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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:51:11 AM

agirl

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ORIGINAL: zenofeller

i have a serious problem with a certain kind of age play. people fooling around with girls that claim to be two years old really gets me going. i know historically doctors were convinced each and every single kink is really just people being on the virge of insanity, just about ready to pack a cellar full of half masticated bodies. i know.

on the other hand, kids that are into mutilating animals generally end up in some sort of confinement, even if it's just the rare mild form of everyone being extra carefull + court ordered psych visits. and yet people that are into two year olds are supposed to be "uh, not my plate, but you're welcome ?" fuck that.

anyone that enjoys the fantasy of whatever the fuck, done to infants belongs locked up. because THEY ARE on the virge of raping someone's kids. and before you tell me that's not true : we really don't know, we don't have any serious studies done on the matter. so until we do know, it's just as likely true. and it gives me risen hairs and blodshot eyes.

Well , The discrepancy of you stating that *THEY ARE on the verge of raping etc. etc.*....and * we really don't know* coupled with the addition of your comment *absence of serious studies done on the matter*.........somehow doesn't add up to anything except an unfinished train of thought.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 9:00:59 AM

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more like a matter of personal idiosincrasy.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 9:17:44 AM

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I don't like a lot of bdsm activities for myself or my relationship. I don't have a problem in talking about the things I don't like or agree with when the situation arises, but I don't feel the need to list all the things I don't like just for the sake of doing so.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 9:23:52 AM

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With the exception of obvious one's which would never come into consideration ( unmentionables, animals, etc ), in the past, it has never mattered whether I liked something or not. If he wanted to do it, I did it.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 9:32:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Morpheus07

So, you are quite a literal thinker I take it.

Maybe. I wouldn't go so far as to say I don't like it, it just doesn't float my boat. It seems an awful lot of fantasizing and effort for very little reward.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 10:39:54 AM

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Well there is only two that I find a total turn off and just are a big big big no. Scat play is out I am sorry but even the thought of that makes me want to run and hide. The other I did not even know existed until someone just had to tell me and that would be Rainbow play also known as vomit play. I am sorry but that is just wrong and well Anyone wanting to do that can do it well away from me or they will be getting more stuff to play with.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 10:48:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Morpheus07

I hate all the spitting everone seems to be into nowadays, I don't want to spit into your mouth or on your ass or anything. And I don't want you to even think about trying that on me or it's gonna be, "Houston, we have a problem!"

Don't get too slobbery in your kisses, if I am thirsty I will get a glass of water....thanks.

This is exactly part of what I was going to write. I don't get the spit thing.. I had someone do that a few times.. it just makes my stomach turn.. ucky.

I don't get the diaper thing either..

I do like to swallow cum..but.. I like will keep it in the mouth longer if it's not bitter..the bitter.. it's.. " get it down as fast as you can..and hope it stays".

I am sure there are more..but those three come to mind.

Respectfully, Andrea

edited.. cause I can't spell worth crap today...

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 10:54:47 AM

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Knives, I dont like knives, used on me, and I wont even like seeing knives used on another person, if I see that shit i'm cutting the son of a bitch myself.

This in addition to most of the stuff already posted.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 11:01:34 AM

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Erin:

I agree with you on the whole sperm in the eye thing. Master likes me to 'savor' his sperm, and i'm thinking, please just let me swallow.

But i cannot do scat or diapers; those are two of my few hard limits.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 11:02:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zenofeller

more like a matter of personal idiosincrasy.

Having a particular way of thinking doesn't negate the discrepancies in your post.

agirl

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 11:24:30 AM

givemyall

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I think it depends who I am with - oooh doesn't that sound slutty

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I've never considered watersports with anyone, I just didn't think it would do anything for me, but I experienced it with my present partner and loved it.... I walk round with my mouth open nowadays - just in case!

I dont understand the 'animal' thing - I've got two massive dogs and the thought of shagging one of them just doesn't do it for me.

Scat is a no-no...... the flush facility on the loo wasn't invented for nothing.

Wow the more I write the more I realise that im not into much - OK OK im officially a wimp lol

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 11:31:03 AM

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Fast reply.

I hard limit "loanership."

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 12:21:46 PM

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It took me a few minutes to stop laughing from some of these posts, they are great. You are so right about the eye, there is a homing beacon or something and my god does it ever sting!
Some things just seem common sense but I guess what floats some peoples boats.

Scat play is just unconceivable, same with rainbow play, I saw enough of that as an EMT I don't want to see it again, one person flinging poop at me in a confined space is enough for a life time!

animals....okay that's just icky beyond words

Fire play for me equals serious fear play just not into flambe

Food play....I don't understand the allure of slathering sticky gooey food all over someone.Makes me want a shower just thinking about it.

denika

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 12:39:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

If it ain't spit, it aint love!

Ewwww, spitting in pornos makes me queasy. You know, when the woman spits on a cock, or someone spits on their fingers before touching a pussy. Yuuuuck!!! I just think, Ewwwww, go wash your hands...don't touch me now!!

quote:

Golden showers - I love the idea of but so far the reality of them just hasn't done it for me.

You know, I've tried it twice, and both times just kind of though. "Hmmm, well, and that's that, huh?" Maybe it's just not been in the right context, I don't know...but I agree, the thought of it, and seeing someone else involved it, seems much more a turn on. Odd.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 12:57:53 PM

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We'll add a third and a fourth on this one, and second and third the scat play of any ilk including the human toilet variant, place two checks on the the whole human ashtray thing. Frankly, for myself (though SR doesn't agree completely), I'm a tidy Virgo -- I don't particularly like -any- of the messy, oozy, slimy, smelly variants. (Add Rainbow Play to our list -- how could such a beautiful thing as a rainbow be used to describe someone puking on you!!!!!??? OK -- that seriously grosses me out.)

We'll also add a first vote on the "spoiled brat" thing.

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

Wow...and hear I thought I was the only one who was turned off by cum bubbles!!!!!

< Message edited by LadiesBladewing -- 7/7/2006 1:01:28 PM >

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 1:02:09 PM

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needle play would definately be something that i do not like... just the thought of a needle piercing the skin for a non medical reason (even those scare the heck out of me) makes me almost want to faint.. and i'm sure if i did watch someone do it infront of me, i would faint! i believe its the whole blood thing...

i also believe that sperm is to be savored not shot out and on someone.. bleh.. i cannot stand sperm landing in my hair.. i think i would rather it in my eye then stuck in my hair.. ~wrinkles nose~ bleh!

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 1:29:12 PM

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Things I don't like? These things will squick me out, make me leave a play party, for instance: Nonconsensual play of any sort. Scat, bestiality, blood for the sake of blood, breath deprivation to the point of unconciousness. Oh and sounds. *Shudder* (thanks for reminding Me, Mistress DustyGold).

Things I don't get? Financial servitude/Domination. Infantilism. Furries (I think they are cute tho). Looners. Role play involving Hanna Barbera characters (although Velma had hidden potential). Any kink that involves uttering the phrase "beam me up". Smoking fetishes. All are fine if you wanna do them...but don't expect Me to join in, or even (in the case of looners) keep a straight face.

This isn't an exhaustive list. Give me 10 minutes and another Manhattan, I'll have more.

E.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 1:37:52 PM

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i consider myself a pretty submissive submissive. But i could never be a slave in the sense that some are, as i do have too many hard limits. No scat or toilet or ashtray, no being furniture, no blood sports - cutting, vampirism, needles, no diapers or self defecation of any sort. No animals, and don't think about pulling out any teeth or mutilating my body in any manner (tattoos and piercings are exceptions - i don't consider them mutiliations). No leaving me alone while bound and these are a few.

No matter how i progress i don't find the desire to experience all kinks - there are things i really love and things i really hate. Whether someone else likes them or not is their business. Yet i will secretly believe some things are just plain sick.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 1:38:38 PM

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quote:

i cannot stand sperm landing in my hair.. i think i would rather it in my eye then stuck in my hair..

Where do you think the idea for hair gel came from??

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 1:45:13 PM

GoddessDustyGold

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quote:

ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Now as stated by others... yes others may like these sort of things.. I PERSONALLY do not. And I will not apologize for it either. And I am sorry Jali felt she had too.

Poor Jessica! I am afraid I am going to pick on you, but you are tough and you can take it! *G* And actually for others who have the mentioned the same opinion (as is your right) but this is the best one to quote.
The situation as I saw it, (I read the thread as it was occurring) was not that Jali was squicked by this diaper fetish, but that she has such a strong negative reaction to it her fingers flew to the keyboard and she not only opined that she didn't like it but suggested that the OP's friend should seriously consider therapy. To Jali's (and her Master's) credit, she did realize that she was being too judgemental.
There are many things that can be fairly harmless (such as a diaper fetish), but many people are turned off by it. As long as something is safe and consensual, then we can certainly share our own feelings about it along with the usual warnings and safety advice. Of course then we get into the whole thing of what is safe! *Smile*
Personally, I have no interest in age play (it really bothers Me), scat, Roman (Rainbow) Showers or blood/knife play, and sounds scare Me. Probably only because I haven't had the proper training (sounds that is) and I am not sure I want the proper training!
But I am sure there are many who, if they knew, would say to Me, "What do you mean you use a strap-on". or you need therapy if you think it is fun to put a cock in a humbler and chain him down to the bed while you whip his balls...you need therapy!"
We are all averse to certain things, but if the education is there, and the parties are playing safely, it really isn't our place to say, "You need therapy". And, yes,I have thought about a few who want Me to kill them (literally...this is no lie!), that they need therapy, and even told them so in private email or on the phone!. But that is a far cry from a little diaper fetish.
If this is so, then we all need therapy!.
Of course, that could be true, also! *Wink*

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