JeffBC
Posts: 5799
Joined: 2/12/2012 From: Canada Status: offline
|
Working through this oddball post one at a time... A good dominant male need not make an offer to a submissive woman for her to become his. In general, good partners seldom need to make offers. Other people find them. The same is true of good leaders. But I'm also a huge believer in being proactive. It is her choice, and hers alone, to accept him. Self-evidently true so long as we ignore the entire issue of dominance and submission at the personality trait level. She cannot be forced, she cannot be coerced, I can be forced/coerced. You can be forced/coerced. Carol can be forced/coerced. In fact, a lot of what I do with Carol is strongly coerced. What makes you think that all forms of "force" are bad and what makes you think coercion is automatically wrong? she cannot be bought with jewels and finery. You must be talking about a species other than human. Human females are strongly attracted to status and one of the markers of status... particularly in a society which worships money, is "jewels and finery". Are you seriously suggesting that rich guys don't have a leg up in the dating game? No amount of pressure can bend her against her will. Perhaps for you. I bend people "against their will" constantly. For me, that statement is the essence of what it means to be dominant. Show kindness, compassion, love, honesty, trustworthiness, and she will be yours forever. Be nice to people and they tend to be nice to you. Yup, the golden rule and karma both are pretty sound principles.
_____________________________
I'm a lover of "what is", not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality. -- Bryon Katie "You're humbly arrogant" -- sunshinemiss officially a member of the K Crowd
|