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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 8:02:31 AM   
MistressDREAD


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Welcome to Collarme You and yours scraginagco.

And DD  I agree with  Fierce Love and following Your Own path to Your kind of Dignity against all odds of society
and gaining Self Respect that goes against the norm and majority most definantly will lead You to Freedom. And Self Love even when most others might tend to Hate You for being You because they dont understand You gets in the way. I have an incling feeling You are gonna do much more here then meets the eye, to bad You have so many limits on Yourself tho.

Oh yea and OP      At times I like to observe and tease those sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes but usually not to the kind of end
they sought, course Im a Pain giving Sadist who takes pleasures in those that havent a clue feeding My kinks and perversions anyway I can so as not to become a threat to any society. Shall I turn My attention towards you OP ??

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 8:10:45 AM   
pygmalionsub


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Status: offline 		Ghost,

we all have our "types" some people are more open minded about who their types are then others. 

As far as the age thing, i'm fairly selective about that.  I don't like men younger then me (has nothing to do with maturity, i just enjoy being with older men)  even guys the same age as me rarely get a second glance.   Ideally I like men about 10 years older then me.  I accept that i maybe "loosing out" on someone great by having this standard, but its mine to make.  I think you should respect when a person tells you upfront that you are not their type, much better then some of the other game playing that goes on.

be patient.  you can't make people want you, and people can't make you want them.  Its best to find someone who likes you for who you are and vice versa.

< Message edited by pygmalionsub -- 7/5/2006 8:17:51 AM >

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 8:12:42 AM   
thegunslinger


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DoctorDubious, I can only hope the line at MacSubs is shorter, eventhough all I'd be looking for extra toppings to buy for my sub already.

Off-topic post: OFF

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 8:17:24 AM   
MsKatHouston


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From: Houston, TX
Status: offline 		Really, you just need some patience.  Dommes do get a ton of emails every day and the majority are simply not suitable.  Even the most positive of Dommes get a bit jaded after awhile. 

The fact is there are more male submissives looking for a domme than vice versa.  We have the luxury of being able to choose and we can be pretty picky about it.  There's not a lot of sense for dommes to continually complain about how many hng's contact us.  Nor is there a lot of sense for submissives who are looking for something more in a relationship to complain about not finding a domme to suit their needs.  It's a fact.  Deal with it and move on.

Frankly, I don't see a lot of difference in vanilla dating than BDSM.  It takes time and patience before you meet your right match.  If you get brushed off by someone, the same could happen if you were at a bar asking some hot chick to dance.  The reasons she did it, if they are not "valid" in your mind (thus not a chance to improve yourself personally) are not nearly as importnat as the fact that it happened.  Forget about it and move onto the next. 

There are several submissives who have contacted me throughout the last few months.  Many of them are great guys who I am sure would make fabulous submissives for someone...just not ME.

My advice to you is:

1.  Patience grasshopper
2.  Improve any issues you may be able if these are brought up to you.
3.  Keep plugging
4.  Finally, I will reiterate what many people have said.  Get involved.  I am also in Houston and since I have just moved back home have not gotten back involved in the local scene yet.  But I plan to...soon.  Networking is a valuable tool.  You will find friends, play partners, educational opportunities and possibly your perfect Mistress.

Good luck.

(edited for typos...still on coffee cup #1)

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 8:38:30 AM   
DesertRat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail
Well, I am a sex crazed, dick swinging ancient.....it seems to work out ok.


I would agree. Reading the OP's profile, I see that he is not here for sex and that sex is not really what it's all about. When I was alot younger, that kind of statement made sense to me. Why? Because I was hearing my own romantic bullcrap mixed with excessively philosophical intellectualizing...or intellectual philosophizing...not sure which.

GhostDance, it is okay to be here for sex! I am here for the whole package, all options included. That means there's gonna be some sex. Sometimes, lots of it. I am gonna stick my neck out here and say that, for the most part, the girls like it.

Bob

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 8:44:50 AM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Well, I am a sex crazed, dick swinging ancient.....it seems to work out ok.


I'm no Sex crazed, dick swinging neophyte.... I'm a Sex crazed, dick swinging Adept!!!!! Like with Ron it seems to work out ok for me too.


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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 8:56:43 AM   
Mistrix


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Status: offline 		When you were writtin gthis post, you can't tell me that you weren't going to raise the whip here??
you shouldn't generalize and I do get sick of people that wah wah wah about collarme.  Like it fine...don't like it....get LOST! 


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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 9:29:50 AM   
Emperor1956


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Status: offline 		Yah, but which one of us are gonna tell him that "saggy balls" at 45 is JUST the beginning *GRIN*?  IB, Otter, Level?  Come on....lets take this poor young bloke out for a drink and swing our ....errrrr....attributes up on the bar!

E.

(Hey...I'm back at work after what effectively was a 9 day weekend...Don't ask).
(edited to say THANK GOD I'm not 22, again.)

< Message edited by Emperor1956 -- 7/5/2006 9:30:57 AM >

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 9:30:26 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		You're not just jealous because our dicks are long enough to swing, right...

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 9:49:00 AM   
Tashacurly


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Status: offline 		You know, being 23 myself (soon to be 24 on Sat, whoot!!!), I find it annoying to see other "young" folk whine. I mean, come on, it gives the rest of us a bad name. It took time for me to find my owners....and it even took going through some crappy relationships as well. It's called LEARNING. As a college student, as you say, you should know a little bit about that. K? Get a grip, and keep your search up...you'll find the right one.

Tasha

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 10:02:32 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I know you are a few years short of this Lam, but the thing I miss most as I grow older is that I can't stick flys to the ceiling anymore.........Oh, I can still drown 'em......but they gotta be pretty close range............

Other than that, this what about me stuff with the younger ones is outta line, I suppose we were like that but not to this degree..........

You don't get to do the crime until you have done the time-- in the people business............

LOL,
Ron

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 11:21:42 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		First  of all. IMHEO, if I had been approached with that attitude, you would not have gotten the time of day---second, as someone said, you have only been here for a bit over a month--and posted twice--so I think your evaluation a tad premature----
 
Now having read your profile--college boy--it was filled with so many spelling errors I wondered what your major was--if that is how you wrote to a Domina along with that attitude---it makes One wonder.
 
I for one am not interested in someone under 40 for I seek a 24/7 LTR, but that is My preference for I have little in common with someone younger--and I can assure you NON of My boys to date have had sagging balls unless they were in My chains and weights---so My suggestion is spell check your profile, temper your attitude and develop some patience and humility---it will get you much further.

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 12:57:17 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

You're not just jealous because our dicks are long enough to swing, right...


ROTFLMAO, THAT is priceless, LAM

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 3:09:24 PM   
GhostDance


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Status: offline 		Okay. I have so crow to eat, apparently. I wasn't expecting this level of a response so soon.

First and foremost, I apologize about the soggy balls comment. That was completly and utterly out of line for me. Next time I think I will make sure to step away from the keyboard and get some coffee and re-read before I hit the "send" button.

As for everybody else, I appreciate the input and I think that some immediate clarification is needed on my part. First and foremost, I didn't mean for this to come out as a bitch and moan session about how things are not happening fast enough. That was not the intention of my posting. If you were to ask me what the intention of my posting was, then I would say the main subject is just my concerns over the skewed point of views that I have encountered regarding some of the subjects I have discussed in this thread.

However, I have read some of the points that you all have made, and I will definetly take the advice, especially concerning gratitious use of the block button for some of the people I don't agree with. In retrospect, I think that might be the best course of action.

MsKatHouston, did you mean to type in "FNG" or "HNG" I has a grasp on about 80% of the lingo on this board, so I need a little help there.

Thank you everybody for the advice. As for the ones with the quipy one-lines that you fired across the bow... well, those were pretty funny too so thanks for that also. :D

I didn't mean to come across as brash or rude.

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 3:12:00 PM   
JohnWarren


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Status: offline 		Decent recovery.  I'm looking forward to other posts you may make on this board.

By the way, HNG is "horny net geek."

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 3:23:56 PM   
LaTigresse


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 3:27:38 PM   
GhostDance


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

Decent recovery.  I'm looking forward to other posts you may make on this board.

By the way, HNG is "horny net geek."


Oh, now that is funny.

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 3:29:08 PM   
MizSuz


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Status: offline 		It's good to have personal goals, but when it comes to social situations I personally respond negatively to someone contacting me with an agenda.  Perhaps that has more to do with the kinds of responses you've had.  <shrug> Who could say?

Let go of your agenda and goals and just socialize and make yourself available.  This is a marathon, not a sprint, and a willingness to let the tides move you in making connections may serve you well.





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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 3:32:31 PM   
feastie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GhostDance

Okay. I have so crow to eat, apparently. I wasn't expecting this level of a response so soon.

First and foremost, I apologize about the soggy balls comment. That was completly and utterly out of line for me. Next time I think I will make sure to step away from the keyboard and get some coffee and re-read before I hit the "send" button.

As for everybody else, I appreciate the input and I think that some immediate clarification is needed on my part. First and foremost, I didn't mean for this to come out as a bitch and moan session about how things are not happening fast enough. That was not the intention of my posting. If you were to ask me what the intention of my posting was, then I would say the main subject is just my concerns over the skewed point of views that I have encountered regarding some of the subjects I have discussed in this thread.

However, I have read some of the points that you all have made, and I will definetly take the advice, especially concerning gratitious use of the block button for some of the people I don't agree with. In retrospect, I think that might be the best course of action.

MsKatHouston, did you mean to type in "FNG" or "HNG" I has a grasp on about 80% of the lingo on this board, so I need a little help there.

Thank you everybody for the advice. As for the ones with the quipy one-lines that you fired across the bow... well, those were pretty funny too so thanks for that also. :D

I didn't mean to come across as brash or rude.


Excellent crow eating!  It didn't taste all that bad, did it?  Welcome to the boards.

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RE: Sex crazed, dick swinging neophytes and how it's af... - 7/5/2006 3:38:04 PM   
IronBear


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