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MariaB -> RE: Respect ..... (1/30/2014 2:49:21 AM)

This is like a gladiators pit and Miles, you said the wrong thing and you are now being put through the baptism of fire. It happens to most of us. Whilst I may disagree with some of the stuff you said, enough people have jumped on your back and so I'm certainly not going to join in.

Four words, politeness, courtesy, civility, and of course restraint. I feel morally obliged to show politeness, courtesy and civility to my neighbours, to people I pass on the street, to shop assistants but I also show those things to friends, friends of friends, family and even people I don't particularly get on with, not because they are horrible people but because we simply don't mesh. My nan always used to say, 'you can't make all of the people like you all of the time', that works both ways but just because you don't like someone doesn't mean you don't show courtesy, civility and politeness when you bump into them.

Restraints an interesting one because restraint is only needed when you feel ready to attack either verbally or physically. Lack of restraint is showing your lack of respect and once that happens, politeness, courtesy and civility flys out the window. For me that's a rare event but it does happen, I have had people in my life who I hugely disrespect and for those people I don't hold back.




Milesnmiles -> RE: Respect ..... (1/30/2014 4:57:48 AM)

Hello MariaB,
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ORIGINAL: MariaB
This is like a gladiators pit and Miles, you said the wrong thing and you are now being put through the baptism of fire. It happens to most of us. Whilst I may disagree with some of the stuff you said, enough people have jumped on your back and so I'm certainly not going to join in.
Thanks but this isn't my first rodeo on internet forums.

As for being wrong, it certainly seems like I at least said some things that hit some sore spots, whether wrong or not.

I don't mind disagreement, in fact it can be a good thing, knife sharpens knife but when people turn away from the subject at hand and begin to take it personally, well... Honestly, why would you get on the internet and get stressed out over comments by someone who lives thousands of miles away from you and doesn't even know you?
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Four words, politeness, courtesy, civility, and of course restraint. I feel morally obliged to show politeness, courtesy and civility to my neighbours, to people I pass on the street, to shop assistants but I also show those things to friends, friends of friends, family and even people I don't particularly get on with, not because they are horrible people but because we simply don't mesh. My nan always used to say, 'you can't make all of the people like you all of the time', that works both ways but just because you don't like someone doesn't mean you don't show courtesy, civility and politeness when you bump into them.
Oops, be careful. This is pretty much what I've been trying to say all a long, that got me into this gladiator's pit.
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Restraints an interesting one because restraint is only needed when you feel ready to attack either verbally or physically. Lack of restraint is showing your lack of respect and once that happens, politeness, courtesy and civility flys out the window. For me that's a rare event but it does happen, I have had people in my life who I hugely disrespect and for those people I don't hold back.
Yes, restraint is very interesting.




theshytype -> RE: Respect ..... (1/30/2014 5:35:39 AM)

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Four words, politeness, courtesy, civility, and of course restraint. I feel morally obliged to show politeness, courtesy and civility to my neighbours, to people I pass on the street, to shop assistants but I also show those things to friends, friends of friends, family and even people I don't particularly get on with, not because they are horrible people but because we simply don't mesh. My nan always used to say, 'you can't make all of the people like you all of the time', that works both ways but just because you don't like someone doesn't mean you don't show courtesy, civility and politeness when you bump into them.

Restraints an interesting one because restraint is only needed when you feel ready to attack either verbally or physically. Lack of restraint is showing your lack of respect and once that happens, politeness, courtesy and civility flys out the window. For me that's a rare event but it does happen, I have had people in my life who I hugely disrespect and for those people I don't hold back.


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I try to practice this in life. There are some that I hugely disrespect and I'll still hold back because, sometimes, I believe they are purposely trying to get a rise out of me. I don't easily hand my wrath over to just anyone. It takes a special kind of person to afford that privilege.




Milesnmiles -> RE: Respect ..... (1/30/2014 6:11:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: theshytype
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I don't easily hand my wrath over to just anyone. It takes a special kind of person to afford that privilege.
Great post!




MisterP61 -> RE: Respect ..... (1/30/2014 7:45:28 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MisterP61
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I have seen you whining how "no one wants to be my submissive"... wah wah call me a wahmbulance.
I have to call you out on this, this is a lie! There is no other way to describe it. And it is not even a good lie. Although I have to admit it must take a of courage to even try to pass off a lie this bad.

I will give you this one. I went back and reviewed some of your first posts, and I confused you with someone else. I am not above admiting I am wrong and I am on that one.
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

how the hell is it sad that LP is happily married and happily has a male slave and a good life and they are all pretty happy?

<thinks she must lead a pretty sad life as well since she's happily taken in real life, loved, cared for by a wonderful Master and a terrific daughter.>

ORIGINAL: Milesnmiles
A person can have everything they think they want and still not be happy.


By your own admission
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ORIGINAL: Milesnmiles
How can I be jealous of a relationship I know little or nothing about?


Funny that you talk about how others can't know things from thousands of miles away, yet you seem so sure of this. I am going to go out on a limb and say you must be jealous. We are happy. Believe it or don't, but the people who actually know us, know the answer. I wish you luck in whatever it is you seek. I am done dealing with a "rose" such as yourself.




DesFIP -> RE: Respect ..... (1/30/2014 7:50:26 AM)

I'm shocked that there's anyone who hasn't already given up on miles and put him on block. He's impossible to educate and I've never thought beating a dead horse is a productive use of my time.




VideoAdminChi -> RE: Respect ..... (1/30/2014 7:53:50 AM)

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