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Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 12:20:57 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Another thread sparked this question for me..

Why would a Male Dom make several female profiles seeking another Dom?

I can not ask him as he passed away before I discovered this, actually it was by accident that I discover the three he has made up.

He had used three of his ex subs pictures and made a profile for each and he befriend one women with all three profiles.

This has been the one thing that I have not been able to put to rest since finding out, as he had them during the 6 1/2 years that we where together.

They where all active up till the day I ended up taking his computer from him.

Thanks for any answers... as this has me confused.

By the way all three profiles are now gone and none of the women where ever even on CM, they had no clue.

Needless to say they are most happy they are gone.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 12:33:09 PM

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I feel compelled to ask if your master was Canadian.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 12:44:59 PM

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1. He was a bi-sexual switch who couldn't admit it.
2. He liked having a bit of fun online, stringing people along.
3. He liked cybersex and found it easier to get that way.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 12:45:45 PM

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to get anything approaching a useful answer, you'd have to go into all sorts of details that are nobody's damn business. the behavior is in line with any number of very different personality disorders.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 12:58:52 PM

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No Calamity he was not Canadian.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 1:01:41 PM

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I would have to think it was most likely two of the three....knowing him as well as I did....lol or thought I did.

Thanks littlewonder....I am not sure why I did not think of these things myself. It just left me so confused.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 1:03:50 PM

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Thank you Hip....your answer has hit closer to home than I care to admit, but did not discover till after his death.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 1:06:06 PM

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He thought women would respond easier to other female subs extolling the benefits of being with him.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 1:06:38 PM

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One thing I'm not clear on. If you didn't find out about his alternate profiles until after his death, why did you take his computer?

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 1:09:47 PM

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I know all about trying to figure out secrets that were found out after someone dies.. The hardest thing about them is you will never know the true answer-he is not here to explain & everyone else will most likely be making guesses or giving opinions colored by their own experiences.. Sometimes we just have to let something go, accept that no person is perfect & that everyone has at least of few things in their closet that they never acknowledge while alive.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 1:19:22 PM

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He became very ill the last six months of his life, I was his power or attorney and all his banking was done on line along with other things.
I had took his computer because he could no longer use it to do what needed to be done. I rather not go into more detail about the hows and whys.
I just wanted to know if anyone could maybe give me some kind of in sight to what he may have been thinking.
I have to say the answers thus far ...make a lot of sense to me and have helped.

Thanks to those of you that have offered up your thoughts....they have been helpful.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 1:28:08 PM

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Probably just living in his own fantasy about having multiple women.

I'm sorry for your loss....life can be pretty complicated. :)

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 2:05:41 PM

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I'd just like to say that it doesn't mean that what you and he shared was a lie. It means that there was a piece of himself that he didn't share, but he kept it in cyberspace. He gave the rest of himself to you.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 3:07:01 PM

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Thank you wind and I found out after his passing that he did have multiple women whom have become very good and personal friends of mine.....once we worked through the heart.

Also thank you so much for your kind words.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 3:08:22 PM

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Red you have c-mail I hope that you do mind that I sent you a personal message there and not here on the boards.

Thank you for your kind words.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 3:23:44 PM

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I can't really answer this without knowing more about him. I have a few guesses though:

1) Trolling.
2) Trying to get wank fodder.
3) Hiding part of him from you.
4) Lying to himself about part of himself.
5) Putting things in the spank bank,

Two of those are the same thing because I think it's the most likely.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 3:51:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rasciallymisty

Red you have c-mail I hope that you do mind that I sent you a personal message there and not here on the boards.

Thank you for your kind words.

You're welcome. Just so you know, I'll probably read it on the 26th. Take care.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/24/2013 4:29:35 PM

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I've got a guess, though I'm not terribly sure that it's one that would make you happy.

Was this something that he did after he became sick or received his diagnosis? If so, it may not have anything to do with you. It may have been his way of dealing with the fact that he knew he was going to get worse or might have been some kind of escape. Taking on female profiles would allow him to make 'friends' easier and would disconnect him from the illness he was facing. There have been times that I've noticed over the years that *some* folks that make multiple profiles are having trouble facing their reality. They are looking at something that they can't deal with and if they are (pretending to be) somebody else, then they can remove themselves from it, at least for a little while.

When people do that, I agree with Red. It doesn't mean the people in their real lives aren't important. They just really aren't looking at everything as a whole. They don't do it because of the happy part. Just the parts they can't handle. I'd think a terminal illness could fit that. He may have even seen it as a way of protecting you because he was afraid.

That's the best I've got.

Edited - typo

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/26/2013 8:27:04 AM

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Thank you all for your replies .....they have helped.

Hope you all have a wonderful Holiday Season.

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RE: Why would a male Dom make up a female sub profile? - 12/26/2013 10:27:52 PM

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I had a male sub set up a fake female Domme profile and use her as a "reference." Maybe it was something like that?

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