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DesFIP -> RE: Fallout (2/6/2014 6:47:16 PM)
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And next time you're thinking to yourself "I need you to hold me", say it in words. Do not expect your partner to be a mind reader.
He may never understand why you feel the way you do, and that's okay, but if you ask for what you need and receive it, that should be enough.
The one time things went really wrong here, he stopped immediately and held me down while all I wanted was to lock myself away from him. What we did afterward was go back to the very beginning and play for some months consisted solely of things he was positive I would enjoy. Sensual play only because he knew that would get a good reaction from me.
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