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Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/25/2013 7:38:09 AM

DomDraven

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Just wanted to say hello to everyone and introduce myself. I'm Draven ~waves~ and have just recently joined Collarme. I've been in the lifestyle for many years...started out in Northern California a number of years ago, however now live in the midwest. When I first started I did have to bottom in order to learn from some of the mentors I had, but really all it did was prove to me that I'm not a bottom or a sub in any way. I was in a M/s relationship for many years, that ended when she didn't walk away from an accident we were in (a drunk driver hit us). Since then I have been with a few subs, however things never worked out with them.

Recently I have been spending my time with a good friend who I used to be in a D/s relationship with, however that never worked out for either of us. Although we have nothing official I do care about her a great deal and am really only looking to make some new friends on here. I believe a good D/s relationship is built on friendship, trust and a mutual meeting of the minds, so am always open to where things might lead. I hope everyone is having a safe and wonderful Holiday Season, and I look forward to making some new friends and participating in the discussions here.

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/25/2013 8:22:42 AM

TieMeInKnottss

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Welcome. Sorry for your loss. There are, sadly, many who will be able to commiserate on that topic. Good luck and I look forward to your input on the forums.

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/25/2013 9:04:42 AM

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Thank you for the welcome :)

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/25/2013 11:11:45 AM

DarkSteven

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Hey! I know you from that other site!

Welcome.

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/25/2013 11:13:14 AM

DomDraven

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LOL! Yush you do :D And thank you for the welcome :)

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/25/2013 12:42:17 PM

TieMeInKnottss

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Ironically enough, there is a discussion going on in the "Off Topic" forum started by a young sub in CA who recently lost her Dom to cancer (topic title is "Good Grief"). She was asking for ways to deal with the grief. You may be a welcome contributor!

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/25/2013 1:24:46 PM

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Thank you for letting me know about that. I'll go take a look at that thread and see if there is anything I could contribute that may help. It was many years ago that this happened to me, however it is something that a person never really forgets or gets over, so maybe I could share some of my thoughts with her.

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/25/2013 1:35:56 PM

CynthiaWVirginia

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Merry Christmas and welcome to CollarMe.

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/25/2013 1:40:24 PM

DomDraven

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Thank you so much!! :)

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/25/2013 7:28:44 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome, its nice to have you join us here. I am so sorry for your loss......but I believe there will be a new door that will open up for you.

There are some good discussions going on right now, hopefully you will stick around and join in some.

Hope you enjoy your time well here....

Merry Christmas to you.

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/26/2013 6:39:29 AM

DomDraven

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Thank you so much, and the same to you! I've just started going through some of the discussions, and definitely see some I will participate in!! I hope you had a wonderful Holiday!!

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RE: Happy Holidays...and hello! - 12/27/2013 8:02:20 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Awe thank you kindly and right back at you.

So glad a few of the post have caught your eye....happy posting to you.

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