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needlesandpins -> RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to cunnilingus) more often (akin to fellatio)? (1/11/2014 6:31:17 AM)
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i think for me, a mostly vanille (at this point) submissive woman, i wouldn't ever "request" face sitting b/t it's not my requests that matter for one, it's what Master decides what i need or what he wants that matters, and two, i'd feel as though i was attempting to take on a dominant position, even if only for that time frame, and three, it's hard to cum for many women, me included, sitting upright or standing up. :)
no, all you can say is that it's hard for you. it's incredibly easy for me to cum in either position, but especially standing. that is one of the easiest positions for me to cum. you can't generalise for all women. you can only speak for yourself as we are not all the same.
needles
She didn't say all women, she said 'many'.
About 1 in 5 women rarely or never orgasm from any kind of cunnilingus. I'd say that counts as 'many'.
I didn't say she claimed 'all', but still claiming 'many' is to claim knowledge of something that you don't actually have. your figures are just as likely to be bs too. those sorts of figures always are.
needles
These figures were gained from a medical institute looking at orgasm response in healthy women as compared to women who had hysterectomies. Among the healthy women, 2% never orgasmed from direct clitoral stimulation (including cunnilingus, stimulation using fingers and vibrators) and 16% rarely or only occasionally orgasmed from direct clitoral stimulation.
Considering that this includes stimulation using fingers, tongues and vibrators directly to the clit, it is likely that the actual percentage of women who cannot or rarely orgasm solely from cunnilingus is much higher.
http://www.athenainstitute.com/sciencelinks/acog00.html
I also found links to suggest that about 1 in 10 women fake orgasm during cunnilingus, however, that doesn't tell us anything about women who do not engage in the act at all due to not enjoying it.
Btw, it's rude to accuse people of 'bs' simply because you don't like what they are saying. The point here is to have a reasoned discussion. I have made an attempt to find objective and reliable statistics to support my point, whereas you seem to be relying on nothing more than your own opinion. So who is generalising, hmm?
unless research is based on every woman in the world, and that woman is truthful in the first place, then the figures given are likely to be bullshit. if it doesn't occur to you that 'facts' during research are often manipulated to suit what the researcher is trying to support, then it should.
I cum from clitoral stimulation alone from just fingers, or just tongue. I cum from just penetration alone, but not from a vibrator used in any way at all. what little box, and statistics do you want to put me in? or could it be that we are all different. what suits one doesn't suit another. that so called statistics are just a bunch of numbers based on a tiny number of people supposed to represent the whole world, and that's why they are bullshit. I wasn't being rude at all. I was merely pointing out that you can't bandy numbers about and claim that it applies to the whole world, it doesn't. it applies to the very small group of women that took part only, and assuming the figures weren't altered to suit. if you think that was being rude I suggest you grow a thicker skin.
needles
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