Phoenixpower -> RE: Anotther school shooting. (12/17/2013 12:41:46 PM)
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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1 Some very valid points Arty - for once. dito [:)] quote:
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ORIGINAL: Arturas Given that we have always had guns and kids and schools then what has changed to cause this to happen? What is new in children's lives now that did not occur earlier and caused this? Look for the change and you will find the cause(s). What are they? Children now take drugs for various disorders, real or perceived. If you ever went to a PTA meeting or teacher - parent meeting over the last ten or so years you will be stunned to find most parents don't go and/or there is only one parent in the family. This is the reverse of the situation prior to the 80s. Broken homes are the norm rather than the exception. When I attended elementary there might be one kid in a 25 member class having divorced parents. The schools themselves have changed? Is there a breakdown in discipline? Budget problems that make the school a place of stress rather than of learning? A teacher I know indicates they are baby sitting rather than teaching and afraid to discipline which makes it hell, she wants to retire early. An attitude in today's society that for children in school "everyone wins" and so when a child does not win or is not successful in their studies they cannot handle the negative feedback when it is given and snaps? Social media? I have a daughter who suffered online harassment from other girls over a boy, enough that she hated to go to school and she became angry and violent until we got to the bottom of this and fixed the issue. Violent online and console games that have elementary school age kids shooting people by the hundreds while sitting for hours each day in their rooms away from family social interaction? I know my 13 year old son comes away from those games changed and almost angry and violent until I take him away from them and make him realize how bad he is acting. That for sure is a change to our children their behavior. So, it's not guns and it's not kids nor is it schools in general since we always had these, so what changed? Arturas and star While what you said is true, I have seen it myself, all those things do not matter. What does matter is the availability of guns. Nor does it matter that teen society is changing, it seems that more kids are bullied, more teens are feeling disenfranchised, and the perceived and diagnosed emotional disorder in teens and younger children seems to have increased dramatically. ... There is no way in hell that any of that has any impact in the rise of teen on teen violence and gun related deaths. The problem is and always will be, the fact that in the US a person can go to a sporting goods shop, or a firearms dealer, or pawn shop and buy a gun. As much as I enjoy your posts, I have to disagree with you on that one...partially.... yes, it is a problem how easily it is possible to buy a gun in the US (according to what I hear about over here....) However, the change of society also plays into it. Kids spending more time on shite TV these days or their xbox, playstation whatsoever, often less and less enganging with others, on top of that potentially parents who really dont give a shit about them (had many of them at work during my recent 10+ years working in that field) as they think as long as the kid is on that screen they are having their peace... it does make something with the kid....and in the long term not in the good run....as it can lead to the kid being more disconnected with reality and living a more and more isolated life.....if you then add to it lack of excercise due to this "furniture disease" and crap food easily available it increases the chances of the kid getting bigger and bigger and with lacking social interaction with others it can easily get an outsider role at school.....and then yep....then it can easily get a gun and overreact to its unhappiness of its little life... As a kid I was not much in front of the TV....not only that my parents would not have allowed it, I was not interested in it....as it was way nicer to be out and about with the friends from the street and the school....ok, back then there wasnt much on TV anyway, after all, we had 3 programmes back then.....but seeing how much crap is on TV these days, many channels arent worth watching anyway.... So let this kid get drowned in shit TV (which according to a research paper over here became also more violent then one ore two generations ago) and be left on his own too much and play oh so awesome shooting-games......then society does play a major factor in it... Also the saying says, a village is raising a kid.....which these days less and less is the case cause these days people feel oh so stepped on their toes if someone dares to question ore criticise the behaviour of their kid.... Not to mention the "lovely" additivies in food and shit like fizzy drinks, which according to studies worsens behaviour from kids as well..... Now, my apologies, that this reply is quite rumbling (as I am tired right now) but on that occasion A and s are right that the change in society plays a massive part on it on many levels...
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