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FrostedFlake -> RE: Submission and Hate (12/13/2013 9:56:35 PM)
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ORIGINAL: BecomingV
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FrostedFlake - Right, hate is not a kink, but neither is it an action or a crime. It's a feeling. That misconception comes from an unhealthy and powerless role model. Just because a person feels hate does not determine how they think of their feeling, how they choose to react to having the feeling or if they choose to take an action to express the feeling. It is completely possible to just have a feeling and not act on it. It's also possible to have a feeling and to act on it differently than another person would act having the same feeling. There are ways to feel anger, rage and even hate, and not destroy the self, or others to handle it.
I am pleased you are thinking it over. I suggest you continue to. It might be you come to view a feeling as an action and one that sometimes rises to the level of crime, even tho inside just one head. Sometimes the absence of action is the crime. As when a hand is not offered. Or taken.
Please keep an open mind. Recall that the man who is certain has stopped learning.
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