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alovingslavegirl -> The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 11:12:33 AM)
Masters, Can You describe Your perfect slave? What does she like? How does she behave? What is her past like? Any kind of answer would help me along my quest to better myself. Thank You.

Caretakr -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 11:25:21 AM)
The perfect slave submits to her nature. She likes to be free to express that. How she behaves, is a compromise between her personality and her Master's conditioning. Her past is what brought her to her present. Nothing more. Making that past her focus, is futile. Those choices she makes in the moment, decide her future.

Kinkypupper -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 11:38:16 AM)
Her name is lilpony and she wears my collar 24/7 and will do so for the rest of her life and beyond.

TxBadMan -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 12:19:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alovingslavegirl Masters, Can You describe Your perfect slave? What does she like? How does she behave? What is her past like? Any kind of answer would help me along my quest to better myself. Thank You. I hate to disillusion you, but there is no such thing as ''perfect". On the other hand, if you were to ask 'what is perfect for ME' the answers would be as differnet as night and day.

Padriag -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 12:23:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alovingslavegirl Masters, Can You describe Your perfect slave? What does she like? How does she behave? What is her past like? This is one of those questions that is very difficult to answer because all most can really say is what they personally prefer. Some like high protocol slaves, others couldn't care less about such protocols. Some like pain sluts, others don't like to inflict pain at all. I thought about your question and tried to cut away all my own personal preferences and get to the heart of things, things that would be as close to universally true as possible. What I came up with is this. She is obedient, she wants to be pleasing and useful. I think given just those qualities, any owner could then train such a slave to be what they want, whatever that may be. But I do not think that any slave would do very well without those qualities.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 12:43:25 PM)
girl, you're going to get as many answers to this question as there are people to answer it. Instead, why not look within to see how you can make yourself better, just for the sake of your own personal growth? In doing that, you'll find that your improvement will bring in those who truly appreciate you for you, not for who you want to be or who they project you are. Master Fire

LadyHugs -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 1:18:57 PM)
Dear alovingslavegirl, Ladies and Gentlemen; Lass, just walk to a mirror and see yourself as the beautiful loving slave girl you are. You come across a gentle lass, affectionate and pleasing young lady. Worry not about the body, worry not about what you might assume as perfection of a slave. The truth is held in your spirit and experience, knowledge and listening to your gut instincts as to what is good and bad is very important. Be that loving slave girl to yourself first, so that you can be that loving slave girl to a deserving Master/Mistress. Being honest to yourself first and everything will come in it's proper time and place. Respectfully submitted for consideration, Lady Hugs

txpet -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 1:31:15 PM)
i'm obviously not a Master but if i may, i would like to add my opinion here. There is no "perfect slave" and while no one is PERFECT, you can be the "perfect you". you have to know what you want ... and you have to be willing ot do whatever it takes to get what you want. i know i want Master happy and i will do anything and everything it takes to behave un whatever manner will please Him. He does have to tell me what He finds pleasing, however. i am not a mind reader. For me to be the perfect slave does not involve finding out what Others want or look for, for me, being the perfect slave is listening and watching Master so i can do as He wishes. Most importantly, being the perfect slave for Master (which of course will nto really ever happen but i continually strive for anyway) involves copious amounts of TRUST ... one thing i have learned is that i trust Master implicitly and easily but that i need to learn to trust that Master wants me and enjoys me. It is not learning to trust Master where i have issues so much as it is my own self-value that i have problems with. So, the "perfect slave" will not dwell on her own issues but learn to let go of them and trust her Master. Of course, there are other things that i believe are essential, such as honesty, obedience, devotion, dedication ... but al these come easily to me so i did not dwell on them. ::smile:: Just be the most perfect you that you can be and you will find a Master that values you. All slaves ahve value but no one else is you.

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 2:38:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr The perfect slave submits to her nature. She likes to be free to express that. How she behaves, is a compromise between her personality and her Master's conditioning. Wow. Beautifully put, Caretakr. Now, please tell me again why you aren't taking applications at the moment? ::sigh::

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 2:40:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TxBadMan I hate to disillusion you, but there is no such thing as ''perfect". On the other hand, if you were to ask 'what is perfect for ME' the answers would be as differnet as night and day. Actually, that's how I took the question. I was assuming the intent was to see all the flavours of the rainbow, and get a better sense of the possibilities. I could be wrong, but that's how I understood the question. If you notice, she did say YOUR perfect slave, not THE perfect slave -except in the title.

ownedgirlie -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 4:45:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr The perfect slave submits to her nature. She likes to be free to express that. How she behaves, is a compromise between her personality and her Master's conditioning. Her past is what brought her to her present. Nothing more. Making that past her focus, is futile. Those choices she makes in the moment, decide her future. Nicely said. One of the first things Master taught me was to focus on the now and not the past. That was a difficult one. And I echo Cin. The OP said YOUR perfect slave....meaning your opinion of what is perfect for you.

LokisBrat -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 5:39:36 PM)
Being genuine to yourself is what you need to start with. By genuine I mean, put forth your inner self and who you really are, versus what someone wants you to be. When you are pleased with yourself and your actions, your self esteem will be brilliant. This way you won't have "questions" about the relationship you're in and whether it is benefiting you, as well as whether you are reaching your full potential. Most would love the chance to work with this quality. LOKI

Tamerofwild1s -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 5:49:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alovingslavegirl Masters, Can You describe Your perfect slave? What does she like? How does she behave? What is her past like? Any kind of answer would help me along my quest to better myself. Thank You. this is just my opinion .... there isno one being perfect save God ..... with that said and done . there is one who is "perfect for me" and I think thats what you were more inclined to ask. to me she is willing to give me all of her ... she gets her greatest pleasure from making sure I have mine .. she completes me as much as I complete her. her past mean nothing as it is our future that means everything ....

WetHotGoddess -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 6:31:31 PM)
*There is no such thing as perfection.* Perfection depends upon what I need at any given time. To find the submissive who knows instinctively what my mood is, who can "feel" me, and knows my desires at any given time, I think would be perfection. *Now, crawl to your Master, worm!* *winking* *Ariel* *and for god's sake lighten up, people! sheesh.. I think half the population of CM has me blocked ALREADY!*

Level -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 6:36:03 PM)
She has a powerful need to obey me, and please me. She is gentle and strong; intelligent and curious; she is my comedic soulmate; I can trust her words and her deeds as I do my own.

Caretakr -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 6:47:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr The perfect slave submits to her nature. She likes to be free to express that. How she behaves, is a compromise between her personality and her Master's conditioning. Wow. Beautifully put, Caretakr. Now, please tell me again why you aren't taking applications at the moment? ::sigh:: Due to the realization that I have a lot in life to get set straight, before making any serious commitment. And having gone down this road a bit too far, not to be serious about it.

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 6:58:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful quote: ORIGINAL: Caretakr The perfect slave submits to her nature. She likes to be free to express that. How she behaves, is a compromise between her personality and her Master's conditioning. Wow. Beautifully put, Caretakr. Now, please tell me again why you aren't taking applications at the moment? ::sigh:: Due to the realization that I have a lot in life to get set straight, before making any serious commitment. And having gone down this road a bit too far, not to be serious about it. What a shame. ::sigh::

feastie -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 7:05:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level She has a powerful need to obey me, and please me. She is gentle and strong; intelligent and curious; she is my comedic soulmate; I can trust her words and her deeds as I do my own. Careful, Level, words like these could make a girl swoon.

Level -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 8:36:12 PM)
wiggles both eyebrows [;)] And a PS to my post-- open-mindedness. A closed mind makes my heart hurt, and my ass red.

FangsNfeet -> RE: The Perfect Slave (7/6/2006 8:49:27 PM)
Perfection = boreing. How do you punish someone for being perfect? There's not much fun for me when there's no challenge.

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