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Showers - 12/20/2013 7:39:58 PM   
luv2bcuck


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Status: offline 		I am interested to get some opinions on how many women are turned on and enjoy giving golden showers. I've been googling a bit here and there and the majority of vanilla girls don't seem to keen on the idea. Personally I absolutely love receiving them.
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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 7:43:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: luv2bcuck

I am interested to get some opinions on how many women are turned on and enjoy giving golden showers. I've been googling a bit here and there and the majority of vanilla girls don't seem to keen on the idea. Personally I absolutely love receiving them.


Well then....you've made yourself quite clear.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 7:46:41 PM   
Rawni


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Status: offline 		Vanilla girls don't like peeing on you? Shock!

So how much experience have you had to know that you love them?

While I am sure you will have no problem in answering that, stop and think a moment. You are new on site, you have a profile all about the kinky things you might enjoy all while letting people know that you aren't looking for 24/7 and come in asking questions of women, of a personal nature.

Why would many women admit to liking something and give your kinky tail end a place to go email?

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 7:50:12 PM   
luv2bcuck


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Status: offline 		Wow, it was only a question. I wasnt asking for anything other than opinions!!

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 7:53:24 PM   
Rawni


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What is the difference if 20 million like peeing on someone or 20 don't? Someone will like it and some won't. It isn't rocket science.

Your question was rather a leading type question. Now say... me for instance, say I was like young and all that and I loved peeing on my guy. Would you be emailing me? Be honest now... I just saw my profile.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 8:02:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		The only woman who will enjoy giving you a golden shower is someone who is in a relationship with you and actually cares enough to make you happy. In that case she might get turned on due to you getting turned on. Of course, you could pay someone to do that for you.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 8:04:49 PM   
luv2bcuck


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Status: offline 		Don't flatter yourself, if i was looking for thrills i'd go to google, you live on the other side of the world for goodness sake, so the benefit of emailing you would be .........?

The purpose of my questions was based on the fact that the times I have twice I have met someone who labels themselves as a Dominant women and they have been willing to indulge my fantasies and told me they enjoyed, yet I have mentioned it twice now to other women who
I would call quite kinky but both have seen it more as a taboo.

I suppose I was asking if women actually enjoy the act (and yes I know it is a personal thing) or if they just do it to indulge a subs fantasy.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 8:09:58 PM   
Rawni


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I'm not on your admirer list am I? I didn't flatter myself. I just innocently asked a question, just like you did.

There are women that like to do it. How many? Who the hell knows? I will say, I hear more of it from men and women (girls) that tend to want to make the guy happy. It pays them to enjoy it.

In a personal relationship, I have known women that liked it. Fewer than the number of women that didn't like it.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 8:14:09 PM   
luv2bcuck


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Status: offline 		Thanks Peppermint, I suppose as a sub i'd enjoy it more knowing they had the urge or want to do it rather than just satisfy me.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 8:15:45 PM   
luv2bcuck


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Status: offline 		Thanks Rawni

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 8:19:56 PM   
Rawni


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Status: offline 		ROFL... I haven't heard that for at least a decade! I think I'm all choked up! Somebody has to be glad about that!

And I was just thinking I need to follow your posts. You made me laugh over in master. You really should be scared.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 8:20:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		You already know from your experience asking dates to do this to you that it is not commonly liked by women.

I'm not sure how you know they are all vanilla or where the line is that you draw. Is a scarf tying someone's wrist vanilla and rope kinky? Or does it have to be natural fiber rope?

Is a spanking vanilla yet using a hairbrush kinky?

What I'm trying to impress upon you is that if it were common, then you would have met women who liked the idea. Of course, you may have but they didn't like the idea of doing it with you. That's not a slur, that's a statement expressing that men see kink and sex as separate from relationships but women don't. We're more likely not to want to do something just to do it. It's person specific for us.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 8:37:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: luv2bcuck
I am interested to get some opinions on how many women are turned on and enjoy giving golden showers. I've been googling a bit here and there and the majority of vanilla girls don't seem to keen on the idea. Personally I absolutely love receiving them.

Looks as though 5-10% of sexually active women under 30 have given or received a golden shower at least once. I looked at the US only. That's a high enough number to incorporate it into your sex life without having to look forever.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 8:47:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks Red Magic, much appreciated

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 9:20:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've never done it but I know I really, really, don't want to. I'd find it very humiliating, even if I were the giver. Peeing time is private time.

I would probably be willing to do it for someone awesome that I loved, but I'm not sure I'd be able to do a convincing act of being super dominant while I was feeling like that. So I guess in my case the answer would be 'just doing it for the sub'.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 10:00:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: peppermint
The only woman who will enjoy giving you a golden shower is someone who is in a relationship with you and actually cares enough to make you happy. In that case she might get turned on due to you getting turned on. Of course, you could pay someone to do that for you.


That's not true, at this point I'd piss on him just for GP.

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 10:13:49 PM   
luv2bcuck


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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I've never done it but I know I really, really, don't want to. I'd find it very humiliating, even if I were the giver. Peeing time is private time.

I would probably be willing to do it for someone awesome that I loved, but I'm not sure I'd be able to do a convincing act of being super dominant while I was feeling like that. So I guess in my case the answer would be 'just doing it for the sub'.


It's funny, I would feel similar as a giver, I see it as a function rather than a sexual thing,, however as a receiver I find it very arousing, it's not some much the actual act for me it's more about humiliation I suppose.

I had a Mistress give me a shower after I had just orgasmed and to be honest at that moment it wasn't that pleasant, however afterwards the humiliation thoughts made the experience a pleasant one.

I guess I should think myself lucky I've managed to find a few of the 5- 10% Redmagic quoted over the years

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 10:20:14 PM   
luv2bcuck


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

You already know from your experience asking dates to do this to you that it is not commonly liked by women.

I'm not sure how you know they are all vanilla or where the line is that you draw. Is a scarf tying someone's wrist vanilla and rope kinky? Or does it have to be natural fiber rope?

Is a spanking vanilla yet using a hairbrush kinky?

What I'm trying to impress upon you is that if it were common, then you would have met women who liked the idea. Of course, you may have but they didn't like the idea of doing it with you. That's not a slur, that's a statement expressing that men see kink and sex as separate from relationships but women don't. We're more likely not to want to do something just to do it. It's person specific for us.


You're correct vanilla is a very generic term, I guess I'm referring to the average lady who leads a pretty normal life and would mostly have a conventional belief system rather than a lady who presents herself a Femdom.



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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 11:11:59 PM   
Arturas


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I am interested to get some opinions on how many women are turned on and enjoy giving golden showers


I know this is off topic but what the hell, most of the answers are not answering the OP anyways...

Responses...

Well then....you've made yourself quite clear.
um...I'm not clear on if that is a yes or a no?

...stop and think a moment. You are new on site, you have a profile all about the kinky things you might enjoy all while letting people know that you aren't looking for 24/7 and come in asking questions of women, of a personal nature.
omg. "you are new, your profile sucks and how dare you ask this question blah blah blah. (but of course we want to retain newbies and so please come back)."

Wow, it was only a question. I wasnt asking for anything other than opinions!!
THis is the OP. At this point some newbies leave.

Your question was rather a leading type question. Now say... me for instance, say I was like young and all that and I loved peeing on my guy. Would you be emailing me?
So, you are asking the OP out or what?

And you got opinions. What are you complaining about?
So, this is four out of four. Does this constitute the "pile-on" discussed in another thread "how do we retain (train) newbies". Can't say for sure so let's continue to read...

The only woman who will enjoy giving you a golden shower is someone who is in a relationship with you and actually cares enough to make you happy. In that case she might get turned on due to you getting turned on. Of course, you could pay someone to do that for you.
Finally! An opinion other than "you suck" and one that was thoughtful.

I'm old, I can pee... long, long way.
Let's leave this one alone...

The OP then says"
"Thanks"
WTF. I think the OP might like old people peeing a long way and it's a kink so it's all good.

if it were common, then you would have met women who liked the idea. Of course, you may have but they didn't like the idea of doing it with you. That's not a slur
ummm..Of course it's not a slur since the poster says she knows all the private kinks of most women. Obviously she does or this would be a slur and she said it was not.

Looks as though 5-10% of sexually active women under 30 have given or received a golden shower at least once. I looked at the US only.
Two real answers and this one has statistics. I love statistics. That's a lot of women. Some of them must like it.


I've never done it but I know I really, really, don't want to.
Three great and on topic answers.

That's not true, at this point I'd piss on him just for GP.
Probably not helpful but no damage either


Resident Sadist is absolutely correct, my girlfriend is always saying "Piss on you".
This is a newbie. No comment.


Well, the newbie and the thread were saved by thee great answers. He was lucky so far but the thread is still young... grab your popcorn...

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RE: Showers - 12/20/2013 11:18:59 PM   
Arturas


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ORIGINAL: wanderingjew

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No comment.

Looks like a comment to me.


No comment.

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