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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 8:29:13 AM

zenofeller

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oh god, we're not doing this again, are we ?!

we just did it last week. 3 threads.

can a mod maybe make a sticky thread about fat women and be done with it ?

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 8:30:02 AM

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because some of us ain't got nuffin' better ta do with our time...LOL

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 8:31:26 AM

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No,we need to set up a whining section, and move them all there-with a limit of one reply per user, so they die a fast and well-merited death.

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 8:50:39 AM

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Looking for a Domme on this board, but can't help but notice that many female subs fall into the "moooooooo" category, much more so than the generally overweight population. Why is that?

I do not understand why the issue of weight is being resurected time and time again, unless it is to hurt people's feelings, make them angry, and drive them from the Forums. Honestly, many of the interesting topics and responses come from those who are no longer posting here. It happed just after the last topic on overweight dommes.

We know that this is a sensitive issue, and that probably there littte that can be done about it, so it doesn't help to belabor the ussue with pager after page of posts about the subject of overweight people.

I tried to igore the last one, but it went completely out of control. If this trend happens again and again, I think it will drive all of the very good writers and inciteful posters from the CollarMe Forums, and it will end up being like a chat room consisting of mindless banter and constant bickering among those members who are left.

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 8:52:29 AM

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i, personally, find the "moooooo" comment to be extremely offensive...an i the only one?

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 8:59:30 AM

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what's the "moooo" category ? like massively oooooverweight ?

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 9:05:52 AM

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Looking for a Domme on this board, but can't help but notice that many female subs fall into the "moooooooo" category, much more so than the generally overweight population. Why is that?

Sounds to me as if you are a bit confused. Why the fuck are you worrying about the weight of submissives when you state clearly that you are looking for a Domme?
/scratches head in confusion

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 9:09:48 AM

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Guys (and gals), may I very sincerely and respectfully suggest that we cease responding to bait like this? We have 5 pages of posters talking to themselves and each other to no positive end. The OP hasn't said a word since starting the thread. Anyone want to take bets on whether or not they are watching this train wreck and laughing themselves senseless?

Just a thought and a suggestion.

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 9:14:17 AM

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good point

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 9:18:23 AM

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I like what happened on this thread much better than the last one. I am not normally one who agrees with completely hijacking a thread...but in the case of these types of threads I think that if you are going to respond, sometimes the best responses are the ones that make no sense whatsoever to the topic. At least then people get chuckles from it instead of high blood pressure.

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 9:22:23 AM

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zumala,

I have noticed that many times the OP will start the thread never to be seen responding once its started.

Here is a suggestion, why not highjack the thread and turn it away from the topic, my guess is the OP wont jump in to yell "get back to the topic" and it will die a quick death.

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 9:22:51 AM

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Question....

Why would a sub care what other subs look like??? Perhaps she is feeling left out of the so called "moooo" category and is finding that most people don't like all the hard angles.....perhaps it's a jealousy issue with her. She can't find anybody who wants a bag of bones.
Personally I like women with meat on them.....hell of a lot more inviting than looking at last years halloween decorations.

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 9:24:52 AM

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Dang, mistoferin, you type faster than I do lol

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 9:28:46 AM

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Mooooooo mooo moo moooo mooooo moo moooo mooooo moo.
This is udderly boring.

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 9:28:56 AM

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LOL Erin... you just made something come to mind..

The Alaskan Highway...winding in... winding out.. fills my mind with serious doubt...as to weither the loute...who planned this route... was going to hell.. or coming out...

I think of this when someone likes to make comments over others peoples weight.... they're either going to hell...and gonna end up being like the one they critisize.... or coming out...been there and think others should follow. Either way... instead of getting angered... I think of this.. and laugh....

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 9:53:21 AM

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If you're submissive and overweight then you're not being dominated properly - I blame the men. If they were properly dominant they'd make sure they controlled her food and made her eat a healthy diet. Okay I'm a bit tongue in cheek here.

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 10:47:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: hardbodiedbitch

Looking for a Domme on this board, but can't help but notice that many female subs fall into the "moooooooo" category, much more so than the generally overweight population. Why is that?

I read a few replies but not the whole thread so if it's already been said, then we are in agreement.

I find it humorous that you feel a need to point out the faults of your apparent competition, and at the same time are red-flagging yourself as quite faulty indeed. As for the size and shape of anyone on this board or in the lifestyle in general, I have a few thoughts of my own on the subject.

My sub is quite svelt and extremely sexy, however her body shape and size has nothing to do with why I love her, or why I was initially attracted to her, it's the whole person that I fell in love with. No matter how thin and shapely she may be, if she was a jackass she would never have gotten past a first conversation with me.

There is one submissive that I have had the pleasure of watching and the unfortunate displeasure of speaking to. He is truly a sight to behold, physically perfect in everyway, but dumb as a fence post and a complete ass to boot. He tried every possible means of getting my attention and there wasn't an ice cubes chance in hell that I was going to have anything to do with him. It didn't take long before most of the community had had their fill of his ego and strutting cock show, and he's outed himself as a loser that gets a hard on looking in the mirror.

Sound familiar?

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 10:48:01 AM

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Damn.... another one of these threads??? Wow... I am not even going to comment on the OP's statement.... didn't even take time to read the whole thread.... I read a post saying the thread had been hijacked...good enough for me... so how is everyone doing??

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 11:04:13 AM

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Because there are men in BDSM that will accept them as they are and not try to make them into an idealization.

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RE: Why are most female subs overweight? - 7/7/2006 11:31:53 AM

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Has anyone seen the remote control for my telly?

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