DaddySatyr -> RE: Helping the Poor and Underserved (2/23/2014 3:44:13 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Aylee Every time the schools receive more money it goes to increased administration. Cut the administration by 50% and fire the lowest performing 10% of teachers and education will improve. I agree with this, in spirit but we also have to find a way to convince our children just how important education is. We have children in this country that see school as an interruption in their day of video games or TV or (in some cases) drug dealing or whatever else it is they wish to do. When I was a wee skad, I hated (most of) school (I always liked foreign languages and history). I would much rather have been playing ball, riding my bicycle, going to Coney Island, watching Bugs Bunny ... The list was endless but I had adults in my life that were allowed to parent and found a way to convince me that my going to school and passing my classes were not an option. By 14 (or so), I started to like the idea of learning and I enjoyed a good portion of my classes. This made me less stand-offish towards my teachers and enabled me to connect with them and therefore, allowed them to engage me. Unfortunately, my education was interrupted at 15 and I had to scramble to complete high school with my classmates ('82 skidoo!). But changing my attitude started at "home". Almost all children are rebellious and will fall into a pit, if they are allowed to. We have parents that are afraid to parent. We have schools that try to be our children's' parents (I had a principal tell me that, once regarding my youngest son). When I was raising my children, I had some of the same obstacles. I engaged them. I told them something along the lines of: "I know you think school sucks, right now and maybe it does but when I was younger, I felt the same way. Then, I found things that interested me, when I was older but still in school and I was off to the races. I promise it will be that way for you, too." I told them all the funny stories about school (not always focusing on education). I was lucky in that two of my boys were very into sports. My eldest was a pretty good baseball player and my youngest probably could have played college football had he not chosen a different path. I was able to engage them on that level and to show them how, in today's world, education links up with success in sports. We need to find a way back to the days when parents were allowed to be the parents and were able to put their children on the right path. I'm not sure I believe the educational system is broken. I think our moral fabric (as a nation) has a lot of holes in it and far too many children slip through those cracks.
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