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RE: Is my gift too extreme? - 1/19/2014 3:45:58 AM

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Doing that seems crazy, stupid or both. Since when does buying a tat for yourself become a gift for her? She doesn't actually get anything.

1 - You just topped from the bottom by taking control away from her.
2 - You permanently defaced something without asking. Something that was supposed to be hers to control.
3 - You are trying to thrust a permanent level of commitment upon her, proclaiming she is yours forever in a perma mark.
* If she is worth her salt, the minute she finds out you did that, she would dump you.

Since you see nothing wrong with taking control, defacing property and trying to shove yourself down someones throat permanently, you should consider that maybe these are signs that you may have some issues you need to work out. The fact that you don't see how doing this can bring the relationship to an end shows poor judgement in permanent markings. Remember the video of the girl on Facebook that got a guys face tattooed on her arm? The guy saw it and dumped her on the spot?

How are you gonna' explain her name in brand spanking new fresh ink to a new Mistress without tipping her off that you acted out of line with your last Mistress? Better make up some "I was drunk in a bar and met a gypsy" story to explain away that tat.

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RE: Is my gift too extreme? - 1/19/2014 9:12:05 AM

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Speaking as someone who's had to pay to cover up a bad tattoo, I agree with the above posters. Putting someone's name on your body (notable exceptions are children and dead relatives) is the epitome of stupidity in my book. You have to think farther than your next session, man. What's your social landscape looking like five, ten, twenty years down the road? What's it going to look like when you hit the nursing home? Think about it really hard before straddling the bench. A lot of tat artists will actively discourage you from slapping something like that on your body, not because they care, but because down the road you may come back with a major case of the butthurts because they couldn't stop you from doing it. Others don't care further than the cash you wave, so there's that. I like the suggestion you give her a pampering session or something along those lines. No ink unless she wants it, and if she's got a decent bone in her body, she won't want her name permanently inscribed on your body.

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RE: Is my gift too extreme? - 1/26/2014 12:05:17 AM

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Without permission is a BAD idea. Herrchen and I have talked about me getting a dina on my thigh. Small, two inches, no names, just the mark that I belong to Him. I currently am unadorned, but am willing to obey Him, although He has said if I am uncomfortable with it, we can do the henna route. Please get permission before defacing you Mistress' property; She may be very displeased. As for romantic gestures, I agree with the others - do a special dinner, turn your room into Her personal spa for the day with you as masseur, give her flowers and also have petals strewn on the floor or in her bath with candles.

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