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not really a seasoned domme here.. - 11/20/2004 12:29:17 PM   
SouthernBBWDomme


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Status: offline 		So I have a question..

what is an alpha sub?

Thanks in advance!
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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 11/20/2004 1:12:08 PM   
LadyShoshin


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ORIGINAL: SouthernBBWDomme

So I have a question..

what is an alpha sub?

Thanks in advance!

Can also be called a number 1 sub. Generally in a poly situation or stable of submissives, this sub serves the Dominant, but has authority over the other subs in the household and may even dom them if the Master/Mistress wishes it.

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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 11/20/2004 8:35:37 PM   
MistressFire70


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Many houses who have multiple sub/slaves assign a heirachy. This is one kind. An alpha sub is the "head" sub in a family of subs. The terminology is taken straight from wolf and dog packs. The alpha wolf is the one in charge, the betta is next, etc. etc.

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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 11/21/2004 3:34:30 PM   
AlphaGeek


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Status: offline 		Note that not all poly/bdsm relationships utilize this "pecking order" thing. Mine certainly dosen't, and most of the poly kinksters in the circles I travel within don't either.

Besides, could you imagine the ration of crap an "omega sub" would get? Sheeeeesh!

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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 11/21/2004 3:43:23 PM   
MistressDREAD


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My omegas are pampered pets.
and the pecking order as you call
it works quite well. Its was the C O C K
that made such a pecking order work.
My slave dread is My alpha and
you better beleive he runs My
home just like I would in My absence
and has served Me an Mine quite well.


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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 1/19/2005 9:01:23 AM   
garylee


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From: from? iowa.....
Status: offline 		since coming into this household,..with my Mistress......She already has a sub here,...although she is female,...she is Ma'am's #1........so she is the alpha.
i ,..male....just coming into here.......do not have the senority(sp?)....the amount of time....that she does,.........i am the beta.......2nd in line.
does this help?
garylee
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slave to Ms Cindy

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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 1/19/2005 9:45:13 AM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		Kind of like an alpha wolf, but the pissing contest is on a more rarified plane.

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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 1/19/2005 9:58:41 AM   
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quote:

Kind of like an alpha wolf, but the pissing contest is on a more rarified plane.


You kill me somtimes...LOL

Lily

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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 1/19/2005 10:54:00 AM   
nella


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Status: offline 		i am engaeded to be marrid to my Dom, if we would ever have another sub in our relationship, they would be his sub but i would also be his wife, and would terfore be considerd the alpha sub.

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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 1/19/2005 10:57:34 AM   
ProtagonistLily


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Status: offline 		Um, thanks Nella, for the detailed explaination. I am well aware of poly pecking orders and what an alpha, beta....etc. order means.

Thanks for the explaination though,
Lily

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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 1/19/2005 11:13:21 AM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		She was in all likelihood replying to the thread in general, dear. 'Tis but a minor mistake, a mere misapplication of one button over another, both of which are marked "reply".

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RE: not really a seasoned domme here.. - 1/19/2005 11:22:41 AM   
ProtagonistLily


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She was in all likelihood replying to the thread in general, dear. 'Tis but a minor mistake, a mere misapplication of one button over another, both of which are marked "reply".


Now, should I be taking offense to that 'dear'? ~grins~

I'm learning so much today

Lily

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