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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 5:11:02 PM   
porchia


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When was the last time weight had any real impact on who a person was inside?



when they died of a heart attack, stroke, diabetes!! 

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 5:14:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: desertdancer
Caretaker, thanks to you, I spent a fitful night sobbing because I followed your cruel cruel link and accidentally SHOT a sweet oh so cute dancing hamster... your an evil evil man.
* winks*
~one distraught dancer


YOU are upset?!  I had to read this whole THREAD to find out where to shoot the hampsters!  
 
However, target practice on a couple dozen teletubbies put me back into a good mood.  

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 5:19:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: catize

The 10 Top Reasons this submissive is a ‘fat girl’
 
10.    Because when I weigh in on a topic, I like to make an impression
 

9  I last a few days longer when I’m chained in the basement 

     
    8 The layers of fat keep me nice and warm since I am kept naked at all times
     

    7  It makes sleeping on the floor more comfortable

       
      6. Master can use me for a bolster pillow while he watches a movie
       
      5. There was enough room on my butt for Master to tattoo the words:
      One Man’s fat is another Man’s Fancy.
       
      4. When Master whips me, ‘ice cream’
       
      3. I’m altruistic; skinny submissives can feel superior when they stand next to me
       
      2. Cum is loaded with calories
       
      And the number one reason:
      1.  Master said we were going to attend a munch and all I heard was the last word!
        I am now a catize fan!!...Tempting

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 5:27:34 PM   
      JohnWarren


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      quote:

      ORIGINAL: Invictus754

      quote:

      ORIGINAL: desertdancer
      Caretaker, thanks to you, I spent a fitful night sobbing because I followed your cruel cruel link and accidentally SHOT a sweet oh so cute dancing hamster... your an evil evil man.
      * winks*
      ~one distraught dancer


      YOU are upset?!  I had to read this whole THREAD to find out where to shoot the hampsters!  
       
      However, target practice on a couple dozen teletubbies put me back into a good mood.  


      What I want is Barney the dinosaur downrange and running

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 5:31:31 PM   
      sublizzie


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      quote:

      ORIGINAL: catize

      The 10 Top Reasons this submissive is a ‘fat girl’
       
      10.    Because when I weigh in on a topic, I like to make an impression
       


      I really enjoyed all of these. If I may add my own, at my age the fat helps keep the wrinkles plumped out so I look younger, which is always a good idea when you're 50+! LOL

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 5:34:39 PM   
      Slipstreme


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      quote:

      YOU are upset?!  I had to read this whole THREAD to find out where to shoot the hampsters!  
       
      However, target practice on a couple dozen teletubbies put me back into a good mood.


      Same here :P

      quote:

      when they died of a heart attack, stroke, diabetes!!   


      I didn't say it was healthy, just common. I'm tired of people being flamed, put down and treated like shit because they are fat. I have been fat all my life. It doesn't stop me from trying to lose weight (lost 40lbs btw). By the way, even then, the person's personality is far more important than their weight.

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 6:12:19 PM   
      irishbynature


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      Status: offline       		I think the OP is merely trying to get some negative attention with this thread. Many Americans, both male, female...are overweight--subs/doms/master/slave, etc...honestly, I don't think it has anything to do with  D/s...rather, busy lives, drive thru dinners, and stress.

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 8:06:43 PM   
      hipastonicice


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      Status: offline       		Personally it was lack of direction that I gained weight. Was in vanilla relationships that had no real emotional hold, just boredom.I didn't care what I looked like because no one challenged me to be a better person.  I had no respect for the person I was with, because they liked being seen with someone built like I was. Until recently I almost used it as a test. If a man told me how wonderful and beautiful I was, without telling me I could be better, they are lying or a fool. I have realized why I was not happy in that life and decided to quit pretending. I am working like crazy to 'fix' myself. to what I have been and can be again. Again that is just me personally. Hell everyone has their preferences, I prefer someone tall and bigger built myself, I mean really its gonna take a strong person that can show me the way. If its  not what you are looking for, then it shouldn't matter.

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 8:28:27 PM   
      truesub4u


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      quote:

      ORIGINAL: porchia

      quote:

      When was the last time weight had any real impact on who a person was inside?



      when they died of a heart attack, stroke, diabetes!! 


      Ummmm.... i've seen slim..skinny.. people die of exact same causes... granted the weight doesn't help... but isn't the main cause.. geeeezzz


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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 8:51:51 PM   
      sirrenders


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      Status: offline       		Have to agree with the statement that most of the subs are in the "mooooo category", myself included.  Yes, there are many reasons we are overweight and yes our masters still want us.   Perhaps this question should be addressed to the dominants.  Why do you allow your subs to fall into the "moooo category".. exercise some of that control and make us get in shape.  <tons of laughs>  Sometimes I think the answer, "I like you the way you are is a cop out"...Perhaps we should do an analysis of the weight issue and find the exact ratio of  fat-to-fit subs on this site.

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/8/2006 7:28:33 AM   
      CreativeDominant


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      quote:

      ORIGINAL: Invictus754

      quote:

      ORIGINAL: desertdancer
      Caretaker, thanks to you, I spent a fitful night sobbing because I followed your cruel cruel link and accidentally SHOT a sweet oh so cute dancing hamster... your an evil evil man.
      * winks*
      ~one distraught dancer


      YOU are upset?!  I had to read this whole THREAD to find out where to shoot the hampsters!  
       
      However, target practice on a couple dozen teletubbies put me back into a good mood.  

      O.K....I've done the hamsters...thanks to the wicked zumala...now, lead me to those teletubbies.

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/8/2006 7:48:37 AM   
      IronBear


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      Status: offline       		Hate waking up in ther morning and seeing sme really skinny lass who looks great in subdues light showing all her ribs and the impront of her spine against her navel.  Ok that's an exaduration but I kinda like some love handles and lets face it when was the last time you saw a really slim lass with boobs large enough to massage you cock between them or bounce a nipple in each eye... Thers is a healthy medium and some folk are big boned or have large shoulders because the swim a lot.. I've been 135kg (about 285lbs) most of my life. With osteoarthritis and diabetes, it is commonsence to get my weight back to a better level. Ultimately it is the person who matters and if some one prefers a larger thanlife sub then who are we to comment. If they are happy then leave them the fuck alone.... Two additional thoughts:
      1. Take many of the catwalk models with figures like wow. My experience with thtm is that they are lousy fucks. Better fucks are with ladies with the classic figures which the masters loved painting.
      2. Some smaller ladies seem to have the idea that us large guys only want girls with giant hooters. Not always the case. I want quality rather than quantity. Quality being sensitive boobs and nipples. However this is only a small part of the equasion and not a defining point on who I want to have in a collar.


      < Message edited by IronBear -- 7/8/2006 7:49:31 AM >

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/8/2006 7:57:42 AM   
      MadamShy


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      I think a large body makes a beautiful canvas


      and a large female bottom is more welcome than a large Male bottom to Me
      its .just more beautiful

      of course this is only My opinion

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/8/2006 8:04:16 AM   
      enthralled


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      quote:

      ORIGINAL: hardbodiedbitch

      Looking for a Domme on this board, but can't help but notice that many female subs fall into the "moooooooo" category, much more so than the generally overweight population.  Why is that?


      LMAO .... oh my god, you have GOT to be into humiliation by posting this thread!!
      I'm right ... aren't I? eh? ....

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/8/2006 8:14:09 AM   
      Slipstreme


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      quote:

      personaly

      I think a large body makes a beautiful canvas



      I have to agree a bit with this. I've seen some skinny people who made me a bit leery to want to take a whip to. No muscle mass, no fat, just skin and bones on some of these people.

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/8/2006 8:30:55 AM   
      Level


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      quote:

      ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

      quote:

      ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

      I can't help but notice a trend of  intellectually challenged "first" posts made by members who appear to have joined recently.  Why  is that?


      Probably because they have exhausted all of their posts on their prior screen names when they flamed everyone... 


      Me thinks the ladies are on to something............

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/8/2006 8:34:55 AM   
      feastie


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      quote:

      ORIGINAL: truesub4u

      quote:

      ORIGINAL: porchia

      quote:

      When was the last time weight had any real impact on who a person was inside?



      when they died of a heart attack, stroke, diabetes!! 


      Ummmm.... i've seen slim..skinny.. people die of exact same causes... granted the weight doesn't help... but isn't the main cause.. geeeezzz



      I have a friend who is nearly six feet tall, has a problem keeping enough weight on...

      she's currently recovering from kidney transplant surgery, her diabetes could not be controlled and it messed up both her kidneys...

      It could happen to anyone, short, tall, fat, thin...

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      RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/8/2006 8:35:36 AM   
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      quote:

      ORIGINAL: catize

      The 10 Top Reasons this submissive is a ‘fat girl’
       
      10.    Because when I weigh in on a topic, I like to make an impression
       

      9  I last a few days longer when I’m chained in the basement 

         
        8 The layers of fat keep me nice and warm since I am kept naked at all times
         

        7  It makes sleeping on the floor more comfortable


           
          6. Master can use me for a bolster pillow while he watches a movie
           
          5. There was enough room on my butt for Master to tattoo the words:
          One Man’s fat is another Man’s Fancy.
           
          4. When Master whips me, ‘ice cream’
           
          3. I’m altruistic; skinny submissives can feel superior when they stand next to me
           
          2. Cum is loaded with calories
           
          And the number one reason:
          1.  Master said we were going to attend a munch and all I heard was the last word!


          LOL catize, well done; David Letterman (or his writers ) couldn't have done better.

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          RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/8/2006 8:55:13 AM   
          juliaoceania


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          quote:

          ORIGINAL: Kedikat

          I'm in a sarcastic mood...

          When it comes to overweight discussions I do like the comments by a morbidly obese person, that the eat almost nothing but continue to gain or keep on the weight, while they go to the gym etc....
          Often they explain it is their amazing low metabolism, glandular problem, or some other odd calorie producing thing aside from food.

          So I have to wonder how nature has missed this amazing calorie from nothing thing. Why are we not all afflicted with something like this that can keep us well fed on nothing? Especially all those folks starving to death in drought afflicted countrys.

          It's a bit of a mystery.....



          I have a sister with lupus that has thyroid problems and also has had to take meds that help with fibro that caused her to be extremely heavy. She also has a growth on a nerve in her foot which limits the exercise she can do for now. There are many health problems that can cause someone to be morbidly obese.. look at Jerry Lewis. BTW, my sister doesn't eat much.

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          RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/8/2006 8:55:34 AM   
          LadyJulieAnn


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          quote:

          ORIGINAL: catize

          The 10 Top Reasons this submissive is a ‘fat girl’
           
          10.    Because when I weigh in on a topic, I like to make an impression
           9  I last a few days longer when I’m chained in the basement 
          8 The layers of fat keep me nice and warm since I am kept naked at all times
           7  It makes sleeping on the floor more comfortable
          6. Master can use me for a bolster pillow while he watches a movie
           5. There was enough room on my butt for Master to tattoo the words: One Man’s fat is another Man’s Fancy.
           4. When Master whips me, ‘ice cream’
           3. I’m altruistic; skinny submissives can feel superior when they stand next to me
           2. Cum is loaded with calories
           
          And the number one reason:
          1.  Master said we were going to attend a munch and all I heard was the last word!


          Very clever.
           
          Be well,
          Julie

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