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FFM - 12/24/2013 6:56:21 PM

FunCouple696969

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Hi Ladies

Looking for a lady in the Leeds/West Yorkshire area to join us for some fun.

Look forward to hearing from you

R&R

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RE: FFM - 12/24/2013 8:17:02 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome R&R, nice to have you here with us.

You are on the discussion side and not the dating side so what you are seeking will not be found here. You may have better luck on the other side.

Hopefully you will stick around and par take in some of the discussions. Its always nice to have new faces among us.

Best of luck to you and Merry Christmas.

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RE: FFM - 12/24/2013 10:06:23 PM

TieMeInKnottss

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Welcome! Good luck on your unicorn hunt! may they be more plentiful on your side of the pond!!

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RE: FFM - 12/24/2013 10:24:21 PM

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Good luck.

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RE: FFM - 12/25/2013 10:27:24 AM

FunCouple696969

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thanks guys - any advice on where I should post please?

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RE: FFM - 12/25/2013 10:43:00 AM

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There is no place in the forums for personal ads. What you need to do is go to the Collarme side (Home) and set the criteria to what you seek so that the only profiles that show up are ones that could work for you. Then it's a matter of reading through the profiles and finding those that might be a fit.

It might be a good idea for you to go to the Poly forum and do a search (top right of the page) for the word "unicorn." People often call a bi female who is willing to join a couple a unicorn. The name is not because unicorns are impossible to find, but they are very rare. I'd estimate there are 100 or more couples looking for each unicorn looking for that situation. Anyway, the search will let you read about what others are doing to find their own unicorns, what worked and what did not. It might give you some ideas on how to broaden your own search.

From what I have read in your profile you seek a fuck buddy more than someone to be a loving member of your family. A female willing to add spice to your sex life is usually the most difficult to find. I'd suggest you look locally in your BDSM community and maybe even the swingers groups.

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RE: FFM - 12/25/2013 10:54:17 AM

FunCouple696969

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thanks peppermint

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RE: FFM - 12/25/2013 11:10:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

I'd suggest you look locally in your BDSM community and maybe even the swingers groups.

Seconded. It is incredibly easy to search online, but you have a very low success rate.

I have been active in my local BDSM community for four or five years. That's where I met my sub just under three years ago. Shortly thereafter, we invited a young lady over for dinner and chat. She declined an offer to play afterward. We kept in touch, but drifted apart. She rejoined the local community tentatively, and I reached out to her. She's not being considered as a sub to the two of us.

We've got another friend that we reached out to two years ago, and met her along with her then-Dom. We've played nonsexually with her, sometimes with another male top, sometimes with just the two of us, off and on, for maybe a year.

I know three or four other women that would be interested in playing with us. For time or other reasons, we're not following up.

It took several years, but we are able to use the community to get friends, play partners, whatever.

Please note that we make a practice of giving to the community as well. I've tutored some folks, guided others safely into the groups and kept an eye out for them, etc. My sub even provided a bit of legal help to someone who needed it. It helps tremendously to have people who feel they've been helped by us.

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RE: FFM - 12/25/2013 1:40:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
She's not being considered as a sub to the two of us.

Oops. I meant "NOW being considered..."

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