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Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 5:04:10 PM   
KickassUsername


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Status: offline 		The only doms in my area that I have chatted with keep telling me to go sign up for a 20$ account on alt.com. I obviously never have since I'm kind of weary of the scammers floating around here. Has anyone else noticed this? And, do you think it's advisable to avoid signing up for one of these, or is it like a common practices amongst doms?
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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 5:12:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Denver has a very lively D/s BDSM community. I would suggest attending some events rather than paying to sign up on Alt. Even their paid subscriptions are disappointing.

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 5:14:02 PM   
KickassUsername


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Status: offline 		Thanks OsideGirl. Yeah I've noticed there are quite a few events here in Denver, unfortunately they are all like 50+ year olds and I'm only 23 :/

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 5:20:19 PM   
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The only doms in my area that I have chatted with keep telling me to go sign up for a 20$ account on alt.com. I obviously never have since I'm kind of weary of the scammers floating around here. Has anyone else noticed this? And, do you think it's advisable to avoid signing up for one of these, or is it like a common practices amongst doms?

Alt was a great site back in the day. I met people there, definitely worth the money at the time. However, it changed ownership and the new people made a bunch of bad decisions. At this point, it deserves to die.

Are you looking for a hookup with a top, or for a relationship with a man who tells you what to do? If it's the first, gay.com and grindr are probably your best bets. If it's the second, CollarMe is a hetero-leaning site, unfortunately. You probably won't find a local dom here. However, there are a few gay men, both dom and sub, who post on these boards and are high quality people. So if they see this thread, you might get more specific advice.

Also, it's worth attending local events whenever there are classes and demonstrations. You probably won't pick up anybody, but you'll gain important knowledge about safety, and you'll realize new things are possible that you didn't know about before.

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 5:22:57 PM   
KickassUsername


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Status: offline 		Thanks a lot for the recommendations! I'll keep that in mind. And I'm actually straight, I'm sure if I was using the right term by "dom". What would you recommend for finding a lifestyle dominatrix girl?

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 5:27:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, the word is usually "femdom" or "domme." Or "dominant woman."

You seem like a decent guy, and you've got a decent pic. I think you have a better chance than most. You might want to take a look at this.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057130/tm.htm

Good luck.

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 5:57:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, stay away from Porn...it will screw up your expectations and make them unrealistic. Dominant women are REAL people...with leader type personalities, not actors, not caterers, so don't expect to hand them a fetish "to do" list and have them perform for you. You probably know some Dominant women already, you just haven't learned how to spot them.


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ORIGINAL: KickassUsername

What would you recommend for finding a lifestyle dominatrix girl?


And by the way, Domme is pronounced "Dom" not "Dom-ee" (the feminizing "-me" on the end is silent)

< Message edited by MAINEiacMISTRESS -- 12/27/2013 6:03:19 PM >

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 6:08:55 PM   
David92506


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Status: offline 		Unless, of course, if they are Pro-Domme and you are paying them by the hour.
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ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

Well, stay away from Porn...it will screw up your expectations and make them unrealistic. Dominant women are REAL people...with leader type personalities, not actors, not caterers, so don't expect to hand them a fetish "to do" list and have them perform for you. You probably know some Dominant women already, you just haven't learned how to spot them.


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ORIGINAL: KickassUsername

What would you recommend for finding a lifestyle dominatrix girl?


And by the way, Domme is pronounced "Dom" not "Dom-ee" (the feminizing "-me" on the end is silent)


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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 6:22:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh wow! That is definitely one of those spelling errors that change everything! I had a whole response ready to post and then saw the "I am straight"... Alt is very popular with the "professional" set... Female Dommes are hard to find online. The odds are just not good. Does Denver have any TNG groups? Dark Steven, who is very active in the Denver scene, may come along and answer that hopefully!

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 6:41:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, but he specified "LIFESTYLE" not "pro"...and his original post was leaning toward wanting NON-pay.


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Unless, of course, if they are Pro-Domme and you are paying them by the hour.
quote:

ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS

Well, stay away from Porn...it will screw up your expectations and make them unrealistic. Dominant women are REAL people...with leader type personalities, not actors, not caterers, so don't expect to hand them a fetish "to do" list and have them perform for you. You probably know some Dominant women already, you just haven't learned how to spot them.


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ORIGINAL: KickassUsername

What would you recommend for finding a lifestyle dominatrix girl?


And by the way, Domme is pronounced "Dom" not "Dom-ee" (the feminizing "-me" on the end is silent)





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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 7:17:30 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Fetlife is free and lists meetings in your area. They have a group of TNG meaning 21 to 35 years old in the greater Denver area.

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 7:26:35 PM   
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Thanks OsideGirl. Yeah I've noticed there are quite a few events here in Denver, unfortunately they are all like 50+ year olds and I'm only 23 :/


Your best bets would be Skales and TNG night at the Sanctuary. Skales attracts a younger crowd, and TNG night is limited to 18-35.

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 7:46:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KickassUsername

Thanks OsideGirl. Yeah I've noticed there are quite a few events here in Denver, unfortunately they are all like 50+ year olds and I'm only 23 :/



Yup, go looking for a TNG group and you'll find people in your age group.

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 7:55:09 PM   
HipPoindexter


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Status: offline 		i read your title as "doms looking for mommy."

"yeah, sounds right," i bethought unto myself.

:)

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/27/2013 11:42:15 PM   
KickassUsername


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Status: offline 		Thank you guys so much for your help!

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RE: Doms Looking For Money - 12/28/2013 7:19:57 AM   
MercTech


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Status: offline 		Alt... I did a year with that site then dropped it.
If you like cam sessions with strangers it might be worth it.

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