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EdBowie -> RE: Pimped out? (12/25/2013 2:09:42 AM)

It's a powerful fantasy. And then when you wake up, you are in one piece.
Real life, not so much.

If you are lucky and use a lot of common sense, you'll find people you can develop a healthy relationship with and trust to act out that fantasy in a good way (presuming that you yourself, are healthy).

The odds of having a good experience with random strangers, hover around the low zeros



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ORIGINAL: virginboymeat

Hi

Has any slave been pimped out and if so whats it like, I really want to know?





ResidentSadist -> RE: Pimped out? (12/25/2013 3:27:12 AM)

It is exactly the same as any adult sex work. It's work, not sex. I answer you knowledgeably from the voice of experience. Having run an escort service and being in the lifestyle, I can tell you the slaves felt exactly the same as free girls did about sex work. It's not sexy. Trust me.




Oneechan -> RE: Pimped out? (12/25/2013 4:24:23 AM)

i work as an escort for the past 4 years, so i have a little experience here. i've also beem pimped out by a dominant.
Having the dominant involved in some way added a nice extra dimension, but at the end of the day it was still work. i had been an escort before meeting her, and still am. I certainly found it more fun than working by myself, and there was a nice extra dimension of safety in having someone nearby

re: Pimping out to random strangers. I don't get why everyone is so miffy about this.. It's a simple fact that 99% of escort clients (at least for theirr first visit)are unknown strangers to the escort. And i've managed to not get raped or murdered so far. dealing with unknown strangers is a fact of life in any public-facing occupation, although escorting is a bit more personal. Most people don't pay their friends for sex, if you want to get paid for it, then random strangers are a necessary fact of life.

in my experience, most clients are fairly reasonable people. usually they're very anxious or nervous, they're often cheating on a wife or partner, or skiping out on a lunch break from work. They have their own life to attend to, and you're just providing a service to help them relax.

i keep a personal alarm on hand, and a variety of weapons secreted away around the house in case of dire emergencies, but i've never had to use any of that stuff.

people's personal experience of escorting might vary depending on legality. its legal here, although a lot of clients seem to think it isn't.




TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Pimped out? (12/25/2013 8:35:24 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Oneechan

i work as an escort for the past 4 years, so i have a little experience here. i've also beem pimped out by a dominant.
Having the dominant involved in some way added a nice extra dimension, but at the end of the day it was still work. i had been an escort before meeting her, and still am. I certainly found it more fun than working by myself, and there was a nice extra dimension of safety in having someone nearby

re: Pimping out to random strangers. I don't get why everyone is so miffy about this.. It's a simple fact that 99% of escort clients (at least for theirr first visit)are unknown strangers to the escort. And i've managed to not get raped or murdered so far. dealing with unknown strangers is a fact of life in any public-facing occupation, although escorting is a bit more personal. Most people don't pay their friends for sex, if you want to get paid for it, then random strangers are a necessary fact of life.

in my experience, most clients are fairly reasonable people. usually they're very anxious or nervous, they're often cheating on a wife or partner, or skiping out on a lunch break from work. They have their own life to attend to, and you're just providing a service to help them relax.

i keep a personal alarm on hand, and a variety of weapons secreted away around the house in case of dire emergencies, but i've never had to use any of that stuff.

people's personal experience of escorting might vary depending on legality. its legal here, although a lot of clients seem to think it isn't.


Don't know about the UK...but here in the US "wanting to get paid" for sex means you must operate outside the law because it is illegal...That alone puts you at risk because many people who have no qualms about breaking ONE law have no problem breaking 2 or more (homicide, assault, drugs...). Sex work is legal in UK??? Wow! Surprised there are no tour groups...




eulero83 -> RE: Pimped out? (12/25/2013 9:22:38 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss


quote:

ORIGINAL: Oneechan

i work as an escort for the past 4 years, so i have a little experience here. i've also beem pimped out by a dominant.
Having the dominant involved in some way added a nice extra dimension, but at the end of the day it was still work. i had been an escort before meeting her, and still am. I certainly found it more fun than working by myself, and there was a nice extra dimension of safety in having someone nearby

re: Pimping out to random strangers. I don't get why everyone is so miffy about this.. It's a simple fact that 99% of escort clients (at least for theirr first visit)are unknown strangers to the escort. And i've managed to not get raped or murdered so far. dealing with unknown strangers is a fact of life in any public-facing occupation, although escorting is a bit more personal. Most people don't pay their friends for sex, if you want to get paid for it, then random strangers are a necessary fact of life.

in my experience, most clients are fairly reasonable people. usually they're very anxious or nervous, they're often cheating on a wife or partner, or skiping out on a lunch break from work. They have their own life to attend to, and you're just providing a service to help them relax.

i keep a personal alarm on hand, and a variety of weapons secreted away around the house in case of dire emergencies, but i've never had to use any of that stuff.

people's personal experience of escorting might vary depending on legality. its legal here, although a lot of clients seem to think it isn't.


Don't know about the UK...but here in the US "wanting to get paid" for sex means you must operate outside the law because it is illegal...That alone puts you at risk because many people who have no qualms about breaking ONE law have no problem breaking 2 or more (homicide, assault, drugs...). Sex work is legal in UK??? Wow! Surprised there are no tour groups...



If you look at the wikipedia page for prostitution in europe you can find som information you need for your new travel agency and where to bring your groups in tour.
In UK prostitution is legal but not regulated like in Italy so I suppose it works the same, in Italy it's not illegal for a person to exchange money for sex but are illegal exploitation and abetting so pimping is illegal or owning a massage parlour where happy ending are offered, in no case the prostitute is charged with something else than tax fraud if they don't declare those money. Child prostitution is the only case I know where the client is punished.
If some of your friends wants to plan a trip the german speeking area is probably the better organized and czech republic the less expensive.




ivone57 -> RE: Pimped out? (12/26/2013 2:16:56 AM)

i dont think so... im not a ho for one reason and for another its illegal... sooner or later your either going to catch a disease you cant get rid of or something bad is going to happen.... just saying




Dvr22999874 -> RE: Pimped out? (12/26/2013 2:39:26 AM)

Good for you Oneechan..............it's legal here too and also controlled within limits. I fail to see why people (male and female) are so horrified by the idea. All the working girls here ahve regular medical checks and it is the law that condoms are used. A weirds law here is that is is even illegal for a client to ASK for bareback............I sometimes wonder how that could ever be enforced *LOL*.
Hell, it should be classified as fraud...........you have it, you sell it, you take the money, you still got it and walk away with it.




EdBowie -> RE: Pimped out? (12/26/2013 2:48:04 AM)

FR

Yanno.... I'm having a hard time seeing the OP's question as resulting in a real pimp deciding to drop thousands of dollars on wardrobe, apartment, etc. to set him up as a high priced escort.... just sayin'.




kalikshama -> RE: Pimped out? (12/26/2013 6:15:03 AM)

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I fail to see why people (male and female) are so horrified by the idea.


In the US, where most of the posters are based, prostitution is, with one exception, illegal, and often unsafe. Responses from US posters will reflect that.

This is not to say that US posters think prostitution should stay illegal - in other threads, this has not been the case.

See also:

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

It is exactly the same as any adult sex work. It's work, not sex. I answer you knowledgeably from the voice of experience. Having run an escort service and being in the lifestyle, I can tell you the slaves felt exactly the same as free girls did about sex work. It's not sexy. Trust me.




Kana -> RE: Pimped out? (12/26/2013 7:12:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: virginboymeat

Hi

Has any slave been pimped out and if so whats it like, I really want to know?

Depends on how much you like loitering in doctors offices, waiting for the results of STD testing




eulero83 -> RE: Pimped out? (12/26/2013 8:33:23 AM)


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ORIGINAL: EdBowie

FR

Yanno.... I'm having a hard time seeing the OP's question as resulting in a real pimp deciding to drop thousands of dollars on wardrobe, apartment, etc. to set him up as a high priced escort.... just sayin'.


Honestly I'm having a hard time seeing the OP's question as something elses than a way to get masturbatory material to read.




Phoenixpower -> RE: Pimped out? (12/26/2013 8:36:29 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: eulero83


quote:

ORIGINAL: EdBowie

FR

Yanno.... I'm having a hard time seeing the OP's question as resulting in a real pimp deciding to drop thousands of dollars on wardrobe, apartment, etc. to set him up as a high priced escort.... just sayin'.


Honestly I'm having a hard time seeing the OP's question as something elses than a way to get masturbatory material to read.


exactly EdBowie [:)]




Phoenixpower -> RE: Pimped out? (12/26/2013 8:38:38 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: virginboymeat

Hi

Has any slave been pimped out and if so whats it like, I really want to know?

Depends on how much you like loitering in doctors offices, waiting for the results of STD testing


yep....or the "awesome" letter to return for one of the tests....not knowing if the will have to re-do the HIV one or a different one....to doublecheck....in my case....thankfully....it was about a different one which had to be re-done [:)]




Oneechan -> RE: Pimped out? (12/27/2013 5:03:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Kana
Depends on how much you like loitering in doctors offices, waiting for the results of STD testing


i can't speak for the US healthcare system, but that sounds awfully archaic.

I get health screening eery six weeks, for occupational safety x i book my appointments at the clinic in advance.
when the appointment day comes up, i go over to the clinic, and i lounge about enjoying the free wifi until i get called in. An average appointment takes about 20 minutes of swabs, samples, and friendly chat with the doctor, and then we get a little green results card.

The card has all the details necessary so that you can, somtime in the next week, call up the automated results system and retrieve your test results from the database. aside from that i just make another appointment and had home.




MariaB -> RE: Pimped out? (12/27/2013 9:29:18 AM)

I think the majority of escorts are cleaner than a lot of women out their. They tend to be a lot more careful and they don't make exceptions.

Back to topic!

I think being pimped out is a very popular fantasy, not only in the BDSM world but amongst women generally. Its on a similar level to 'being taken by force' and therefore its best kept as fantasy. Saying that BDSM is much about fantasy. Its here we can create our dreams and live out our fantasies within a safe haven... providing of course, we have done our homework properly.

I have been known to say to my male subs, 'do that again and I will sell your ass for a mars bar'. I haven't actually sold anyone's ass for a mars bar but I'm a girl who never says 'never'!

Within a scene environment, I see no reason why a submissive can't be pimped out and before anyone shouts at me, I'm talking about a spoken and desired fantasy and not something forced on anyone. It doesn't have to be for sex, I know plenty of men who would pay good money to have a submissive submit to them and if this was done within a club setting where the dominant could keep a close eye on things, then alls good providing everyone is happy. The sub isn't getting turned on by the 'johns' that are using her, she's getting turned on by her dominants control over her and therefore, this sort of fantasy can be compromised both in length and width.





ResidentSadist -> RE: Pimped out? (12/28/2013 11:08:18 PM)

"do that again and I will sell your ass for a mars bar"

Oh how I like that one.




AlluraVogue -> RE: Pimped out? (12/29/2013 12:11:07 PM)

I've never been pimped out but the concept seems terrifying in a world filled with disease.




Ilyrium -> RE: Pimped out? (12/29/2013 12:21:26 PM)

Is it just me, or is the OP's desire to be a cuckold?




Greta75 -> RE: Pimped out? (12/29/2013 12:22:53 PM)

Can't you just role play the pimp out thingy then, it could be fun and safe.




LanceHughes -> RE: Pimped out? (12/29/2013 12:41:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
"do that again and I will sell your ass for a mars bar"

Oh how I like that one.

I liked it even better because I read it as:
"do that again and I will sell your ass at a man's bar"  LOL!




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