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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 1/29/2014 6:31:55 PM   
littlewonder


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the ones who call me 'little one', and decide I'm the one he wants after a few chat sessions.


Right after they call me that, I start to refer back to them as "little boy". For some odd reason they get upset though.

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 1/30/2014 9:57:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: chatnoire

the ones who call me 'little one', and decide I'm the one he wants after a few chat sessions.


Right after they call me that, I start to refer back to them as "little boy". For some odd reason they get upset though.


You're politer than me - I usually go with 'short-arse'

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 1/31/2014 11:33:14 AM   
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Chatnoire, that's somewhat of what I was going to say, lol! Or the ones that just preach at you, with random Bible quotes, stating how you need to be more like this, etc. And I am sure it's been mentioned, but don't expect me to call you "Sir", "Master" when I don't even know if you deserve.


Not going to happen. I'd nayer be so brazen as to push beyond your limits.

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 1/31/2014 1:02:26 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		Oooh, the one that thought he'd impress me by interrupting a scene to 'correct' my s/o.

If 'I' don't have a problem with my scene, and the owner of the dungeon has no problem, then you should shut your dicktrap and keep your opinions to yourself.


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You're politer than me - I usually go with 'short-arse'



It is always the short ones isn't it....weird

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 2/13/2014 1:18:30 PM   
SundaeGirl


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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 2/13/2014 1:49:54 PM   
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I struggled with this one. Here is the thing. Anyone I was with who I viewed as a dominant never had any annoying traits associated with their Dominant role (they might have had other personality quirks or other things that bugged me, but those things were not due to their being a Dominant, they were just aspects of their personal nature)....

GREAT answer... all of it not just the quoted part.

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 2/14/2014 5:07:35 AM   
thisisacutename


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Status: offline 		When a dominant finds out I smoke and I'm not even his submissive but he still flips out like "ohmagod I'm gonna make u stop that if u move in with me" and gets really weird about it... >.>

Also, probably the way that most dominants I've met feel about submissives. A lot that I've talked to so far seem to have this idea that either you're a total submissive, bowing to their every whim and having no life or opinion of your own, or you're a "fake submissive" and you obviously have no business in the kink world. >.<

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 2/18/2014 5:34:06 AM   
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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 2/18/2014 5:39:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder


quote:

ORIGINAL: chatnoire

the ones who call me 'little one', and decide I'm the one he wants after a few chat sessions.


Right after they call me that, I start to refer back to them as "little boy". For some odd reason they get upset though.



I call them baby dom, and they don't like that either, though I find it a great descriptor.

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/26/2014 4:11:50 AM   
amy89uk


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Status: offline 		I agree with a lot of the above, my biggest gripe after the initial belief by dominants that my life can be better run after knowing me for 10 minutes compared to my 24 years of getting by just fine,is the dominant without ideas. It's so frustrating when after discussing likes and dislikes they are asking me what I want done, completely shattering the power control as I'm the one in the driving seat. What's the point if the sub has to do all the thinking. That being said I've spoken to many who are respectful (very important, we are still human let's not forget) kind (when they need to be, I think dominants sometimes forget how vulnerable a sub can make themselves, we often need reassurances) and intelligent, so I mustn't complain too much :)

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/26/2014 12:47:44 PM   
subbibear


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Status: offline 		The Dominant that would tell my Dominant 'you should punish your sub for doing X,Y,Z' at a public event.

The Dominant who did not accept that he was on a path that required constant learning.

The Dominant who was forever living in the past.

The Dominant who could not trust me to make my own decisions regarding online friendships or to defend myself online should someone attempt to seduce me away.

The Dominant who could not live with the reality that I needed time when the collar is off just as much as I needed time when the collar is on.

The Dominant who insisted on high protocol, including formal positions, eye contact restrictions, and a bazillion other niggling rules to the point that it drove me insane.

The Dominant who cared not a whit if I was growing as a person, but only concerned himself with my sexual horizons.



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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/26/2014 12:50:39 PM   
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I just find dominants annoying... do I really need to come up with specific traits?

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/26/2014 1:04:25 PM   
LauraLake


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Status: offline 		Being a domme, I think I'm annoying. Being a high intensity over sexed woman I can be annoying. But I do none of those things. I call my house the land of the coddled slave.

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/26/2014 2:46:34 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

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I just find dominants annoying... do I really need to come up with specific traits?

Of course we are.
But then again, being annoying can be so much fun!

Fuck-whatcha people think? Evil takes work.
Blood, sweat and tears*
And like all good things, that means repetition, repetition, repetition




*Preferably someone elses

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/26/2014 4:12:20 PM   
TallullahHk


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Just a little...


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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/27/2014 12:19:31 AM   
KMsAngel


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Status: offline 		after reading so many of his posts, you gotta wonder if they're tears of happiness or joy, and pity the poor mouse who brought those tears on


that said, he does seem like a really sweet guy

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/27/2014 7:40:36 PM   
Kana


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I'd kinda like to see Kana cry.

Just a little...



No you wouldn't.
I don't suffer well and I don't suffer alone

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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/27/2014 7:51:43 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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ORIGINAL: Kana


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ORIGINAL: TallullahHk

I'd kinda like to see Kana cry.

Just a little...



No you wouldn't.
I don't suffer well and I don't suffer alone


I don't mind sharing agony to illicit tears from a Top... in fact it's kinda hot.





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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/27/2014 8:03:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Kana... Not interested in just lashing a man's back even with his pants on? I'd happily endure it to let you're anger out. Often like beatings and lashings in a completely nonsexual way, so no worries there!


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RE: What traits do you think are annoying in dominants? - 3/28/2014 3:28:12 PM   
TallullahHk


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ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: TallullahHk

I'd kinda like to see Kana cry.

Just a little...



No you wouldn't.
I don't suffer well and I don't suffer alone


Believe me it doesn't take much to get me to cry these days. Suffering would be short and maybe even a little sweet.

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