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sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 3:35:17 PM

pain21pleasure

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I've always had an interest in having a guy cut me with a razor during sex. I really don't know what started this but I think that cutting during sex shows a great level of commitment and i can only image how incredibly arousing it would be.Has anyone else thought about or done this before????

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RE: sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 4:05:31 PM

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I'd be concerned about cutting during orgasm. Cutting would require a lot of concentration. Too much chance of loss of control.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 4:20:09 PM

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The only way to find out is to try it. Just be careful and don't cut in any major veins.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 4:40:52 PM

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Has anyone else thought about or done this before????

Yes. I put it on my own hard limits for a long time because I had been in love with a former cutter, and her reasons for cutting were definitely coming from a bad place. But I've had women ask me about it before.

You'll have to decide where yours are coming from. Not everything that makes you hot is a good thing to do. But, assuming this is healthy for you to explore, you'll find people who do this stuff if you search on phrases like "erotic scarification" and "erotic cutting." Not so much on CM. It's more a kink in body modification circles, as opposed to mainstream BDSM.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 8:16:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: pain21pleasure

I've always had an interest in having a guy cut me with a razor during sex. I really don't know what started this but I think that cutting during sex shows a great level of commitment and i can only image how incredibly arousing it would be.Has anyone else thought about or done this before????

We do it quite often. He likes to carve his initials or a pretty design. For me, it feels good most of the time and is kinda relaxing. I get to lie there and relax while he intricately cuts into me.

It's like going for a deep tissue massage. It hurts but you're also relaxed and just want it to continue forever.

ETA: During sex would be quite jarring. I mean you have no control over where or what is being cut unless you're just sitting there with his dick in you and you aren't moving a muscle. Otherwise I don't think he would have the focus during sex to cut you safely.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 8:41:24 PM

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Big time kudos to whatever Mod moved this into General!

She's not talking about cutting herself. She's talking about cutting during play with a partner who cuts her. Not during his orgasm, which I would agree would make a hand less steady. She's talking about doing it during sex.

Yes, OP. Lots of people do this. It's ok to think about and even do.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 8:50:37 PM

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Kudos to the poster who created a report asking for it to be moved :)

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RE: sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 8:52:30 PM

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Kudos to the poster who created a report asking for it to be moved :)

Agreed. Both deserve praise.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 9:07:14 PM

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I cant imagine cutting during sex, even without orgasm. We're both excited, anxious, tuning and tossing, what not. I cant imagine him even having steady enough or even enough hands during. lol

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RE: sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 9:13:45 PM

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I could. Being the person on top? Controlling the movement and the action? A strike is a strike.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 2/28/2014 11:59:50 PM

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Just giving my opinion, I have experimented with cutting in the past and I can say it is not for me.

If you are going to do cutting please be smart, inform yourself very well, and I mean both parties, the one who is going to do the cutting and the one who is being cut.
Make sure you know what you are doing. Prepare carefully do some practice cuts on chicken to start with it.
There are some excellent sites out there who can give some really good advice, read them.

Cutting during sex is an extremely bad idea, try the following experiment. Take a red marker, have sex and while having sex try to paint a square on each other. If you have painted a perfect red square, then you might have the self control for it, but if you are anything like me it will be anything but a square. Now imagine every time you slip up with the marker, you are cutting into flesh.

If you are going to do cutting I suggest you do it like littlewonder describes.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 3/1/2014 6:46:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pain21pleasure

I've always had an interest in having a guy cut me with a razor during sex. I really don't know what started this but I think that cutting during sex shows a great level of commitment and i can only image how incredibly arousing it would be.Has anyone else thought about or done this before????

Is it the thrill of the cutting while in the act of fucking? Or. Being cut within a sexual scene? The former is not for the light of heart but doable.... The latter is much easier and not really a big deal....

Is it the thrill of the blood? Or the act of cutting? If it's the former then their are other ways to cause blood to enter into a sexual scene than using razors and makes the act during sex easier to do... If the later... Then well.... It becomes more complicated.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 3/1/2014 8:34:58 AM

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It's possible to do during, if you're not being pounded into oblivion and your top/dom has a steady hand. Reducing a new and disinfected stanley blade to a very small, shallow point will minimise risk for you. Obviously don't be too ambitious. Shouldn't take more than a couple of small, well placed cuts to give you the sensation you're after. Anti-septic or alcohol gel will minimise infection with the added bonus of making you squeal like a bitch.

Prepare for all eventualities. Bondage will keep you still but it also carries risk. Always have scissors handy for a quick release during bondage play. Invest in some steri-strips as well as plasters, etc because they can be used to tape small, shallow wounds closed so that they don't bleed through dressings. If you really fuck up and it's a total emergency, use dressing pads but don't remove them, keep pressure on and press clean pads on the top. Keep deep cuts elevated where possible.

If in doubt, always seek medical advice. Sod any embarrassment, you're a consenting adult.

Change dressings daily but don't just cover cuts up and then forget about them, check for any sign of infection (pus, green exudate etc) and cleanse them with disinfectant. If you regularly have cuts or abrasions, anti-bacterial handsoap is gentle enough to wash your body with or put into your bath to minimise any risk of infection.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 3/1/2014 9:05:32 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Big time kudos to whatever Mod moved this into General!

She's not talking about cutting herself. She's talking about cutting during play with a partner who cuts her. Not during his orgasm, which I would agree would make a hand less steady. She's talking about doing it during sex.

Yes, OP. Lots of people do this. It's ok to think about and even do.

LadyPact,

OP stated they wanted to use a razor. In your opinion, wouldn't a surgical scalpel be better to use, if accessible? I know a few Dommes, in real, who use them for cutting, but they are in the medical field and know how to get them quite easily.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 3/1/2014 10:18:30 AM

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Sterilized disposable scalpel blades and handles are easy to get, and are much safer than razors. Razor metal is not meant for cutting, not to mention the sterilization issues. Plenty of kinky medical sites carry them, it's more expensive but in smaller quantities, so perfect for trying this kink out. I get mine through regular medical suppliers at like 50 cents per blade.

It is really important to know proper sterilization and wound care. Also, I would never do this during sex. We do cutting completely separate from sex.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 3/1/2014 10:46:53 AM

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Even though I understand it intellectually, I'm always astonished by how much great sex endorphins can block out pain.
So remember what you feel after you come/calm down can be really distressing, if not debilitating, and if you do try it, keep it to one or two superficial cuts, away from any important or sensitive areas [and if they don't know anatomy, don't let them near you with a knife].

As for moving targets: a couple of partners were interested in being branded, and I couldn't find anyone locally to be a mentor except a dom I couldn't stand who was doing a demonstration of how to brand while banging. Although it sounded sexy for a moment to be inside my good man and mark him at the perfect moment, common sense says, 'no way', since the brander has to maintain complete control of themselves as well as the brand-ee, and be able to make all the decisions, let alone on a moving, breathing target even though he *swears* he won't move.
Sure enough, schaudenfreude met hubris: of course the dude's target moved, and the poor guy got a big-ass blurry burn on his ass instead of a tight little brand sear: ego over duty of care. And then there was an episode of 'Jackass' just like it [without the anal sex].

So I'm very cautious causing pain when either of us are aroused.
And when ever anyone *swears* he's not going to move if I do something to him, I think of that poor guy, and smile and tie the bonds JUST a little tighter.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 3/1/2014 10:47:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: LeatherBentOne51
LadyPact,

OP stated they wanted to use a razor. In your opinion, wouldn't a surgical scalpel be better to use, if accessible? I know a few Dommes, in real, who use them for cutting, but they are in the medical field and know how to get them quite easily.

Respectfully,
LBO51

Personally, I prefer scalpels. They are easier to use. They are sterile. Very easy to acquire via kinkymedical.net and reasonably priced. However, that's just My personal preference. The OP might have a very specific fantasy about a straight razor. Other people like knives. It just varies according to people's fantasies. I'm completely with you on the sterilization factor, so believe Me, I'm not arguing that point. Post wound care is also important and I'm not suggesting that anyone take that lightly.

I'm pretty much an amateur when it comes to cutting. Want to see an expert? Look up a person that goes by the name of PhoenixB. That's art! What Phoenix can do with a sharp implement is absolutely amazing and quite a bit of it is freehand, too. Gives fantastic presentations all over the US and was in Australia not so long ago. Does a great job covering the risk factors, safety concerns, and is very thorough about it. An absolutely fantastic teacher.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 3/1/2014 2:41:59 PM

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LadyPact,

Funny you should mention Australia. One of my Domme friends lives in Sydney. Will check him out. Thanks

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RE: sexual cutting? - 3/1/2014 4:01:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CatharsisKentUK

It's possible to do during, if you're not being pounded into oblivion and your top/dom has a steady hand. Reducing a new and disinfected stanley blade to a very small, shallow point will minimise risk for you. Obviously don't be too ambitious. Shouldn't take more than a couple of small, well placed cuts to give you the sensation you're after. Anti-septic or alcohol gel will minimise infection with the added bonus of making you squeal like a bitch.

Prepare for all eventualities. Bondage will keep you still but it also carries risk. Always have scissors handy for a quick release during bondage play. Invest in some steri-strips as well as plasters, etc because they can be used to tape small, shallow wounds closed so that they don't bleed through dressings. If you really fuck up and it's a total emergency, use dressing pads but don't remove them, keep pressure on and press clean pads on the top. Keep deep cuts elevated where possible.

If in doubt, always seek medical advice. Sod any embarrassment, you're a consenting adult.

Change dressings daily but don't just cover cuts up and then forget about them, check for any sign of infection (pus, green exudate etc) and cleanse them with disinfectant. If you regularly have cuts or abrasions, anti-bacterial handsoap is gentle enough to wash your body with or put into your bath to minimise any risk of infection.

While stanley knives help due to the retractable blade, they are difficult to disinfect (due to their very nature and the porous plastic, they are bugger), if somebody doesn't want scars, I'd recommend tea tree oil instead of alcohol, quite a sting and longer lasting but will minimize scaring, the same with a mild apple vinegar cider solution that will promote healing but has a bite.

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RE: sexual cutting? - 3/1/2014 4:38:30 PM

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Curiosity can be a dangerous thing. When I was about twelve I had a bedside lamp, a fully rigged galleon with a bulb holder where the crows nest should be. Curios about how an electric shock would feel one Saturday morning i removed the bulb, turned the lamp on, and put my finger inside. Suffice to say it wasn't much fun. So if you decide to go ahead with it I advise great caution.

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