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Domnotlooking -> RE: The whyness of it all (1/9/2014 6:07:24 AM)
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Yeah, illness (her's and mine), a sexless marriage, and overseas work in an environment where all the woman were culturally submissive, but mega-unhot have had me on sex/kink hiatus for dozens of months at a time. 'Didn't love it.
I used the down time to clarify what I wanted and why. When I saw -even on the internet- a woman who was giving off a sweet sub vibe, I'd drink it in like a guy in wandering in a desert. Discretely, of course -well, one hopes, anyway.
They were to me facts on the ground of the reality that there were good, hot women wandering the earth and that I could eventually be with one of them.
There is someone here who posts a lot whom I'd be grateful for the opportunity to send a bottle of Veuve Cliquot over to in real life for her healing example over the years. 'Never contacted her, never will, but she's surely done a lot of lonely guy social work here without even being aware of it.
You ask us how to do it, but you're already doing it. You're sucking it up, developing yourself here, looking to the future, and formulating a plan.
Sincere best of luck with all that. Your future is brighter and closer than you probably know at the moment.
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