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RE: Suggestions?? - 7/8/2006 2:13:47 PM

IronBear

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From professional experience, therapy is a good step to help you deal with your situation. However once you add another person into the equasion such as your master, this does alter the matrix. It is excelent that you have discussed your problems with your Master and he may well be the best therapist you can have. If he is boith gentle. patient and understanding he can help you through your down side of loosing it. let the tears flow and let him help you. If you plan to be together long term have him talk with your therapist as well. Remember good counselling requires a counsellor/therapist to listen and help you (Both in this case) devise a game plan and then the counsellor becomes your coach. I can promise you that what you are going through can be helped and probably remedied, it just takes time and the right people.....

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RE: Suggestions?? - 7/8/2006 2:14:08 PM

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i just wanted to thank Everyone for all of their encouragement, support, advice, and yes even their bluntness...LOL... At any rate, i just wanted to let You all know that Sir and i spoke of this situation and all of my fears, issues, and concerns regarding this situation...i honestly don't even remember what was said (which is somewhat bizare for a person like me who generally remembers word for word details of every conversation).. However, i do know this...i walked away feeling as though whatever happens (or doesn't happen) it will all be okay...and He will be there for me no matter what, so i'm not going through this alone... and i guess knowing that he cares for me unconditionally makes it all worth the risk..Thank You all for everything You said to me here...
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RE: Suggestions?? - 7/8/2006 2:15:41 PM

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Thank You sooo much for Your words of wisdom...i've come to really really respect Your words...

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