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freedomdwarf1 -> RE: What is female dominance? (2/22/2014 2:56:20 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Arturas
...This supports my observation that only role reversal is the single 100 percent difference between submissive woman and domme.
I'm not quite sure where role reversal fits with what OP is asking - ie, female dominance.
As usual Arty, you are derailing the thread with your own inferences and irrelevant conjecture.
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ORIGINAL: Arturas
This is predicated on the accepted fact the vast majority of women are submissive more that the other and therefore this supports the assumption women's natural role is just that.
If you look outside and into real life instead of your own inner circle and dynamic, you'll probably discover this isn't so.
And I don't subscribe to the idea that women are "naturally" submissive.
But if that's the way your narrow PoV sees things, that's your problem and not the real world.
I'll give you just one simple example: The corner shop. Sure, most men are at the forefront, looking and behaving all domly-dom and stuff by making the woman look subservient by serving at the counter.
But it's usually all up-front show. Look behind the scenes - and yes, since having a wholsesale account and now shopping in a wholesalers instead of supermarkets, it opened my eyes!!
In the supermarket, who do you usually see doing the shopping and making the decisions on what and how much to buy?? The women!
In the wholesalers, who handles the money and decides what to stock the shop with?? The women!!
In many businesses, who holds a lot of the middle-management power and does the organising?? The women!! The only reason many women don't make it to the echelons of the boardroom and CEO positions is the male stronghold in a typical male-run society.
Many women actually "run" today's corporations - the men are just the mouthpiece.
And just like a typical male dominated society, when the shit hits the fan the women are usually the scapegoats.
And just like the old addage "behind every good man is a good woman".
Sorry Arty, women are far more dominant than you like to give credence to.
Now back on topic....
To the OP: Both Rawni and Sylvere gave a pretty good idea of what female dominance actually is, in posts #2 and #3.
Proper female dominance, as opposed to a fin/prodom, is just a female taking charge of the decisions for the most part.
It really is as simple as that.
What the BDSM scene does is to amplify that situation and extend it into the bedroom.
What you need to do is step away from the typical male-driven porn.
Just simply look up the definition of "Dominance" in a dictionary -
Mirriam Webster
Main Entry: dominance
Function:noun.
Date:1819
1 : the fact or state of being dominant: as
a : dominant position especially in a social hierarchy
b : the property of one of a pair of alleles or traits that suppresses expression of the other in the heterozygous condition
c : the influence or control over ecological communities exerted by a dominant
2 : functional asymmetry between a pair of bodily structures (as the right and left hands)
Now just add Male or Female as the one being dominant.
I really don't understand the problem of how OP couldn't find the definition. [8|]
ETA: I can't believe that its taken darned near 50 posts to show the OP what this means.
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