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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 2:33:13 PM   
zenofeller


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Having a particular way of thinking doesn't negate the discrepancies in your post.

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what, i have to make sense ? we're discussing what we don't like. that's what i don't like. it has holes in it, just like the next guy's dislikes.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 2:46:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: zenofeller

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Having a particular way of thinking doesn't negate the discrepancies in your post.

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what, i have to make sense ? we're discussing what we don't like. that's what i don't like. it has holes in it, just like the next guy's dislikes.



No, your post has *holes* in it.......not your likes and dislikes. Liking and not liking is not quite the same as contradicting statements such as those in your post.

agirl

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 2:55:45 PM   
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Weighing in akin to what others have already written....

I have no interest in enemas, diapers, age play or racial humiliation. While I've done scat play, can't say I'd go there again. *making face*

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 3:30:45 PM   
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If it ain't spit, it aint love!


Ewwww, spitting in pornos makes me queasy. You know, when the woman spits on a cock, or someone spits on their fingers before touching a pussy. Yuuuuck!!! I just think, Ewwwww, go wash your hands...don't touch me now!!

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Golden showers - I love the idea of but so far the reality of them just hasn't done it for me.


You know, I've tried it twice, and both times just kind of though. "Hmmm, well, and that's that, huh?" Maybe it's just not been in the right context, I don't know...but I agree, the thought of it, and seeing someone else involved it, seems much more a turn on. Odd.




If I do not have spit all over my face by the time I am done blowing my Dom I didn't do something right... and yes it is naughty and nasty and thoroughly hot just because it is so...Ha Ha. We also exchange fluids through kissing... I know we are yucky, but that is half the thrill... He seems to take great joy in making me drink wine this way because I am such a lightweight...

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 4:43:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like that phrasing... messy, oozy, slimy, smelly variants...

scat, watersports, vomit, ashtray, animals (acting as or doing one), age play... I'm totally in with the keep it out of my eyes... the one time it happened it burned something fierce for days. 

I'm very fortunate that Master isn't into any of this either though...

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I don't particularly like -any- of the messy, oozy, slimy, smelly variants. (Add Rainbow Play to our list -- how could such a beautiful thing as a rainbow be used to describe someone puking on you!!!!!??? OK -- that seriously grosses me out.)







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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 4:59:52 PM   
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Roman showers

Diaper play (maybe as humilation for someone else)

These just don't do it for me. However, I have to admit, the only thing keeping me from doing the whole Roman Shower thing is simply because I personally don't find nausea very inviting, not that I think it is gross. And neither scat nor vomit seem, to me, to be safe enough to venture into.

Anything involving drugs, alcohol or cigarettes (nope, no ash tray service in my house), for health reasons.

I can't bottom to humilation at all, and I do have problems using it as a Top. This I know is because of my past.

There isn't much, if really, anything that squicks me. I collect all manners of fur art on the subjects.
There are just things that I don't do.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 5:11:13 PM   
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Now as stated by others... yes others may like these sort of things.. I PERSONALLY do not. And I will not apologize for it either. And I am sorry Jali felt she had too.



Poor Jessica!  I am afraid I am going to pick on you, but you are tough and you can take it!  *G*  And actually for others who have the mentioned the same opinion (as is your right) but this is the best one to quote. 
The situation as I saw it, (I read the thread as it was occurring) was not that Jali was squicked by this diaper fetish, but that she has such a strong negative reaction to it her fingers flew to the keyboard and she not only opined that she didn't like it but suggested that the OP's friend should seriously consider therapy.  To Jali's (and her Master's) credit, she did realize that she was being too judgemental.
There are many things that can be fairly harmless (such as a diaper fetish), but many people are turned off by it.  As long as something is safe and consensual, then we can certainly share our own feelings about it along with the usual warnings and safety advice. Of course then we get into the whole thing of what is safe!  *Smile*
Personally, I have no interest in age play (it really bothers Me), scat, Roman (Rainbow) Showers or blood/knife play, and sounds scare Me.  Probably only because I haven't had the proper training (sounds that is) and I am not sure I want the proper training!
But I am sure there are many who, if they knew, would say to Me, "What do you mean you use a strap-on". or you need therapy if you think it is fun to put a cock in a humbler and chain him down to the bed while you whip his balls...you need therapy!"
We are all averse to certain things, but if the education is there, and the parties are playing safely, it really isn't our place to say, "You need therapy".  And, yes,I have thought about a few who want Me to kill them (literally...this is no lie!), that they need therapy, and even told them so in private email or on the phone!.  But that is a far cry from a little diaper fetish.  
If this is so, then we all need therapy!.
Of course, that could be true, also!  *Wink* 
 


Actually GoddessDusty... thank you for pointing this out.. I had not read the other thread(s) prior to the post here... and didn't get back to do a rebuddle. So I stand corrected on my post as to Jali appologizing for her opinions. I understand more so on her why and in doing so. So I am glad you decided to pick on me.. thanks again.

Jessica


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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 5:41:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't like the sight of breasts being bound. All red and squished..... let those beautiful orbs go free! Free I say!

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 6:20:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		Knives scare the _hit out of me, too Rumtiger.

Scat is just a big "Ewwww" for me.

- Susan

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 7:26:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Tasha. my Master is the only man I have been with willingly as well.  I suffered a lot of abuse in my childhood and to be honest I have been scared by males ever since, until Master.  I have to tell you I am enthralled by watching master masturbate, I've never ever seen anything more beautiful, mmmm.

What makes me squirm or think 'oh ickies' hmmmm that rainbow thing I read about here the other day, scat, and human toilets.  My little mind just doesn't know what to make of those.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 7:28:45 PM   
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I don't like the sight of breasts being bound. All red and squished..... let those beautiful orbs go free! Free I say!


level, I knew there was a reason why I was fallin' for ya!  I love my breasts, why would I wanna hurt them?

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 7:34:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		How about a clothespin or two? Nothing drastic.....  just a little sensory boost.....

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 7:39:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		clothespins would be okies dokies artichokie, but I have a very strong fear of rope.  I'm working to overcome that fear...luckily I have a Master who's patience seem to be ever lasting.

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:03:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ugh, I have no use for rope. I can tie my shoes, that's good enough for me lol.
 
And lol at "okie dokie artichokie"......

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:05:45 PM   
Tashacurly


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Status: offline 		Dancer....hiya! Good to see I'm not the only one who gets off on seeing their Dom masturbating...also good to see that I have something in common with some one. Unfortunatly,  it has to be abuse issues...but, it is good to see that you are doing better regardless of past issues. I do have a great fear of men....and on many occasions, have this need to feel more powerful, and stronger than men in general. As a protective thing I suppose...but my Lord changed all that, and is working with my other Master on helping me get past those fears.
Hmm...these posts have been so funny, and interesting. As far as the "spitting" thing goes...lol! I was once watching this really bad "made for men" lesbian porno called "Black Snatch"....my gosh! Nothing but spitting and more spitting....it was like they didn't have a budget for even some cheap lube...and gosh forbid if any of the women could get wet at all of their own accord. ICK! They'd have these close up shots of the spit falling from the mouth onto the pussy, I just died laughing. Just thought I'd share that. LOL!
As far as bound boobies....I love mine bound and tied...yummy, I love the feeling. I like it even more when master or lord use a crop or hard paddle on my bound breasts, MMMM.. Does that make me odd? And clothingpins? Those would do nothing for me....we use hard clamping aligator clips (those with this "teeth") for my nipples, sometimes for my clit as well. What can I say, I enjoy pain a bit, lol.
As far as scat play...well, not for me is all I'll say. Watersports, no thanks. Vomitting...umm...as a recovering bulimic, no thanks.
I guess I'm just your average pain loving slave....I know there are a few of us out there, lol.

Tasha

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:33:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Of course it's what we're aiming for.

Also, as long as we're talking about porn pet peeves: why do they spit on each other's genitals?  That's fucking disgusting.

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

For me, I know this is an odd one....but....blowing cum bubbles. When you watch a porno movie it seems that all blow job scenes turn into blowing cum bubble scenes. I know lots of people enjoy seeing that or they wouldn't put it in so many films...but .....ewwwww. Swallow that shit...I hate seeing it. I just close my eyes or look away because it reminds me of "runny noses". I don't know why...it just does.

And also....when a guy cums on your face, why is it that he HAS to nail you right in the eye? Don't you guys have any better aim than that...or is that what you are really aiming for???

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:43:03 PM   
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If it ain't spit, it aint love!


Ewwww, spitting in pornos makes me queasy. You know, when the woman spits on a cock, or someone spits on their fingers before touching a pussy. Yuuuuck!!! I just think, Ewwwww, go wash your hands...don't touch me now!!

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Golden showers - I love the idea of but so far the reality of them just hasn't done it for me.


You know, I've tried it twice, and both times just kind of though. "Hmmm, well, and that's that, huh?" Maybe it's just not been in the right context, I don't know...but I agree, the thought of it, and seeing someone else involved it, seems much more a turn on. Odd.




If I do not have spit all over my face by the time I am done blowing my Dom I didn't do something right... and yes it is naughty and nasty and thoroughly hot just because it is so...Ha Ha.


I'm not arguing with you there...Without getting graphic I know exactly what you mean. LOL

What I can't stand is to see someone gather up a mouthful of spit and spit it out onto someone. I know it doesn't make sense. I know that a good bj takes lots of it...but when I see it done that way, it just makes me queasy.

Not rational, but true. LOL

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:50:47 PM   
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As far as the "spitting" thing goes...lol! I was once watching this really bad "made for men" lesbian porno called "Black Snatch"....my gosh! Nothing but spitting and more spitting....it was like they didn't have a budget for even some cheap lube...and gosh forbid if any of the women could get wet at all of their own accord. ICK! They'd have these close up shots of the spit falling from the mouth onto the pussy, I just died laughing. Just thought I'd share that. LOL!


LOL Yes, that's exactly what I mean...all I can think is why don't they just get someone to sneak them some lube off camera?

Come to think of it, I hate the site of cum being spit out too. Guess I've been taught that once something is in your mouth it should stay there...



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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:52:20 PM   
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Also, as long as we're talking about porn pet peeves: why do they spit on each other's genitals?  That's fucking disgusting.


I rest my case. LOL

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RE: Kinks you don't like - 7/7/2006 8:53:57 PM   
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