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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 8:06:01 PM

littlewonder

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None.

It doesn't matter to me if they are male or female since I'm not looking for a relationship.

When I was looking for a relationship, I still didn't ask specific questions to sniff them out. I just talk to people. If I find them interesting enough, then I meet them. If they are not who they say they are or whatever, then no big deal. I wasted nothing but a little time. Not like I put all my eggs in one basket. I don't put expectations on people. I meet people just because it's something to do and I have other plans just in case so no one is disappointed. I don't go away angry or yelling "FAKE!". I just shrug my shoulders and say "meh..incompatible" and move on.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/23/2013 9:33:05 PM

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The problem with you believing that everyone you are talking to is a liar who has to prove themselves honest to you is that honest people will be rightfully upset with this and therefore not want to talk to you.
You're making sure that the honest people are not ones you talk to, and ensuring that the only ones you do talk to are the liars.

I can't say that this makes any sense to me. And judging by your lack of success, it isn't working for you. Yet you insist on doing it again. That's the definition of insanity in my book.

I just looked for people with whom I had a lot of compatibility, once I determined that we did, I met him for coffee.

But most of our conversations were those between friends. How the day went and so on. You seem to be focusing on sex and play and not offering friendship. How's that working for you again?

Is this about me? Or someone else? I've had a lot of success, so ... not sure who you are directing this to.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 1:51:42 AM

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Like some others here, I'm not really bothered if its a man pretending to be a female because I'm not looking either but I tend to spot men posing as females fairly quickly. Men can't help but get a bit pervy (when they are posing as a woman). They have an agenda or they wouldn't be posing as the opposite sex! Shehe's tend to ask questions like, 'what would you do to me?' and they talk about their amazing body but without any idea of how breast size works. Females tend to ask more questions. Shehe's (in my experience) want to talk about themselves and get down to business.... BDSM business.

It's different for you because you are looking and why waste time on someone who is very probably wasting yours.

Ask what denier stockings they like. Most men don't know what denier is and so the answer may take a while whilst they google for an answer!. This won't work if she is a full on tv but it will work if he is just a bloke trying to get his jollies.

Ask for a webcam viewing within a certain time frame and make that time frame short. You are after all, looking for a hook up and not just passing the time of day with this person.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 6:53:30 AM

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I talk vanilla for a while. That drives off everyone except those interested in a real relationship.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 7:09:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: DsCouple23

Just wanting other opinions about this issue to sniff out who is a guy posing as a girl and such?

Just wanting more opinions on this.

I say Bye.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 10:11:56 AM

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I hate to hijack this for a bit.....but why would a guy put up a womens profile seeking out Doms......when he is a Dom with a sub???

I ask because my ex Dom did this. I Found them after his death. He had used three of his ex subs pictures and made a profile for each.

He actual befriend one women with all three profiles. I ask here because I can not ask him

Thanks for any answers...

By the way all three profiles are now gone and none of the women even knew about them till I let them know. Needless to say they are most happy they are gone also.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 10:30:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: Rawni

I've found that people that abruptly stop talking in messenger, means their spouse just walked in, they are rude or just not interested in making a decent impression.

I've walked away in the middle of the conversation when it's become obvious that the person I'm talking to is a flaming asshat and if I try to explain why I'm walking away, they won't get it. So, I guess that falls under "I wasn't interested in making a decent impression".

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 10:38:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: EventideFortuna

Not a problem at all.

Im usually the one on phone duty, calling a few dozen doctors and family members, I send a text to a friend he sends messages to anyone that has a long history in my mailbox's saying FYI something came up she will get back to you asap.

Well truly, bless your heart and life for being that person that goes to do and thankfully with someone that can help you get the information out there. That is major! Kudo's to you and may you have the strength you need to meet the challenges.

Sorry for the highjack... But sometimes you just have to say what you really feel or think.

EventideFortuna is good people and has at least one person in her life that she could literally trust with her life. I envy that and hope to have someone I can trust like that eventually.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 10:38:56 AM

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I ask them to insert vegetables into their snatch live on camera. That usually clears matters up.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 11:31:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: Rasciallymisty

I hate to hijack this for a bit.....but why would a guy put up a womens profile seeking out Doms......when he is a Dom with a sub???

I ask because my ex Dom did this. I Found them after his death. He had used three of his ex subs pictures and made a profile for each.

He actual befriend one women with all three profiles. I ask here because I can not ask him

Thanks for any answers...

By the way all three profiles are now gone and none of the women even knew about them till I let them know. Needless to say they are most happy they are gone also.

This was buried and I barely saw it. You might want to start a thread.

My belief (knowing nothing about the situation really) is, as I've quoted before, "It's an open secret that Owners sometimes need to recharge."

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 12:04:40 PM

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Thank you Red I will do that :)

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 12:08:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DsCouple23

Just wanting other opinions about this issue to sniff out who is a guy posing as a girl and such?

Just wanting more opinions on this.

Lots of things.
I once had a *woman* tell me that "she" just wanted a little on the side and that "she" didn't want "her" husband "MARK" to find out! lol, why would "she" name her spouse?
Also, when you start inquiring and "she" says; "I'm ALL GIRL!" That's a DEAD GIVEAWAY.
And when they contact you first, be wary.
Oh, and as Oside said when they ask you to tell them what you'd do to them B&D wise that's a HUGE red flag!
I ask anyone fairly early on to take a pic with the local newspaper next to their face and another with the date.
And then right to phone calls.
One of those idiots thought that whispering would disguise his voice! lol, it didn't!

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 12:24:04 PM

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i had a flippant reply about how i hire magnum pi to investigate anybody i talk to more than three times, but then i erased it because i realized maybe this is a real problem for a lot of people?

maybe i don't really understand how trying to meet people works here because that's really not why i'm here in the first place. it seems like if you bother to spend some time getting to know somebody and having conversations that move beyond kink a la carte and other banalities you ought to be able to tell, unless the person is a very dedicated and gifted dissembler, who you're dealing with. is it really that much different meeting somebody from this site vs meeting someone from okcupid?

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 12:46:59 PM

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nope, it's not any different. You just have a lot of people who are socially inept.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/24/2013 2:05:22 PM

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I talk vanilla for a while. That drives off everyone except those interested in a real relationship.

^^^^^This, absolutely. Someone posing is only posing for one thing, and he wants to get to it asap. He doesn't want to waste time talking about the weather or current events. He wants to get down to the dirty talk.

Many men like statistics. "Big boobs" isn't good enough, he wants details, it's bra size and cup size . If he has a small boob fetish, then he'll make sure he says something like "32A". A woman would probably just say "small ones" and wait till he asks, and he will, what size bra.

If anything sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Super-hot horney women don't have to look for it online with strangers from other towns or states. She can just walk into a bar and sit down, some guy will be talking to her before her seat gets warm, and half a dozen others are lining up.

If he slips and says something that doesn't make sense, like uses the wrong pronoun, call him on it and be suspicious of their excuse or innocence.

Don't let yourself get so charmed and blown away by pretty pictures and words on the screen. Be freaking suspicious of every single contact you make, and don't make excuses for anything that seems even a little bit odd. Listen to your gut instinct, not your heart believing in miracles. Your gut knows best.

I don't ask many questions, I just listen to what they say and stay detached. If you do that and use common sense, they'll tell you everything you need to know.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/25/2013 12:24:35 PM

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There are things I would say that can help determine if the person is pretending to be a woman:

1)If they make statements like "Oh,I am so hot" and go on in detail about their breasts and so forth, it is probably a guy pretending. Guys think women talk like that, when women don't, except in fiction stories written by men

2)If they quickly in the conversation turn to talking about what you will do to them, being specific about certain acts, etc.......again, women for the most part don't do that, they want to talk, get to know someone, that is a guy

3)If the conversation as such is dominated by them, it is a guy more than likely, if for everything about you, there is 5 about them, definitely:)

4)If they start talking about doing things like threesomes and so forth, it is a guy. Unless my experience is totally off, women don't divulge that kind of stuff easily, especially with someone they don't know.

5)Use of language, most women don't routinely use words like tits, cunt and so forth, not in initial talks...they may be able to use it in dirty talk with a lover, but to a stranger? Not common IME.....

My general rule, if what the person on the other side could be said by a man, likely it is:)

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/25/2013 12:49:57 PM

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Talk to people who will meet you for coffee.

Anything short of that is fantasy.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/26/2013 5:10:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I talk vanilla for a while. That drives off everyone except those interested in a real relationship.

^^ Yep.

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/26/2013 6:45:41 PM

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RE: What are some questions you ask to sniff out a guy ... - 12/26/2013 7:10:42 PM

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