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Blueswordsman -> Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/20/2014 4:58:17 PM)

Guys love receiving deep throat. Subs love to please. Almost every sexually active woman tried it.

My questions to the subs and slaves is … Does deep throating a cock bring you physical pleasure like intercourse or is your only pleasure in the giving?



littlewonder -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/20/2014 5:01:08 PM)

My pleasure is in giving to him and knowing he is in control. It does nothing for me otherwise.



kalikshama -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/20/2014 5:19:27 PM)

I like sucking cock because of the face slapping and hair pulling that goes with it. So no, no physical pleasure from deep throating.



VenturaKitten -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/20/2014 8:34:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

My pleasure is in giving to him and knowing he is in control. It does nothing for me otherwise.



This!



orgasmdenial12 -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/20/2014 10:57:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Blueswordsman
Guys love receiving deep throat. Subs love to please. Almost every sexually active woman tried it.


I doubt this very much - not every guy even likes oral, not all subs love to please (I like being controlled) and I doubt the majority of women have tried a sex act that is popularised mainly through porn films.



SoulAlloy -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/20/2014 11:28:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12

quote:

ORIGINAL: Blueswordsman
Guys love receiving deep throat. Subs love to please. Almost every sexually active woman tried it.


I doubt this very much - not every guy even likes oral, not all subs love to please (I like being controlled) and I doubt the majority of women have tried a sex act that is popularised mainly through porn films.


This really, I'm one of those who's not usually a huge fan of receiving, in fact it's often torturously sensitive, nice in a kind of masochistic way but not comfortable nine times out of ten.

As for giving, sends me very very subby, not aroused but completely spaced out from the control. But then I'd never really describe myself as bi, merely heteroflexible and sexually submissive, deepthroating a strap on the other hand does turn me on considerably.



sexyred1 -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/20/2014 11:40:51 PM)

I like the mental aspect of it, the hair pulling, the gagging, my makeup tearing up and his whispering all sorts of evil words to me and his moans and grunts.

Does that help?



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/21/2014 11:31:19 AM)

I love giving blowjobs, I get off on it. Depending on the size of the guy, I like deep deep throating also. BUT due to breathing issues, being forced into it brings on panic attacks. So it's best to lay back and enjoy. Hair pulling is fine too. I know, I'm strange!



mnottertail -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/21/2014 11:33:16 AM)

*sighs*  



DesFIP -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/21/2014 12:46:38 PM)

Unlike the porn film that comes to mind, we don't really have a clit in our throats.
The pleasure comes from pleasing him.



DominantWoman65 -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/21/2014 12:48:48 PM)

I'm not a submissive but I deep throat my dominant mate simply because I just love doing it. I love the hair pulling, makeup streaming, saliva running, and the guttural noises that escape from his lips. At that time, for us, there is no D/D or D/s, it's just our chemistry.



shiftyw -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/21/2014 3:54:35 PM)

Um.
If you're asking if simply by him hitting the back of my throat with his dick, if that makes me get off, no.

If you're asking if I enjoy giving head (and deep throating)- yes. I do it for his pleasure- but I also don't hate the face slapping, hair pulling, nipple teasing I get while doing it.



slavekate80 -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/21/2014 5:37:42 PM)

Physical pleasure, no. Mental pleasure, hell yes.



LafayetteLady -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/21/2014 6:26:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12

quote:

ORIGINAL: Blueswordsman
Guys love receiving deep throat. Subs love to please. Almost every sexually active woman tried it.


I doubt this very much - not every guy even likes oral, not all subs love to please (I like being controlled) and I doubt the majority of women have tried a sex act that is popularised mainly through porn films.


While there is no such thing as "all" loving something, the reality is that the majority of men do love oral sex. It also was not made popular through porn either, but rather existed long, long before porn films existed.

I take issue with the "subs love to please." But only because to some extent, the majoritty of people have some desire to please their partner, and in EVERY successful relationship, at some time each partner will engage in some activity to make their partner happy, whether it involves oral sex, watching a sporting event or seeing a particular movie.

As for me, if I am to give someone oral sex, it is on my terms and I am in control. What pleasure I derive from it, depends on my mood at the time. Sometimes I can be really turned on and into it, other times, it might be a reward. That doesn't mean I am not enjoying giving said reward, I just may not be really turned on.



littlewonder -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/21/2014 6:29:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady

I take issue with the "subs love to please." But only because to some extent, the majoritty of people have some desire to please their partner, and in EVERY successful relationship, at some time each partner will engage in some activity to make their partner happy, whether it involves oral sex, watching a sporting event or seeing a particular movie.



Yup completely agree. I've given pretty much anything to any guy I have been with just to please them, whether they identified with bdsm or otherwise. For me it's never been a sub or bdsm thing but just who I am. I like to please the man I am with.



DanielleofMists -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/21/2014 6:33:04 PM)

I get no physical pleasure from deep throating but my brain is my biggest sex organ so giving pleasure to my partners is very mentally stimulating.



Shininglight23 -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/21/2014 7:17:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Blueswordsman

Guys love receiving deep throat.



I was very happy to find out that your statement is false. I've met men who don't like it at all. I enjoy pleasing the man I'm with, and enjoy the act of sucking cock, but on my terms. I don't want to be gagged--it ruins the experience for me.

That isn't to say I haven't been involved with a good throat fucking, but I'm mostly begging on the inside for it to be over.

Allie



ResidentSadist -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/22/2014 3:16:22 AM)

[sm=writing.gif] making note of everyone that says yes. Inviting them to my next party.



directiveerror -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/22/2014 3:23:10 AM)

nope, and i've found most guys aren't that into the sensation, its more just something you do to show off, and sure you leave it down on your instrokes but, do i nice count to 3 while swallowing rapidly to get that pulsating feeling.... but then go back to tongue and suction *shrugs* its more of an add on than the main show.



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Subs do you get physical pleasure from deep throating (1/22/2014 4:39:54 AM)

In my case..."Yup". My first master taught me the difference between giving oral (blow jobs) & deep throating (face fucking)... I will not give the details of my physical reaction the first time I got my forehead down against his groin (& yes..he was huge!). Although, some of it was just from "proving" I could!!

This thread is really unfair to poor Ron...



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