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An Update - 7/5/2006 1:21:07 AM   
MistressOfGa


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Well, my brother in law is back in the hospital. I felt that it was too soon for him to be released, but I am not a medical professional, so what did I know? <s>
 
They feared that he had a blood clot in his leg (The unbroken one) and a bowel obstruction. Somewhere in the transport back to the hospital they managed to break one of his ribs. He is in so much more pain now than he was a couple of days ago. They have him on high doses of morphine, but the pain is so severe the morphine is barely touching it.

It is heartbreaking to see him in so much pain all the time. If I could ask for continued prayers, Im sure that Tony appreciates them as well as those who love him.



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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 1:27:48 AM   
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That's so sad, my heart goes out to him and the family~

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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 1:33:48 AM   
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I am starting to wonder if the universe is out to get him. He was severely injured in a traffic accident, if I recall correctly? Now this. It seems to me that the medical care is not the best, considering that they earlier missed his head injury and now these mishaps.
 
If the universe is out to get him, you may want to question him whether there is any spiritual reason for all this. Has he sinned severely? Did he want to die or quit before all this happened? Or did he want his life to be changed? If he is not at the spiritual root of his mishaps, you may want to question others close to him, for example his wife or dependents.

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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 1:38:39 AM   
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Thank you Jali. I have uploaded some photos of his truck.

http://www.angelfire.com/planet/mistressofga/photoalbum/index.album?i=0

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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 1:52:06 AM   
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hello MoGa,
 
i had a look at the website... no wonder Your brother was so badly hurt... my thoughts and prayers go out to You and Him and all the family during this sad and trying time... may angels be watching over him while he recovers and may his recovery be swift and from now on, uneventful...
 
respectfully,
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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 1:54:08 AM   
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I am starting to wonder if the universe is out to get him. He was severely injured in a traffic accident, if I recall correctly? Now this. It seems to me that the medical care is not the best, considering that they earlier missed his head injury and now these mishaps.
 
Yes, he was in an auto accident. Yes, the medical care he is getting is not the best. We live in a small town, which shouldnt be an excuse, but it is a reason.

 
If the universe is out to get him, you may want to question him whether there is any spiritual reason for all this. Has he sinned severely?
 
What is a severe sin?
 
Did he want to die or quit before all this happened? Or did he want his life to be changed?
 
He and my sister were making plans to move back to Arizona. No, he did not want to die. He had alot of things to look forward to. He was making a legal left turn, using his turn signal and minding his own business, when an 87 year old man hit him from behind. He was then pushed out into on-coming traffic where he was hit head on by a 2 ton delivery truck. He was then bounced around like a pinball until he finally came to a stop in a ditch. None of this was his fault, other than being on the wrong road at the wrong time.
 
If he is not at the spiritual root of his mishaps, you may want to question others close to him, for example his wife or dependents.
 
I am not one who subscribes to "the universe is out to get him".  I do believe that things happen for a reason. We may not know the reasons when they happen, but eventually, time reveals what those reasons are.



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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 3:07:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

What is a severe sin?

That varies from one person to the next. To one person not wiping his shoes when coming into the house is a sin, others could not care less. So ask him.
 
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He and my sister were making plans to move back to Arizona.

And now they probably won't. That may be the spiritual cause. Who is opposed to this move?
 
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No, he did not want to die. He had alot of things to look forward to. He was making a legal left turn, using his turn signal and minding his own business, when an 87 year old man hit him from behind. He was then pushed out into on-coming traffic where he was hit head on by a 2 ton delivery truck. He was then bounced around like a pinball until he finally came to a stop in a ditch. None of this was his fault, other than being on the wrong road at the wrong time.

I distrust coincidences. Accidents such as this indicate a spiritual cause, in which case it is useless to blame the people that were instrumental and used as pawns to cause it.

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I am not one who subscribes to "the universe is out to get him".  I do believe that things happen for a reason.

A rose by any name has aphids.

I hope and pray that he recovers.

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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 11:19:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Rule

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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What is a severe sin?

That varies from one person to the next. To one person not wiping his shoes when coming into the house is a sin, others could not care less. So ask him.

I don't need to ask him. He doesnt believe in this any more than I do. But to each their own, yes? 
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He and my sister were making plans to move back to Arizona.

And now they probably won't. That may be the spiritual cause. Who is opposed to this move?

No one opposed the move. It was encouraged that they go back to Az. since my sisters kids are there (albeit adults) and her grandchildren. You may be looking for something that isnt there.
 
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No, he did not want to die. He had alot of things to look forward to. He was making a legal left turn, using his turn signal and minding his own business, when an 87 year old man hit him from behind. He was then pushed out into on-coming traffic where he was hit head on by a 2 ton delivery truck. He was then bounced around like a pinball until he finally came to a stop in a ditch. None of this was his fault, other than being on the wrong road at the wrong time.

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I distrust coincidences. Accidents such as this indicate a spiritual cause, in which case it is useless to blame the people that were instrumental and used as pawns to cause it.

I think you are forgetting one thing. This is in your opinion only. Like I said, I do not believe in this. You make it sound like it is an absolute. Maybe in your world it is, but in mine, as I explained it may be part of a larger picture that will develope itself in time.
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I am not one who subscribes to "the universe is out to get him".  I do believe that things happen for a reason.

A rose by any name has aphids.

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I hope and pray that he recovers.

 
Thank you.



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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 11:38:27 AM   
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I have been praying for him as well.  By the way, when I broke My leg they had Me on morphine at first.  I found that it barely did anything.  Even the high was not even worth the bother.  They switched be over to a heavy dose of Demerol and Gravol and that seemed to do the trick (not to mention I was seeing things.  What an interesting drug )

I do not know if that will be of any use to you, but I thought I would share it anyways for what it is worth.

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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 2:12:36 PM   
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I have been praying for him as well.  By the way, when I broke My leg they had Me on morphine at first.  I found that it barely did anything.  Even the high was not even worth the bother.  They switched be over to a heavy dose of Demerol and Gravol and that seemed to do the trick (not to mention I was seeing things.  What an interesting drug )

I do not know if that will be of any use to you, but I thought I would share it anyways for what it is worth.

SirKenin,
Yep, that is what they have him on and it only works for minutes at a time and then he has to wait another three hours for his next shot. Thank you for sharing that with me, I will pass this information to him :) Also thanks for all the prayers.
It appears as though he will be going to a nursing home for a couple of weeks for rehab. The rehab hospital will be too much for him right now, 5-6 hours a day..no way lol but the nursing home will only require him to do an hour each day. I will keep yall updated.



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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 2:29:39 PM   
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i hope and pray for a speedy recovery

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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 2:43:48 PM   
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Sorry for the rant OP I wish your brother the best.

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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 2:49:01 PM   
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Dear Mistress,

I am so sad to hear He is having more problems.  I entered my Medicine Wheel from the West today on His behalf; the place of Physical protection.  My prayer wand is directed towards You.  I have a candle burning for Him and burned sage on His behalf.  I have Him on my prayer and meditation list.  There are always spiritual reasons for everything and they are not always for us to decifer, but be open to the outpouring of Love, lessons and blessings.  You are a very wise Woman whom I have come to respect.  You are smart for realizing that many times only in the very big picture do we understand the "why" about lifes trials and tribulations and sometimes, we never do fully understand.  We must appreciate that the universe is unfolding exactly the way it is meant to and forces are at work we are not capable of fully understanding.

You and Your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers.  My heart to yours.

Be blessed,
Goddess

PS: Mistress is Indian and so am I ~ Please respect Our rituals and silence any negative comments about that which you do not understand.  Questions are always welcome.  Thank you.

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RE: An Update - 7/5/2006 8:31:21 PM   
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I'm so sorry to hear he's back in the hospital and in more pain. He, you and the family remain in my thoughts and prayers and I hope his recovery goes well.

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