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littlewonder -> RE: deal breakers (1/31/2014 9:00:24 PM)
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ORIGINAL: pg4g
Yeah, I certainly don't understand that one, FelineRanger. A second chance is the least people deserve. But it would weigh in to the decision making, e.g. what it was for, and the circumstances that surrounded the crime. I'm not going to get into a relationship with a confessed murderer, for example. The risks you're putting into their hands during BDSM especially make this an important consideration.
For me it would depend on WHY they murdered. If they murdered someone under duress, for example, was a child soldier in Uganda and had no choice, assisted suicide, and other situations where they did murder someone but for good reason.
As for jail, my husband was in and out of jail and as most here know, Master was in jail before I met him. But my husband straightened up his life after he joined the military and we got married. He had totally changed his life and was no longer that person from before. The same for Master. Jail can make or break a person. Some never see the light and continue down the bad road while a few do see the light and follow it.
ETA: One more deal breaker I just thought of:
If you have too much of an open mind that you are easily influenced and you are into hippy,dippy, trippy, new-agey stuff and think that aliens built the pyramids and you think everyone should be fair and equal and let my people go! yada yada yada. I like a man who knows what he likes, dislikes, knows who he is, stands by his views.
ETA: Oh and I kinda like a man who hasn't married yet. I get to feel like I'm special and the one he was waiting for. :) Let me have my fantasy.
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