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RE: etiquette question - 3/10/2014 3:34:53 PM

littlebuck

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To seeking: thanks for your input. I do appreciate your advice and also the other advice that was given in a spirit of kindness. It's true that a man needs to court a woman and I've tried to amend my profile to reflect that. As I mentioned early on, I am new to the lifestyle and have a lot to learn. It is a gradual growing process.
I have no problem taking advice from women or people younger than myself; I am here to learn and develop into a good submissive whom my mistress will appreciate and enjoy.
During the duration of this discussion I have attempted to remove any form of kink or fetishes from my profile and hopefully those who have spoken sharply against me will take notice of this.
The bond between mistress and sub/slave must be developed also and it starts by trying to get to know the other person on many levels including the vanilla relationship. Realistically I don't expect bdsm 24/7/365 neither would I want it. I seek a genuine relationship, nothing less.

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ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo

little buck ...

Read through this thread, and honestly ... you have received some of the best advice known to man!

And from Women, nonetheless!

First and last, always realize that men cater to Women ... so try to court and attract!

Lifestyle doesn't matter ....

Success is ultimately measured in mental and emotional interaction ... anything more is simply a by product.

And if i may be egotistical for a moment, as a way of pointing a direction ...

i have: shared email with, talked on the phone with, met and taken out to dinner; some of the most brilliant and beautiful Dommes in North America.

And i do not mean sexually ... just interaction as Lady, man and real people. Same as occurs in vanilla dating.

The only difference is: should a relationship develop, i knew She controlled it, and i would say ... "Yes, my Lady" ...

Heck ... from listening to many male, vanilla, married friends .... that sounds like marriage, the only difference is in the method of expressing intimacy.

So good luck in your search ... but never forget,

Women choose, men pursue, court and say yes ...

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RE: etiquette question - 3/10/2014 3:35:58 PM

littlebuck

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Yes, I think it is a doe but it was up close to my house so I took a picture of it.
I'm glad you like it!

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Oh my God. The new profile pic is wonderful! 'Cept it looks like a doe, not a buck.

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RE: etiquette question - 3/10/2014 9:45:41 PM

MistressDarkArt

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ORIGINAL: littlebuck

Yes, I think it is a doe but it was up close to my house so I took a picture of it.
I'm glad you like it!

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Oh my God. The new profile pic is wonderful! 'Cept it looks like a doe, not a buck.

It's lovely! Good choice!

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RE: etiquette question - 3/10/2014 10:31:56 PM

littlebuck

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Thank you, Ma'am!
Actually my property is overrun with deer. They keep eating my young fruit trees so I had to put up protective barriers - around all of them!

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ORIGINAL: littlebuck

Yes, I think it is a doe but it was up close to my house so I took a picture of it.
I'm glad you like it!

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Oh my God. The new profile pic is wonderful! 'Cept it looks like a doe, not a buck.

It's lovely! Good choice!

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RE: etiquette question - 3/24/2014 3:47:38 PM

bowedB4Women

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Picture is really a must, especially from the sub role...

Which to be honest even though my desire is for a sub relationship, the man instincts of aggression must be exercised, the female us not gonna hot on you...

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RE: etiquette question - 3/24/2014 9:05:45 PM

FieryOpal

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ORIGINAL: bowedB4Women

Picture is really a must, especially from the sub role...

Which to be honest even though my desire is for a sub relationship, the man instincts of aggression must be exercised, the female us not gonna hot on you...

I don't quite understand what you mean by the female is "not gonna hot on you..." As in lust over a strange man's pics? (It happens--just all depends on the man and what he chooses to flaunt as a sexual trigger.) Or do you mean make the first move? Again, that all depends on the man in question and the circumstances.
Also, did you mean assertiveness or initiative rather than aggression? Just wondering....

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RE: etiquette question - 3/26/2014 9:32:38 PM

littlebuck

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It's ok if you didn't see my profile. I state that I don't have my real picture on there is because of employment reasons. Please be assured I am a reasonably decent looking man, if that is of any importance.
It's a shame that our society is not comfortable with those of us in the alternative lifestyle however "it is what it is".

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ORIGINAL: bowedB4Women

Picture is really a must, especially from the sub role...

Which to be honest even though my desire is for a sub relationship, the man instincts of aggression must be exercised, the female us not gonna hot on you...

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