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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 2:26:25 PM   
SweetLilly76


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Status: offline 		I've gotten similar messages from the same guy. He has contacted me from three different accounts, always an AA male between 19-23. I don't whether to be upset or pity him.

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 2:39:41 PM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: SweetLilly76

I've gotten similar messages from the same guy. He has contacted me from three different accounts, always an AA male between 19-23. I don't whether to be upset or pity him.

If this is new-ish, it's worth remembering that we are in the middle of school holidays. So he might be younger than 19. Like, um, 18. Anyway, please take the steps I outlined in my previous post. Nonconsensual raceplay and using multiple profiles to get around a block are both things the site takes seriously.

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 2:51:55 PM   
ThePrincessKali


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Status: offline 		"LOL I love myself retard. You claim I have self hate because you're broke, ugly, fat, and relying on people you meet online. You obviously know it's true. You also black markign MIXED in your profile, with weave in your head, seems like you're the one having self hate issues.



You can report my profile all you want. Matter of a fact do it on multiple accounts because I'm doing the same to you, since you clearly broke the rule on this site, advertising someone to send you money when it specifically says on here,"Do not send money" as one of the top rules.



And you're advertising it.



Also you don't have a fetish, you're using a fetish site as your source of hoping to receive lets see who gets poof.
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I don't think it's race play. I think he has issues. It's just odd he is targeting me because I consider myself mixed bc my parents are of different races but I'm not black.

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 2:57:56 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		I was being polite. Racist fuckwaddery is a violation of the rules of the site.

He still might be fapping, no matter what we call it.

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 3:06:34 PM   
ThePrincessKali


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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 3:06:43 PM   
KYsissy


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Status: offline 		Some kids like to throw rocks at a hornets nest to see what happens. Other kids throw snowballs and taunt the girl they like because they just crave the attention from her. Good or bad.

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 3:13:57 PM   
eulero83


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I don't think it's a fetish, but I do think it's a power dynamic. Money is a source of power. You give up your power when you give up your money to the control of someone else. Especially in a society where men have been viewed to be the bread winner/head of household.


If you see that way then all activities in female domination should piss man off as it opposes the "man as head of the household" idea, I get findom even if it's not my thing, but if I look at the stereotypes of the male and female roles when it comes to gifts the giver is mostly the male from flowers to a fine dinner up to expensive jewels, to me it looks like forcing this aspect of courtship, but I don't see many differences from a male dom forcing his slave to be a "blow job giving machine". In both cases if the relationship was based entirely on that single activity than I'd say it is disappointing.

ThePrincessKali the message was probably a copy of a former one, behind anonimity people tend to be more eager to express their opinion even if social protocols would suggest for him to mind his business. By the way I also agree with RedMagic1 that your profile is just money oriented and doesn't show anything of the person behind, but I don't think there would be much difference on this topic.

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 3:19:19 PM   
KYsissy


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Status: offline 		Kali, i just read your latest blog entry, it made me think of this
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=90qpDg5y7Lo&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D90qpDg5y7Lo



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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 3:50:58 PM   
MissKittyDeVine


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Status: offline 		From now on, if I get abusive messages I am going to invite them to visit my town and say the same to my face.

Reckon anyone would have the balls to do so?

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 3:52:37 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissKittyDeVine

From now on, if I get abusive messages I am going to invite them to visit my town and say the same to my face.

Reckon anyone would have the balls to do so?


I'm thinking I'll prolly bet my money with the house on that one.

Exiled

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 4:39:41 PM   
ThePrincessKali


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ORIGINAL: KYsissy

Kali, i just read your latest blog entry, it made me think of this
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=90qpDg5y7Lo&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D90qpDg5y7Lo





That's pretty much how I feel a lot of the time lol

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 5:09:59 PM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Marilyn Monroe famously said that she realized she had power at the age of eight, when she got stuck in a tree and several boys offered to help her get down.

I can't speak to your personal situations, of course, but as a general principle, it's possible for a man to want to sleep with you, and do nice things for you at the same time, without one causing the other. To use this thread as a somewhat silly example, my "type" is intelligent, nonwhite women, and I respect the honesty in your posting style. So I might want to go for it at some point if I had an opportunity. But that doesn't have anything to do with the fact that I tried to be helpful on your thread. I would have typed pretty much the same things if you had been a 300 pound gay man. And the beauty of the internet is that maybe you are a 300 pound gay man! So we have to treat people like people, and not like their superficial representations.

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 5:14:02 PM   
bamabbwsub


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Status: offline 		This guy sounds very similar to the guy who posted a thread in Off Topic discussions titled "a new form of prostitution."

He hasn't made any race-related comments as far as I've read, but he definitely is on a rant about finDommes, and he definitely comes across as a jerk. Coincidence?

< Message edited by bamabbwsub -- 1/1/2014 5:20:48 PM >

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 6:14:30 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		My experience has been they are just trying to get a rise out of you for the fun of it. It's fun to get into arguments with people online and probably offline. My daughter used to do this when she was a teenager and still does somewhat. She likes to argue with people because it's fun to her.

The other reason is they are trying to get you to "prove" your dominance...basically the cyber equation of a take down scene.


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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 6:27:13 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: Apocalypso
And the fox sent out lots of CM mail to tell random women that the grapes were sour and he didn't want them anyway.

OK, it spooked Me a little bit that the non conformist actually referenced the exact fable that was in My head. That was a kind of freaky.



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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 8:07:59 PM   
ThePrincessKali


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Status: offline 		RedMagic I agree with you

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 9:44:44 PM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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Status: offline 		What you've encountered is a TROLL. They entertain themselves by purposely aiming incendiary comments at strangers, then sit back and enjoy the reaction of their victim(s). On some sites, one of their goals is to get you so worked up you violate a website's TOS by using profanity or slander so they can REPORT YOU and get you BANNED.

I've dealt with these on other websites and on Playstation Network, just sit back and REPORT them...My entertainment is to get THEM to get themselves banned.

The general advice is DON'T FEED THE TROLLS.

As for what your troll wrote...I'm a tad confused. He was calling you FAT...your height and weight would make you a tad UNDERWEIGHT in My book.


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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 9:53:25 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		meh...when I had my weight listed at 100 once upon a time ago I'd still get called fat and ugly and every other name under the book. It doesn't matter what you list as your weight, they still will throw that at you. Just laugh, delete, block.


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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 10:16:17 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		RedMagic1 and KYsissy have it right. (I believe) There are men who crave humiliation. If they "humiliate" one who puts herself out there as a top or a dom, it's *possible* they may give as good as they get...hence, free humiliation!

You'd be shocked how much some guys will pay to be majorly humiliated and degradated, so it's no wonder so many try to get it for free.

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RE: Is this a fetish or just being plain nasty? - 1/1/2014 11:49:50 PM   
MalcolmNathaniel


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