with someone they don't really know. I know I'm sure not and that goes for most people I know too. If that's all you're interested in, there are still myriads of sites on the internet where you can go for that. NBMG

OsideGirl -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 9:44:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? I'm currently reading "Inside Scientology" and I've been enjoying many stimulating conversations about how many of their practices follow the same psychological practices of cults. But, somehow, I doubt you mean the same thing by your use of the word "stimulating". quote: Why are most people avoiding cyber sex? Because I find that masturbating alone is way better than masturbating with a stranger and a computer.

thishereboi -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 9:49:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? Not that I have noticed quote: Why are most people avoiding cyber sex? I can't speak for anyone else but I do because it is boring and unrewarding. If I am not going to be able to touch my partner I might as well masturbate.

Kana -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 10:11:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? Why are most people avoiding cyber sex? Because real sex is worlds better (Well that,and ball gags,bits,bridles and duct tape really cramp convo)

Miyani -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 10:43:09 AM)
FR First off, cybersex is not "stimulating conversation." It's cybersex. Conversation is talking, in whatever medium. I cannot answer for everyone, but I personally am avoiding cybersex with you because you viewed the profile of a dominant woman who says she is not looking (me), and then emailed me to tell me how you'd like to "hurt" every part of me. If you treat the people around you with disrespect, you will be met with disrespect. Here are the cliches: Nobody owes you sex. And the common factor in all of your botched "conversations" is you. Examine your approach.

DesFIP -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 10:50:24 AM)
Because people who can only talk about sex are not stimulating conversationalists. The most important sex organ is the brain. Followed by the skin. Not the pink bits. I talked to The Man about everything, and that made him someone I wanted to have sex with. You're putting the cart before the horse and complaining that it won't go anywhere. Your fault, no one else's.

KnightofMists -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 11:53:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? Why are most people avoiding cyber sex? No..... And avoiding it? No I think people are just making a different choice than cyber sex. Of course... If one is choosing cyber sex over other sexual possibilities.... It really begs to question their abilities of sex in the other areas when cyber sex is their preference.

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 12:00:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? Why are most people avoiding cyber sex? Most men who keep their brains in the head between their shoulders rather than the one between their legs tend to find that intellectually stimulating conversation and sexually stimulating conversation to be two entirely different things. And many of us, myself included, find "cyber sex" to be neither of them.

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 12:06:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? Yes. I used to hold lively political debates with my friends, but now we mostly sit around staring blankly at each other's crotches. quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Why are most people avoiding cyber sex? Because spending time getting some stranger to orgasm is kind of boring, especially when actual sex isn't hard to come by.

myotherself -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 1:47:26 PM)
I avoid it because cybersex is fucking boring. Or boring fucking, whichever way you want to look at it.

SeekingTrinity -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 1:50:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? I'm currently reading "Inside Scientology" and I've been enjoying many stimulating conversations about how many of their practices follow the same psychological practices of cults. But, somehow, I doubt you mean the same thing by your use of the word "stimulating". Loved that book! Another good one is "Scientology and the Prison of Belief". Ok, now back to the topic at hand... OP, I find cyber and phone sex perhaps the two most bloody boring activities on the planet. I'm serious...paint drying is vastly more interesting. If I'm handling my own business, the last thing I need is someone yammering in my ear. Nor do I find typing on a keyboard while handling my own business very conducive to keeping me in the mood. I find live and in person soooooooooo much more interesting. Just my $0.02

BitaTruble -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 2:05:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? Why are most people avoiding cyber sex? Well, I just googled and discovered that only about 4-5% of the worlds population have computers so my answer is: Most people avoid cyber sex because they don't have computers.

KnightofMists -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 2:18:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? Why are most people avoiding cyber sex? Well, I just googled and discovered that only about 4-5% of the worlds population have computers so my answer is: Most people avoid cyber sex because they don't have computers. Guess that leaves phone sex..... And this day of cel phones... Gosh you can do it in some crazy locations!

stef -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 2:59:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? It's not, but it looks like proper spelling might be. quote: Why are most people avoiding cyber sex? Cyber sex is boring.

DesFIP -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 4:05:55 PM)
I've always believed that Scientology is a cult.

lizi -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 4:17:31 PM)
I don't know about most people, but I avoid cyber sex because it holds no interest for me. I would specifically avoid it with you because you are a stranger, and if I was going to do something I didn't enjoy, I'd do it for someone I cared about and had a history with. One other reason I avoid cyber sex is because I find it fairly ridiculous and it makes me want to laugh.

OsideGirl -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 4:38:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP I've always believed that Scientology is a cult. I believe that as well. I think the only reason it has survived so long is that unlike traditional cults, they do not require that members cut off contact with the outside world and they don't require that members sign over all their assets.

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Conversation (11/27/2013 4:42:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana quote: ORIGINAL: BodyMaster1 Is stimulateling conversation a thing of the past? Why are most people avoiding cyber sex? Because real sex is worlds better (Well that,and ball gags,bits,bridles and duct tape really cramp convo) [sm=goodpost.gif][sm=goodpost.gif][sm=goodpost.gif]

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