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ORIGINAL: respectfulDomSC

Thanks everyone, you've opened my mind some to my rant. My impetus for my post was,I've seen so many doms who were rude, and/or subs who were'nt ready for the rudeness. Pardon if if I sounded rude myself,or assumed too much. Its nice to know there are more good folks out there in this world.
B

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Your assumption that everyone owes you a response for unwanted email needs to be re-examined. If you don't call up credit card companies to decline their offers, then you're doing the same thing.

Nobody asked you specifically to write them, you ought to be sufficiently self aware in your 50s to know that those barely legals aren't interested in you. Yet you complain because they aren't writing their profiles the way you want. See the oversized ego there, that expects thousands of strangers to conform to you, when you aren't dominant to them?

And I have to assume your profile claiming to want a lasting relationship is bs, because you're not going to find that with someone younger than your children.

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

I have very little in common with someone closer to my dad's age than my own. When I first started internet dating, I got hit on (and still do) by dozens of older guys. I started by being polite and saying "sorry, but you're a bit too old for me!" or a light joke, but eventually- unless I recognize them from the forums- in a good way, know them from work or what have you, I have stopped responding at all, because "you're too old for me!" is so rarely the end of the conversation. While I pay my own bills (proudly), I found that many of these gentlemen would OFFER money, berate me/call me names/insult me, MANY of them were cheating on their wives. So very few were interested in anything but getting 20 something pussy. None were interested in WHO I was.

Plenty of folks were quick to tell me I wasn't mature enough to date them anyways or didn't know what I wanted- to which I can only respond with I am both mature enough, self aware enough to KNOW I didn't want to be in a relationship with someone a 1/4 century my senior, I want to get married, maybe someday have children- someone twice my age can offer that, but they won't be around anymore when that kid goes to college, when I'm 35, you'll be 65, I will LIKELY outlive you by many years. If I were to even consider it, the other person involved would have to be after a lot more than some tight young pussy.

I find your attitude about "young subs" being ill prepared for jerk off doms a little manipulative way to try to convince "young subs" to be into you cause you "know what you're doing" or you're "one of the good ones"- being an asshole certainly isn't limited by age- a young sub can very well reject those asshole young doms, as well as asshole old ones too. Perhaps you need to find a way to respect the fact that they are looking for more than just a sexual relationship.

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

..........I want to get married, maybe someday have children- someone twice my age can offer that, but they won't be around anymore when that kid goes to college,.....

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ORIGINAL: hlen5

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

..........I want to get married, maybe someday have children- someone twice my age can offer that, but they won't be around anymore when that kid goes to college,.....

........Aging semen has just as many defects as aging eggs......

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

respectfulDomSC - the amount of mail I received dropped precipitously after I changed my age to 40. So if you approach women closer to your age, not only will you have less competition, but they will have more life experience.

Good luck!

KK