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ORIGINAL: asanaambitions
Hello ladies! I'm starting this thread because of something brought up elsewhere, namely the lack of reality-based resources that are out there for submissive men who are wanting to be in F/m relationships.

Typical resources for typical male trying to figure out kink! :)
http://extremetube.com
http://moviemo.com
http://ok-porn.com
http://pornhub.com
http://redtube.com
http://tube8.com
http://www.tubeshere.com
http://xhamster.com
http://xvideos.com

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ORIGINAL: asanaambitions

Hello ladies! I'm starting this thread because of something brought up elsewhere, namely the lack of reality-based resources that are out there for submissive men who are wanting to be in F/m relationships. We all know that they get much of their information from porn and "informational" sites which are really just more fantasy wrapped up in enough technical jargon to seem plausible enough to get the guys to open up their wallets. This has frustrated me for a very long time because I can't help but get the sense that if these guys were just given better information we could help curb the porn contamination that's so prevalant in the F/m community. So what I have done is start a Tumblr blog which I want to focus solely on what it is that real dominant women want and require out of their relationships. I don't want this to become a money making thing, just a way to provide real information to those who are basically starved of any sort of realistic portrayal of female led dynamics. Having said all that, I'm a huge admirer of many of the ladies here and I think you're all seriously smart and amazing. I'm hoping that some of you might be willing to occasionally contribute your own thoughts to this blog (or let me know your Tumblr, so I can re-blog things that aren't porn-centric) so that it's not just me speaking into the void. I feel that having multiple contributors will help hammer home the point that it's not just me and my opinions, but that dominant ladies really are quite different to how we're often portrayed in the media (whether that be TV shows, movies or the already mentioned FemDom porn).

I've now shared the Tumblr in my sig line (right now it only has one post up, still very much in it's infancy). I'd be happy to share both new material as well as stuff that's already been written with of course credit given where it's due and links to the original content (if you're sharing something from your own website or blog perhaps). Let me know your thoughts, thanks!

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ORIGINAL: Pyramus
Given that lost approach is all too commonly used as the ONLY approach by we men, I heartily approve of the OP's goal of providing a worthy alternative to the lost art of explaining what women really want in a typical F/m relationship!

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ORIGINAL: asanaambitions

Hello ladies! I'm starting this thread because of something brought up elsewhere, namely the lack of reality-based resources that are out there for submissive men who are wanting to be in F/m relationships. We all know that they get much of their information from porn and "informational" sites which are really just more fantasy wrapped up in enough technical jargon to seem plausible enough to get the guys to open up their wallets. This has frustrated me for a very long time because I can't help but get the sense that if these guys were just given better information we could help curb the porn contamination that's so prevalant in the F/m community. So what I have done is start a Tumblr blog which I want to focus solely on what it is that real dominant women want and require out of their relationships. I don't want this to become a money making thing, just a way to provide real information to those who are basically starved of any sort of realistic portrayal of female led dynamics. Having said all that, I'm a huge admirer of many of the ladies here and I think you're all seriously smart and amazing. I'm hoping that some of you might be willing to occasionally contribute your own thoughts to this blog (or let me know your Tumblr, so I can re-blog things that aren't porn-centric) so that it's not just me speaking into the void. I feel that having multiple contributors will help hammer home the point that it's not just me and my opinions, but that dominant ladies really are quite different to how we're often portrayed in the media (whether that be TV shows, movies or the already mentioned FemDom porn).

I've now shared the Tumblr in my sig line (right now it only has one post up, still very much in it's infancy). I'd be happy to share both new material as well as stuff that's already been written with of course credit given where it's due and links to the original content (if you're sharing something from your own website or blog perhaps). Let me know your thoughts, thanks!

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ORIGINAL: ComeSitAndRelax

As an inexperienced submissive male, I've found it best to take a non-sex-centric approach to the F/m dynamic. It's just like any other Leader/subordinate dynamic to me. I've learned how to fit into a group dynamic by my past experiences with teachers and coaches. Most subs have spent most their lives being submissive in the real world. They just need to apply that experience to their D/s relationship.