jlf1961 -> RE: Anotther school shooting. (12/14/2013 7:02:12 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Arturas Given that we have always had guns and kids and schools then what has changed to cause this to happen? What is new in children's lives now that did not occur earlier and caused this? Look for the change and you will find the cause(s). What are they? Children now take drugs for various disorders, real or perceived. If you ever went to a PTA meeting or teacher - parent meeting over the last ten or so years you will be stunned to find most parents don't go and/or there is only one parent in the family. This is the reverse of the situation prior to the 80s. Broken homes are the norm rather than the exception. When I attended elementary there might be one kid in a 25 member class having divorced parents. The schools themselves have changed? Is there a breakdown in discipline? Budget problems that make the school a place of stress rather than of learning? A teacher I know indicates they are baby sitting rather than teaching and afraid to discipline which makes it hell, she wants to retire early. An attitude in today's society that for children in school "everyone wins" and so when a child does not win or is not successful in their studies they cannot handle the negative feedback when it is given and snaps? Social media? I have a daughter who suffered online harassment from other girls over a boy, enough that she hated to go to school and she became angry and violent until we got to the bottom of this and fixed the issue. Violent online and console games that have elementary school age kids shooting people by the hundreds while sitting for hours each day in their rooms away from family social interaction? I know my 13 year old son comes away from those games changed and almost angry and violent until I take him away from them and make him realize how bad he is acting. That for sure is a change to our children their behavior. So, it's not guns and it's not kids nor is it schools in general since we always had these, so what changed? Arturas and star While what you said is true, I have seen it myself, all those things do not matter. What does matter is the availability of guns. Nor does it matter that teen society is changing, it seems that more kids are bullied, more teens are feeling disenfranchised, and the perceived and diagnosed emotional disorder in teens and younger children seems to have increased dramatically. So what if the student to teacher ratio has nearly tripled in some school districts, and the teen use of recreational drugs and alcohol is negligible in the the possible causes of teen on teen violence. And the lack of involvement in children's lives by parents, that is what video games, the internet and tv is for. Lets face it, the parents job is to have sex, the woman is then responsible to give birth to the child, after that, aside from changing diapers and feeding, parents are not really needed to say, nurture the child, and when the child starts school, god forbid they have to get involved in the educating of the child, that is strictly a teacher's job. Nor is it important that the teens are getting involved in gangs, criminal activities, some teen gangs handle drug trafficking in some cities, even some smaller towns. Nor does it matter that some person with a record of mental illness and emotional problems can go to a gun shop in just about any state and purchase a gun with the most rudimentary back ground check for a violent or felony criminal record. There is no way in hell that any of that has any impact in the rise of teen on teen violence and gun related deaths. The problem is and always will be, the fact that in the US a person can go to a sporting goods shop, or a firearms dealer, or pawn shop and buy a gun. Oh, one more thing, since I own military style firearms and refuse to accept the solution of a gun ban in the US, that makes me a gun toting terrorist, and to make matters worse, I recently submitted the paper work to allow me to purchase bulk loads of nitrate based fertilizer and and I have a agricultural license to allow me to purchase limited amounts of explosives and detonators. Now granted all I plan to do is blast some stumps and rock on my property and make some fields better suited for growing hay and pasture crops... I dont have to go with the McVeigh process and buy fertilizer at various farm and ranch supply stores and steal the explosives to set it all off, I can legally buy it. End of sarcastic rant. I now return you to your previously scheduled polarized debate on gun ownership.
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