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RE: Rejection - 2/20/2014 8:11:58 AM

LafayetteLady

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I'm sorry you are going through this. Filing a police report is your best bet on stopping it.

While it certainly isn't all dominants or all guys, this does seem to be something I've see from quite a few, both dom and sub. I think that there are a significant number of guys who think by checking the dominant box, women will automatically fall at their feet.

I once was talking with a submissive man. All seemed perfectly normal. Just conversation, nothing outright about kink. We discussed meeting for coffee, just to meet face to face. I told him to expect very vanilla as I don't engage that way until I decide I want to develop a relationship. At this point he kept insisting I do something (anything really) to assert my dominance over himduring that date. I refused and reminded him that as the dominant I would decide when and where. He the proceeded to call me names.

Of course your situation is worse than that. So file the report, tell your boss you have a stalker and get those other two ladies to attest to the police he did similar to him. Hopefully the fear of jail will straighten him out.

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RE: Rejection - 2/20/2014 8:24:17 AM

DesFIP

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Please go to the police. That really is your best bet. Because you don't know what he'll do next and having already reported it, the next incident will be treated as escalation and given more attention.

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RE: Rejection - 2/21/2014 8:51:33 AM

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To the OP, Well I believe you have gotten good sound advice from many. Always keep your vanilla life as confidential to yourself as possible. People who are predators are very good in charming so be mindful. And I hope this all gets straighten out for you.

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RE: Rejection - 2/21/2014 10:53:23 AM

jlf1961

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I have been rejected by subs, slaves, dogs, cats (no big deal there) aliens, ghosts, even fatal diseases dont want to have anything to do with me.

I even had a succubus tell me to get lost.

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RE: Rejection - 2/21/2014 3:13:02 PM

kiwisub12

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Oh no! You were rejected by a CAT!!!!!!

How horrible for you......

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RE: Rejection - 2/21/2014 3:13:54 PM

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Think of how the mouse feels.............

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RE: Rejection - 2/21/2014 3:34:06 PM

jlf1961

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The super soaker might have intimidated the cat.....

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