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RE: the aging submissive - 12/2/2013 10:59:51 AM

DesFIP

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I'll be 59 in six weeks. He's 61. Seems to me, you're the spring chicken.

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RE: the aging submissive - 12/2/2013 11:33:53 AM

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When I started seeing my man there were some positions he liked that were hard on my legs and arms so I started hitting the gym to get into "fuck shape"...

This gives me a great idea for a new exercise book

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RE: the aging submissive - 12/2/2013 2:34:02 PM

Kana

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I'm 57 and my sub is 53. It bothers me to see all you younguns whining about your old age symptoms.

Yeah but I've broken over 80 bones and once upon a time been dead.
I lived hard and my body knows how many miles are on it. It tells me every day

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RE: the aging submissive - 12/2/2013 2:37:28 PM

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I have shitty knees, high blood pressure, early onset arthritis and a torn rotator cuff.
Hell...it appears that I'm a mess.
But I can still crave and take a really good, hard beating until I'm a weeping puddle of snot.
So I got that goin for me, which is nice.

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RE: the aging submissive - 12/2/2013 2:42:27 PM

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long as you can cry and suck cock, you got the basics covered.

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RE: the aging submissive - 12/30/2013 10:21:04 AM

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Any Dom worth the name is going to take into account his subs physical conditions and limitations along with their mental ones.

If you and I were getting together, I would recognize that your pain tolerance would likely be low and need to be built up.

If you did not have any knee issues, We would start out with no assists and see how it works. If needed, a pet bed or a large memory foam pillow would be tried and if that was not workable I would forget the kneeling and look to other positions like a modified kneel where you are sitting on the floor with legs curled and an arm or ottoman to help support the upper body.

As to other things, I would start off with using a flogger lightly, hand spankings where I could gauge effects better before moving on to other implements (paddles, hairbrush, cane, rug beater, belt or strap....). Butt plug training would have to start small and work up and so on.

The overall impetus would be to treat you as if you were completely new to the lifestyle, and new to kink activities while recognizing you as the unique individual you are with your own needs and limitations.

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