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TENS unit - 2/24/2014 1:27:15 PM

shadowborn61

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Hello all i have just acquired a brand new TENS unit and i am curious about how to use it to achieve an orgasm for a man.
It only came with the large pads so do i have to buy any others or will the large ones work?
If so then what is the best placement?
I have used TENS before for pain management but that was before i got into kink so i am familiar with how the unit works i have just never tried to use it for this any help is appreciated.
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RE: TENS unit - 2/24/2014 1:39:17 PM

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Paging MistressDark Art!

OP - look for MistressDarkArt's posts in the Bondage Gear and Apparel section.

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RE: TENS unit - 2/24/2014 2:30:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: shadowborn61

Hello all i have just acquired a brand new TENS unit and i am curious about how to use it to achieve an orgasm for a man.
It only came with the large pads so do i have to buy any others or will the large ones work?
If so then what is the best placement?
I have used TENS before for pain management but that was before i got into kink so i am familiar with how the unit works i have just never tried to use it for this any help is appreciated.
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http://www.extremerestraints.com/male-e-stim-accessories_179/

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RE: TENS unit - 2/24/2014 2:39:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

All you want to know about electro is here:
www.smartstim.com

The benchmark site; free and anonymous.

Cross posting MDA's link from Bondage Gear and Apparal thread. Click the link and learn all yea ever wanted to know of electro play. Warning, requires reading skills.

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RE: TENS unit - 2/24/2014 3:39:57 PM

shadowborn61

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thank you all

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RE: TENS unit - 2/24/2014 7:22:04 PM

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Cross posting MDA's link from Bondage Gear and Apparal thread. Click the link and learn all yea ever wanted to know of electro play. Warning, requires reading skills.

Thanks Mummy!

Patience! Choose times to experiment when you are relaxed, unhurried and won't be interrupted. For the next several weeks or months, put aside orgasm as a goal and just play with the sensations as their own journey. Perhaps begin with pads on the inside of your thigh(s) to experiment with the settings. The groovy thing about estim is once you are literally dialed in with your preferred settings, programs, and trodes, it is a very passive pleasure. You can lie back and get 'done' for hours and hours. It can be very meditative and hypnotic.

When you find trode configurations and settings you like, WRITE THEM DOWN! There's a lot to remember.

If you like anal play, this is where estim really shines without too much know-how. Find or make a nice bi-polar trode, use Spectra-Gel or other water-based lube, and learn what 'ghost-fucking' is all about. That, coupled with a nice hand-job or vibrator might get you off to a good start (pun intended) without too much fussing around with the learning curve on the rest of your genitals. Btw, there are very good, reasonably priced internal trodes at a medical supply place here: http://www.win-health.com/pelvic-floor.html I didn't catch your location, but winhealth is in the UK. Shipping to US is around $15. Buy any of these electrodes in a sex-shop and you will get taken to the cleaners so shop here first.

There are stickies at smartstim for new TENS owners which should give you a lot of starting information without too much hit or miss searching. The members are very helpful and patient with newbie questions. I think there's a 'beginning estim' forum which would be a great place to start reading and posting questions if you get stuck.

Best of luck! Ride the lightening!

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RE: TENS unit - 2/24/2014 7:29:52 PM

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AAAAACK!! I can't believe I left out something really important before you start!

Non-conductive gloves, amigo!!

While twiddling dials and adjusting to the whole process, it's easy to make mistakes; the first instinct is to grab at the pads/trodes! That feels terrible and it's also dangerous. So do yourself a favor and start each session with a clean pair of nitriles, vinyls, or latex.

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RE: TENS unit - 2/24/2014 7:33:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: shadowborn61

Hello all i have just acquired a brand new TENS unit and i am curious about how to use it to achieve an orgasm for a man.
It only came with the large pads so do i have to buy any others or will the large ones work?
If so then what is the best placement?
I have used TENS before for pain management but that was before i got into kink so i am familiar with how the unit works i have just never tried to use it for this any help is appreciated.
edited for spelling

Well, with obvious (legal....electrical) exceptions...you can pretty much make a man come by reading him the news with the right outfit.

That said, the best placement of a TENS unit: On the guy.

(Glad I was able to help).

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RE: TENS unit - 2/24/2014 8:25:03 PM

shadowborn61

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Thank You very much MistressDarkArt.
Yes i am very much into anal play and "ghost fucking" sounds just plain awesome so i have some research to do on either making or buying my own anal toy. Probably will go with buying something my DIY projects do not always turn out so good and that's NOT an area i really want to damage.

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RE: TENS unit - 2/24/2014 8:48:39 PM

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I ditto everything MDA said.

and I want to piggy back a question- "ghost fucking" attachments for a female? Do they work well? I'm a bit afraid of them to be honest (but also subsequently that also gets me amped on them)...having never experienced one...I just want to know its worth it!

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RE: TENS unit - 2/24/2014 9:47:57 PM

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Lol am I the only one thinking "You want to orgasm from this? I can think of a lot more... *fun* uses... "

Ok, the heavy masochist in me will now retreat to the closet...

Carry on!

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RE: TENS unit - 2/25/2014 5:23:10 AM

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Oh I am a masochist as well and electro play is a huge turn on but as of right now i have no Dominant to serve or even play with so i have to play with myself (i know its a bad pun)

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RE: TENS unit - 2/25/2014 10:44:47 AM

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I ditto everything MDA said.

and I want to piggy back a question- "ghost fucking" attachments for a female? Do they work well? I'm a bit afraid of them to be honest (but also subsequently that also gets me amped on them)...having never experienced one...I just want to know its worth it!

My preferred trode for this is: http://www.win-health.com/vaginal-probes-nickel-free-periprobe.html#peri

Configure with leads crossed in an X. Nice side benefit is it will do your kegels for you.

Experiment with settings until you find something that provides thrust (settings on a regular TENS may not be capable. EMS might work, or, if you are willing to make the investment, find a box that can be programmed with sound files. There are tons of member-files at smartstim for download, and they're easy to create with free sound-editing programs such as Audacity and CoolEdit.)

Anyone needing answers to specific questions about estim for women are welcome to pm me on the other side. I will try to help as best I can.

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