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Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/18/2014 3:17:38 PM

DarkSteven

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My sub and I just played with a pro Domme last night. Nope, not like that.

We were at a spanking party and there was one lovely lady who we had recently heard about. She was brought by a longtime spanko, Bill.

She flirted with my sub and shortly thereafter the two entered the play space and she administered one heckuva spanking to Tasha. Even though she was six or seven inches shorter than Tasha and Tasha is very strong , she was able to twist her body about to immobilize Tasha while spanking.

It occurred to me that I spank maybe an hour a week at most. She spanks probably 10-30 hours a week, and it showed as she knew what she was doing.

Afterward, they hugged. Someone asked her to top him, and she said she would, but first would get spanked by me.

Wow.

She stripped down to bra and panties first.

Wow.

She remarked to Tasha that she was a switch but wasn't easily able to get spanked, what with her professional reputation as a Domme. Sometimes she'd have one of her slaves spank her.

She cheerfully bent over a bench, displaying an unbelievably lovely ass. I started spanking and soon found out that, while she liked to spank very hard, she liked it softer when she received. I didn't care - I would have spanked her with a helium feather if that's what she wanted.

So Tasha and I were both floating after.

We're not fooling ourselves. We know that she came there to show off her abilities and try to get new clientele. (And she gave a business card to the guy she spanked after she finished with me, so it worked.) But we figure she also came to have a good time, and hopefully liked us enough to play with us.

Cool.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/18/2014 5:11:31 PM

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Sounds like a good time was had by all Steven. Perhaps you'll meet again.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/18/2014 6:14:31 PM

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Not a thing wrong with free samples, DS.

Glad everyone had a great time.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/18/2014 6:24:51 PM

Ollieboomboom

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Can you find me a Pro Male Dom? Sometimes, I just want to get spanked, flogged, etc., and leave skipping. No commitment- don't have to see him again if I don't want to- and most likely won't run into him at any of the BDSM events I attend.

le sigh- tongue in cheek here, but with the amount of single subs/slaves, methinks he would do a good business. lol

dovie

And hello DarkSteven, Sir,....you know me as dovie or Oliviajoi

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/18/2014 6:30:28 PM

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Um, dovieollie, if you attend BDSM events, why not scene with one there?

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/18/2014 6:34:46 PM

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lol Sir, @ dovieollie.....I prefer not to...and I'm laughing here as I've already received 2emails on the other side from friends in my area who said if I find one to let them know....WOW.

Glad you and yours had a fantastic time.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/18/2014 8:16:20 PM

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Very nice, DS. I'm glad you all had a great time!!

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/18/2014 8:18:20 PM

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That sounds really fun, I'm so glad it was a positive experience.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/18/2014 9:15:43 PM

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Dovie, if there's a paper in your area for the gay community, look in it. Lots of pro doms will advertize. And they would be hot looking while not pushing you for sex.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/18/2014 9:36:49 PM

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Glad you & Tasha found a great lady to partner with for an evening Steven.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/19/2014 2:33:26 AM

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uhm, that sounds just like a kinky tupperware party...

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/19/2014 7:12:18 AM

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My first post didn't really capture the essence of what I wanted to say. She was absolutely lovely, and so fit that she obviously worked out regularly. She selected her clothes and makeup with care, and looked like a prim librarian with a couple of extra buttons undone, affording a glimpse. Except for the tight leather skirt, which librarians don't wear often enough. A mixture of standoffish and inviting.

She seemed genuinely happy and cheerful to be there, and loved playing. And when she did play, she played long and she played hard. And expertly. And in between, she was a happy, bubbly conversationalist.

The effect was somewhat intoxicating. And she knew damn well that she had that effect.

I can finally see how a male sub using a pro Domme like that could be swept away. Interesting insight to have been given.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/19/2014 8:03:28 AM

Darkfeather

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Nah, it did. In order to truly appreciate the lifestyle, you HAVE to get out there and see how others live it. Despite what many think, this is a social kink, even if we are jabbering bunk all about the biz. But go out there and experience others doing their kink, and it can be inspiring. Why, because everyone does this differently. So if you go to a gathering of like minded people all showing their stuff, you are bound to see something new and interesting

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/19/2014 8:42:48 AM

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Or not. Because many of us don't want to watch other people or have them watch us.
And that doesn't make those of us who prefer privacy less enlightened.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/19/2014 8:44:24 AM

njlauren

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Ollieboomboom

Can you find me a Pro Male Dom? Sometimes, I just want to get spanked, flogged, etc., and leave skipping. No commitment- don't have to see him again if I don't want to- and most likely won't run into him at any of the BDSM events I attend.

le sigh- tongue in cheek here, but with the amount of single subs/slaves, methinks he would do a good business. lol

dovie

And hello DarkSteven, Sir,....you know me as dovie or Oliviajoi

There are male pro dominants, but the problem is they are relatively few and far between, because quite honestly there isn't a lot of business for them (and most of them, like female pro dommes, see mostly men)......if you seriously want to find a pro male dominant, do a websearch, I am sure there will be websites listing them in various areas, there are a ton of them for female pro dommes....

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/19/2014 8:45:22 AM

shiftyw

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Or not. Because many of us don't want to watch other people or have them watch us.
And that doesn't make those of us who prefer privacy less enlightened.

Or those of us who live in a very rural area and don't have the means to spend a bunch of time and money getting to events any less enlightened.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/19/2014 8:51:08 AM

njlauren

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

My first post didn't really capture the essence of what I wanted to say. She was absolutely lovely, and so fit that she obviously worked out regularly. She selected her clothes and makeup with care, and looked like a prim librarian with a couple of extra buttons undone, affording a glimpse. Except for the tight leather skirt, which librarians don't wear often enough. A mixture of standoffish and inviting.

She seemed genuinely happy and cheerful to be there, and loved playing. And when she did play, she played long and she played hard. And expertly. And in between, she was a happy, bubbly conversationalist.

The effect was somewhat intoxicating. And she knew damn well that she had that effect.

I can finally see how a male sub using a pro Domme like that could be swept away. Interesting insight to have been given.

DS-

With pro dommes there are all kinds. The person you ran into probably was lifestyle as well, so while her presentation and such was very much aimed at attracting clientele, being at the club was kind of like a busman's holiday for her:). IME, a lot of the top professional dommes are like the woman you met, it is why they can command the fees they do, it is because they are lifestyle, which means they understand how to drive a bottom or sub, but they also have the polish to make them even more attractive....

It is why when I hear people put down pro dommes I cringe. Yes, there are some who are totally in it for the money, some who suck at it and some who who okay, but there also a lot who are into it in a lifestyle sense and bring to their sessions a lot of who they are, rather than acting it out, big difference and to be good and stay in business, presentation is critical:)

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/19/2014 8:55:48 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: shiftyw

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Or not. Because many of us don't want to watch other people or have them watch us.
And that doesn't make those of us who prefer privacy less enlightened.

Or those of us who live in a very rural area and don't have the means to spend a bunch of time and money getting to events any less enlightened.

He didn't say y'all were less enlightened. He said that if you go to events you are "bound to see something new and interesting," which "can be inspiring."

It's fine for y'all to chose to not do this...but that does not negate what he said.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/19/2014 9:13:45 AM

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Its for sure his emphasis and use of the words "HAVE to" that bothered me.

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RE: Yeah. A pro Domme thread. - 1/19/2014 9:17:26 AM

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It's funny but nearly every Professional Domme I've ever chatted with here and other places has said she was actually a switch. Even the ones that say they are always dominant will eventually confide they like the man to be dominant in bed, or they like to Serve their man by having dinner ready for him, doing his laundry, etc. etc. Not criticizing, just pointing it out.
In contrast, I'm a Lifestyle Domme and the last guy who tried to spank Me ended up with a broken and bleeding nose to prove to him that "No really does mean NO".

I'm glad you had fun. Sounds like a blast for both of you. I can just imagine the rush you must have felt. LOL. These sorts of activities should be fun for everyone and it's great to be able to have SAFE people you can trust to explore these experiences with.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
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My sub and I just played with a pro Domme last night.
She flirted with my sub and shortly thereafter the two entered the play space and she administered one heckuva spanking to Tasha.
Afterward, they hugged. Someone asked her to top him, and she said she would, but first would get spanked by me.

She remarked to Tasha that she was a switch but wasn't easily able to get spanked, what with her professional reputation as a Domme. Sometimes she'd have one of her slaves spank her.
She cheerfully bent over a bench, displaying an unbelievably lovely ass. I started spanking and soon found out that, while she liked to spank very hard, she liked it softer when she received. I didn't care - I would have spanked her with a helium feather if that's what she wanted.
So Tasha and I were both floating after.

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