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RE: Not the Usual Pro Domme Thread - 1/9/2014 8:00:06 PM   
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By Popular request. Here they are. LP Duck Lips with a bird.




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RE: Not the Usual Pro Domme Thread - 1/9/2014 8:11:39 PM   
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I look like somebody who is allergic that's been stung by a bee.


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RE: Not the Usual Pro Domme Thread - 1/9/2014 8:28:08 PM   
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I agree with others, it doesn't really matter much. That is like asking if a wife tells her husband if he buys her a new car, they can have a threesome, and he does it, is that prostitution? It gets all silly pretty fast. My take on a pro domme would be someone who seeks out clients and sees that as her profession, part time or full time, but in the end, it doesn't really matter. The big different between the act as a 'pro' and lifestyle is that as a pro, you are giving the client what they want, whereas in a lifestyle one it is two ways (outside the money)...thus, if a sub husband takes out his domme wife to a nice dinner, after buying her a new dress, and they go home and she does a number on him, it is they both are getting something out of the relationship (hopefully it isn't that she is doing it simply for the dress and dinner, but then again, who knows?), whereas with a pro it is them giving the other person what they want, without it being really about them (other than maybe getting paid for it, quid pro quo, whatever in kind).

As long as you don't mind doing it and can use the money, then I don't see the big deal with it..and who knows, maybe someday you would like to try doing it more often:). I suspect when you find someone to have a relationship with, you won't want to keep doing it with guys for $$$, prob will lose interest in it, but other than that, try to have fun with it if it happens again:)

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RE: Not the Usual Pro Domme Thread - 1/9/2014 8:46:04 PM   
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LP, your picture is great!!

To answer what njlauren said: I don't actually go out seeking clients. I actually started mentioning tributes just to dissuade the horndogs who want kink and nothing else, but it didn't work. lol So if someone just "falls into my lap" more or less, wanting kink and nothing else and he's obnoxious about it, I'll say "It's like this. If our entire meetings are going to revolve around your kink and nothing else, I expect a tribute" and I give him my phone number. Then, on the phone, I will mention a tribute amount. I don't say "Pay me $XXX for an hour" outright, that would just be asking for trouble. Right now, I'm getting in touch w/ a kinky lawyer I know to find out more about state & local laws re: Pro Domming.

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RE: Not the Usual Pro Domme Thread - 1/9/2014 9:50:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ETA - And, of course you'd pick a day that I look like sh*t.



Hey, I look like shit everyday, especially now that more than a year's passed since that thread started and I still don't wear makeup!

Love the pic, LP. Ya did good!

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RE: Not the Usual Pro Domme Thread - 1/10/2014 3:07:15 AM   
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OMG LP finally did it!!!!! Great pic BTW

and for the record, all the pics for this thread have been great, new and old!

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