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FieryOpal -> RE: Watching guys (3/3/2014 5:13:50 PM)
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ORIGINAL: altialt
[a.] Okay I have suspected for some time that dom woman never really enjoy waching guys do analplay - exposing themselves in that manner on cam. [b.] But some woman agree to do so anyway... [c.] Is this to please the sub, or [d.] do dom woman get anything out of watching a guy fuck himself in the ass? [e.] Just pure basic lust?
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Let's start from the beginning and break this down. Nobody is condemning your kink or trying to make you feel that it's wrong in and of itself. There's nothing wrong with having to scratch your balls, for example, but would you expect women to get turned on by watching this act either, whether they were kinky or not, esp. seeing some strange man do it?
I should also mention that given you are listed as having joined back in 2006, why would any of us assume this was new to you or treat you like a newbie?
(a) You say you already suspected that Dommes don't enjoy watching guys engaging in anal play, exposing themselves on cam. We affirmed your suspicion. One exception, a Domme who might be willing to watch a man with model good-looks, as a package deal. Not just to see what he did with his ass, but to perhaps lust over his physique, fantasize about all the other things she'd like to do to him and with him.... I personally wouldn't care to see anything along these lines on cam. If it's not up close and personal with me as an active participant with my partner, I have zero interest.
(b) As has already been pointed out, some of these "women" may actually be men. Assuming it is in fact a woman, chances are she's not going to agree to watch you for free, and she'll be pretending to share your kink while she's filing her nails and suppressing her yawns.
(c) I'll avoid generalizing here. I never had much if any interest in ass play. My ex-husband was the one who wanted me go further than a well-lubed finger up his ass or circling a vibrator around his anus. We usually incorporated this along with an OTK spanking at my insistence. In my particular case, I did things I thought he would enjoy, and if it hadn't pleased him or if he didn't enjoy it, there were plenty of other non-ass-related things to do. So yes, this was done to please my sub-husband, and it never occurred to me to WANT to see him auto-penetrate, not even with a butt plug, meaning I didn't make him do it to himself. What would be the fun in that?
(d) You've gotten a number of responses from Dommes indicating we don't get anything out of watching this, particularly with some random dude on the Internet.
(e) Whether this has to do with "Just pure basic lust?" on the part of male subs, this is a rhetorical question, unless you want opinions on how "pure" or "basic" and/or "lustful" a kink we think it is, outside the scope of your original queries. I see nothing wrong with it intrinsically in the context of an intimate relationship for other males to want to do, but not with my own sub performing self-penetration. I'd sooner watch him masturbate.
You asked, didn't like what you heard, tried to spin this into a cam-into-relationship scenario, which is total b.s. Unless my partner in a pre-established relationship happened to be on tour of duty where we were going to be separated for a length of time (where I'm sure he couldn't get away with such an exhibition undetected), I would have no reason to be camming with him in the first place. I wouldn't be exposing myself to him either on camera. Domme or not, a good many of us women are just not into voyeurism/exhibitionism, despite how much you want it to become your personal reality.
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