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What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy play... - 12/23/2013 5:28:47 PM

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Just wanting other opinions about this issue to sniff out who is a guy posing as a girl and such?

Just wanting more opinions on this.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 5:40:26 PM

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I won't tell all my secrets as some could figure out how devious I can be, but I have found a phone call works most of the time. Can't get a throw away phone... oh well.. so sorry, your only option is cam and for more than a few minutes so I can see that it isn't video playing.

Not that I have this problem with gender... but there are other things. I just don't need a connection, so it really doesn't matter all that much to me. I don't invest myself until I see something worth investing in and by that time, we have had many phone calls.

Don't be hungry... be patient... those faking it, aren't. You can always out wait them.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 5:56:25 PM

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Not giving away my secrets either. Suffice it to say, I can tell the difference between a how women tend to phrase answers as opposed to men when asked certain questions. And I don't bother trusting phones or VOIP chat since one of my male ex-roommates could do a very convincing drag voice on his own. With the voice change program he found for voice chat, he sounded like ME. Cam, meet in person, or develop a good intuition.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 6:03:20 PM

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If I liked how the interaction was going, I met them for coffee.

As when I was looking, I was only interested in locals, if they were not able to meet within two weeks, I chalked them up as being too busy to date, not really in to me, or not able to meet because they had misrepresented themselves in some way.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 6:05:57 PM

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In response to both, i ask very specific questions, and really challenge them to come up with a really great story. I believe the past 2 i have spoken to are men. Another charachteristic of a fake, is that one moment you are talking with them via chat mid conversation, they dissapear, never to reappear again, and if they do its usually in a week or they wont apologize, i purposely don't call them out to see what they will do. Also if you notice when they send a pic via yahoo, what the pic is named, can give clues... I wont say much more as well I get what you guys are saying. Lol, well PM me anyone who has an awesome tip or two, if not i respect that you don't want to make it public so scammers cant catch on.

Lol. Now i feel a smidge foolish.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 6:09:27 PM

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Just wanting other opinions about this issue to sniff out who is a guy posing as a girl and such?

Just wanting more opinions on this.

Here is a big fat surprise for you.

Online, I don't care who is male or female. It honestly doesn't matter one whit to me. Before I am finished with them, they will likely run off in frustration regardless.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 6:11:48 PM

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I've found that people that abruptly stop talking in messenger, means their spouse just walked in, they are rude or just not interested in making a decent impression.

I don't care why they did it and an apology is typically not worth much either.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 6:13:56 PM

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If it seems to good to be true, it probably is. Like the smoking hot pics of the guy that turned out to be 10-15 years old and minus 50#.

In your case, if you are always responding to pictures of models, you are probably going to be disappointed a lot.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 6:52:20 PM

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If it seems to good to be true, it probably is. Like the smoking hot pics of the guy that turned out to be 10-15 years old and minus 50#.

In your case, if you are always responding to pictures of models, you are probably going to be disappointed a lot.

Kalik,

Who said i responded to pics of models? Seriously... 100% off base. The majority of successful encounters off of here were profiles with non pics.

Seriously.. why must all people insta flame everything on here.. can we all just be chill? Guess not.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 6:52:46 PM

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Just wanting other opinions about this issue to sniff out who is a guy posing as a girl and such?

Just wanting more opinions on this.

Who's your favorite artist? Hey, what you just said reminded me of this vid on YouTube, what do you think? What hopes and dreams do you have for your life?

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 6:56:17 PM

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Insta- flames don't work if you find humor in them because someone may be wrong or getting it wrong.

They go both ways often times and hypersensitivity and a lack of.. who the hell really cares... only flame a fire.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 6:56:31 PM

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doh.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 7:01:38 PM

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Wait, what? I didn't understand your comment at all.

That's exactly the type of question I use to sort men from women -- and, for that matter, to sort women I want to get to know from women I don't.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 7:11:51 PM

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Wait, what? I didn't understand your comment at all.

That's exactly the type of question I use to sort men from women -- and, for that matter, to sort women I want to get to know from women I don't.

I have been on the boards too long today... just skimming things too fast.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 7:15:49 PM

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I've found that people that abruptly stop talking in messenger, means their spouse just walked in, they are rude or just not interested in making a decent impression.

I don't care why they did it and an apology is typically not worth much either.

Sadly this thing called real life happens, ive left multiple times mid chat with someone because I needed to take my mom to the hospital or I needed to get to the hospital because an ambulance had to take her in.

Im happy most of the people ive spoken to were more understanding of the situation, because my mom ends up in the hospital 10 to 15 times a year.

No one in the world is worth a brb or anything when i get that call or i get the need you now Those few seconds are the difference between a ventilator or a cpap. I dont give a shit if your the pope or god himself or any other important figure. Family first, no matter what.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 7:16:20 PM

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If it seems to good to be true, it probably is. Like the smoking hot pics of the guy that turned out to be 10-15 years old and minus 50#.

In your case, if you are always responding to pictures of models, you are probably going to be disappointed a lot.

Kalik,

Who said i responded to pics of models? Seriously... 100% off base. The majority of successful encounters off of here were profiles with non pics.

Seriously.. why must all people insta flame everything on here.. can we all just be chill? Guess not.

That wasn't a flame. I gave an example from my past and was wondering if you had encountered something similar. Note the "if."

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 7:20:55 PM

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I've found that people that abruptly stop talking in messenger, means their spouse just walked in, they are rude or just not interested in making a decent impression.

I don't care why they did it and an apology is typically not worth much either.

Sadly this thing called real life happens, ive left multiple times mid chat with someone because I needed to take my mom to the hospital or I needed to get to the hospital because an ambulance had to take her in.

Im happy most of the people ive spoken to were more understanding of the situation, because my mom ends up in the hospital 10 to 15 times a year.

No one in the world is worth a brb or anything when i get that call or i get the need you now Those few seconds are the difference between a ventilator or a cpap. I dont give a shit if your the pope or god himself or any other important figure. Family first, no matter what.

This is why I typically say most people or typically and I didn't. I know this well myself after caring for my brain damaged son for so long and once in a while must rush for another reason, but I get back with people as soon as I can. Waiting for a response as to why and all that, isn't productive when they don't care to let you know what happened as soon as they can.

Thanks for the shout out on that.

When people care to make you aware, the proof is in that... but most (

) people that do that aren't in crisis mode... also... in my opinion. Hehe

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 7:26:20 PM

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The problem with you believing that everyone you are talking to is a liar who has to prove themselves honest to you is that honest people will be rightfully upset with this and therefore not want to talk to you.
You're making sure that the honest people are not ones you talk to, and ensuring that the only ones you do talk to are the liars.

I can't say that this makes any sense to me. And judging by your lack of success, it isn't working for you. Yet you insist on doing it again. That's the definition of insanity in my book.

I just looked for people with whom I had a lot of compatibility, once I determined that we did, I met him for coffee.

But most of our conversations were those between friends. How the day went and so on. You seem to be focusing on sex and play and not offering friendship. How's that working for you again?

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 7:57:31 PM

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Not a problem at all.

Im usually the one on phone duty, calling a few dozen doctors and family members, I send a text to a friend he sends messages to anyone that has a long history in my mailbox's saying FYI something came up she will get back to you asap.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 8:05:06 PM

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Not a problem at all.

Im usually the one on phone duty, calling a few dozen doctors and family members, I send a text to a friend he sends messages to anyone that has a long history in my mailbox's saying FYI something came up she will get back to you asap.

Well truly, bless your heart and life for being that person that goes to do and thankfully with someone that can help you get the information out there. That is major! Kudo's to you and may you have the strength you need to meet the challenges.

Sorry for the highjack... But sometimes you just have to say what you really feel or think.

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