MattUK2
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ORIGINAL: RemoteUser So instead, I'll say this: you've already begun figuring out what you want by commenting on appearances. Keep expressing those wants. If someone dislikes them, well, they aren't for you. It will help weed out people, until you are able to find the one you want. Until then, remember the axiom about what to do if, at first, you don't succeed. Thank you - this time I MAKE MY NEEDS known and as you say it will weed out people until I GET what I want. Use to think that was a selfish way to think. Had a counselor/mentor tell me the same many years ago, and then I started listening to a woman and how I should be more considerate of her needs and the needs of women being the weaker sex, blah, blah. Better too old, then too late.
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