RedMagic1
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ORIGINAL: LorraineCA In the "grey area" you are talking about; if a woman accepts dinner with the agreement she will dominate him, is she a Pro-Domme? First off, the man is your story sounds cheap as fuck. Second, here's my answer to your question: maybe, but who cares. It's a label. What's important is how you feel about the man, how he feels about you, and how you feel about yourself. Words matter some, but not as much as how the two of you get along. In case you're interested, I've found the following first date plan to be useful when I've dated single mothers. I pay for dinner and offer to pay for babysitting expenses. (Sometimes she's said yes, sometimes no.) She shows up, focuses on me, and keeps her phone in her purse. The idea is that I make it possible for her to have a real date, away from the kids. Then, if she's genuinely interested, she makes sure our time together is about us, not about her constantly wondering what's going on at home.
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