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RE: this site sucks - 12/24/2013 6:32:15 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Alrighty then, you're entitled to your opinion.

Here's mine:

This is a text-based site. Verbals skills are important here, and you don't appear to have any.

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RE: this site sucks - 12/24/2013 6:38:45 AM

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~FRing it~

I'm honestly not really clear on what you are trying to say, OP. It takes time and patience to find someone. It took me 6 years to finally find my guy...and it's 6 years well wasted because it's been worth it to find him.

People above have given great advice. Can't really add to what I think is great information. It's up to you to take from it what you will.

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RE: this site sucks - 12/24/2013 6:50:31 AM

DarkSteven

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cowboy, we just had a discussion on being nice to new members. So I'll try to be nice.

1. Nobody's under any obligation to reply. Women gets lots of messages each day. The very fact that you expect a reply, shows that you don't get the Internet thing.
2. You have a blank profile. You call yourself a Dom, but that alone does not guarantee compatibility with any female sub - they have to have a potential connection with you. You're not giving them anything to go on.
3. Amazon.com is a site where you do a quick search, order what you like, and you get it. Almost effortlessly. This isn't Amazon - there are real people on the other side, and they don't have to fulfill your order.
4. As politely as possible, writing isn't your strongest point. I'd suggest you try to meet people at local munches, where personal interaction is more important than writing style.
5. You made a blank profile, and likely messaged lots of women with a poor message. Both bad moves, and you didn't bother to read the forums to realize that they would fail. Then you blamed the site itself when things didn't work for you. In other words, when you messed up, you blamed someone other than you. Lack of personal accountability is NOT a trait that subs like to see in Doms.

With all that said, welcome to the site, and better luck going forward.

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RE: this site sucks - 12/24/2013 9:13:22 AM

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Meh. Too easy.

And anyone who beats a cake is just a sadist!

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RE: this site sucks - 12/24/2013 9:46:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Lack of personal accountability is NOT a trait that subs like to see in Doms.

This was the first thing i thought of. Also you might want to declutter the background of your pic.

You have gotten some great tips here. I hope you will take them into consideration. Good luck to you.

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RE: this site sucks - 12/24/2013 10:35:34 AM

OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr

You're abso-fuckin'-lutely right. if I were you, I'd demand my money back and then, flounce off in a huff.

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: cowboy01

hello it really sucks here sorry you write to some one and no answer you see slaves?? who say do not write me then why are you here? i have seen site but this one really beats the cake you have no chance in hell here

Hey there Pardner, can you try that again in 'Merikan?

He once sent me an email. It was as incomprehensible as the OP...and I replied the exact same way you did Stef.

Since my profile says "Just here for the forums" and he decided to ignore that and email me anyway....we know that at least part of the problem is that he doesn't pay attention or have reading retention.

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RE: this site sucks - 12/24/2013 10:37:13 AM

ResidentSadist

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You think the site sucks . . . you should meet the people on it. I met my girl here and she can suck like a champ.

Just sayin'

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RE: this site sucks - 12/24/2013 11:04:37 AM

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