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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 7:00:40 AM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: lizi

What would make CM a better place probably varies from person to person. I'd really like married cheaters to get off the site to make it a better place for me, and I would't mind banning anyone who likes to be shit on. Oh, and the couples that come here for a "third" that have been looking for 7.269 hours and are shocked and appalled that some woman in their area does not want to get naked with them….NOW.

Do you shop at stores that only carry goods that you might be interested in? Why would you assume that everyone else out there wants the same type of thing that you want in your adult relationships? You are assuming that no one wants the fin ducks service, there are men out there that do want to give their money to someone.

The CM warning is more for people who can't think things through past their boner to realize that there may not be a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, or in their case an airbrushed beauty in leather waiting to service their sexual fantasies.




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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

In every walk of life, wherever there is a way to get easy money from people there will be someone willing to take advantage of it. men with a hard on are probably one of the easiest targets after the elderly.....and even then i'm being generous. what amazes me more is that cm has its lovely big red warning, and yet we still get some idiot that ignored it, sent the money to fat, hairy bob-in-the-basement, but comes in here to complain because he lost his hard-on, and he didn't get to cum on 'lil ms fantastic tits. though in fairness fat hair bob has a pretty decent cleavage when he shaves his chest, and wares a push up bra.

never pay for something that you can get for free. however, when it comes to sex some people are turned on by paying for it. they always have been. get over it.

needles


I believe these two ladies sum things up very nicely. Personally, I would love to see all the dominants who think a good introductory email consists of "kneel bitch" should not only be deleted but forced to move out of their mother's basement, but I'm not going to get my way on that either.

So, as adults we have to use some common sense in our searches. I realize that for sub men especially they have to wade through a lot of young girls and men posing as young girls who think this is an easy pay day, and imagine is sucks big time. But it certainly sounds like you can figure out which is which, and that's half the battle. Each time you find one, report the profile and then block the profile, so you never have to see it again. After some time, you will be seeing less and less of them.

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 7:19:04 AM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		ITs actually the ones you get involved with and then they start asking for money that more dangerous chess players. At least when its advertised up front there is no guess work. You know what your getting. Simply pass up the profile, or report it. If one could wave a magic wand to rid the world of everyones judging of corruption the population would decrease greatly. Depending on the day of the week the wand was waved, I would probably be one of the zapped.

ITs easy just don't play the game.

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 8:09:05 AM   
littlewonder


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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 8:21:42 AM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		No no, you can't do that - because if you did, you couldn't get a dom to take you under consideration, mentor you, train you and defend you from all the ills of the universe, infinity and beyond!!!!

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 8:28:19 AM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		A fast reply to the bunny:
I think you're right, it has been a while.

Another reply to DarkFeather:
I loooooove that idea. And just in time for
Christmas! We can split the money up and play dirty Santa.


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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 9:19:17 AM   
Darkfeather


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Status: offline 		Bondage elves, mistletoe hanging from interesting places, a whole new rendition of the twelve days of Christmas... I think it would be trend setting

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 9:37:58 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		*takes a ticket and waits patiently in line*

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 9:54:34 AM   
LafayetteLady


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

No no, you can't do that - because if you did, you couldn't get a dom to take you under consideration, mentor you, train you and defend you from all the ills of the universe, infinity and beyond!!!!



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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 10:02:46 AM   
SeekingTrinity


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The fact that financial types are here on CM does not ruin my time here. Why? Because I'm stingy enough with my money to not send it to random strangers. Id also dare say I don't let my tingly bits do my higher thinking either, but that's just me. If you are dumb enough to hand out money to strangers over the Internet, then I'm of the opinion that you deserve what you get. Pros and "pay me-fuck you princesses" don't make CM good, bad, or anything. I'm more put off by grown ass people whining like colicky infants over the most ridiculous things.

We as human beings can't always have Big Brother rescue us from stupid decisions we make. We have to exercise plain old common sense. We bear the most responsibility when it comes to looking out for ourselves. The site gave a warning. If people are too brain dead to heed it after that, it's on them. We can't expect everyone else to save us from ourselves.


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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 11:37:10 AM   
shivermetimbers


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quote:

ORIGINAL: David92506
What do you think? Should anyone who requests money before chatting be deleted? Would it make CM a better place?


Heck no pal. It is what it is. Besides, someday I may quit being lazy, get a pay pal account, set up a female profile with some sexy pics, and go the Fin Domme route myself.

Don't kill my potential golden goose.

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 12:21:30 PM   
MasterCaneman


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ORIGINAL: shivermetimbers


quote:

ORIGINAL: David92506
What do you think? Should anyone who requests money before chatting be deleted? Would it make CM a better place?


Heck no pal. It is what it is. Besides, someday I may quit being lazy, get a pay pal account, set up a female profile with some sexy pics, and go the Fin Domme route myself.

Don't kill my potential golden goose.

Dammit, you beat me to it. And I'm with the dollar-jar idea for every repeat posting like this, or findommes, or opening-day unicorn-hunter blues. Besides, I like surfing the profiles for chuckles, especially the end-of-the-month findommes who suddenly appear. A close second are the frustrated do-me subs who can't make a free connection (love the vitriol in their journals...delicious), followed by the unicorn-hunters and then the off-the-wall loners who either want eternal incarceration, sissification, or some other bizarre kink and the newbie "kneel-bitch" doms. It'd be less entertaining for me if they were gone.

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 12:45:58 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I like the ones where some guy emails a hundred different subs with "kneel and suck My cock, slut", and gets no positive responses. He then realizes that real life is not porn, and decides that the problem is with real life, and starts a "Collarme is full of FAKES thread."

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 12:57:51 PM   
fluffycupcake


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Status: offline 		The OP had me cringing. I'm not the smartest woman out there, but you'd have to be brain dead or extremely gullible to send money to complete stranger over the internet.

Also...who has money these days to send? lol.

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 12:58:43 PM   
sheisreeds


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Status: offline 		Well if you send money to a fin domme expecting something in return, and instead get nothing it would seem in most cases there was still a substantial session of humiliation play.

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 1:07:51 PM   
MasterCaneman


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Status: offline 		"Fakes" threads are the most fun of all. At least for me, anyway. Another one are the "This Is How To Change CollarMe" threads. Those can be just as much fun to read and comment on.

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 1:11:10 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I don't know. I find it a little ironic. If the problem is folks are not abiding by the big red warning, shouldn't it really be the people sending the money that get bounced, rather than the ones asking for it?

(Not that I want that to happen, either, but wouldn't that be the part that made more sense?)


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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 1:20:16 PM   
KYsissy


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Status: offline 		I got it all under control. I am going to start taking care of all the findommes on CM. I am just waiting on a bit of cash. Some African prince needed my help to move his millions out of the country. Just as soon as that money hits my account, all the fin dommes will be busy shopping

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RE: DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON! - 12/1/2013 3:00:52 PM   
VideoAdminRho


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