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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/5/2014 2:57:14 PM

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so the sun can come out to play.

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This made me smile... brightly.

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/5/2014 3:10:28 PM

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the trouble with tons of special little snow flakes is that they add up to loads of slush that you wish would piss off, and melt away already so the sun can come out to play.

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/6/2014 9:38:28 AM

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glad to be of assistance ladies

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/6/2014 9:53:56 AM

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Thank you ALL for your support - I admit I was nervous posting this because I didn't want to get "beaten up", not knowing the climate here, yet. And this was my first post. I appreciate knowing I am not alone and I feel confident I have done the right thing :) You guys are the best. . . xoxoxo

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/6/2014 9:58:33 AM

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~FRing it~

Perhaps the butthurt over the shattered illusion that if he signed up for an account here, proclaimed himself Über Lord Master Dom, and all the lovely submissive ladies would flock to him just caused him to lose it?

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/6/2014 9:14:57 PM

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Maybe they are emotional because they see your pic which is all over the internet....

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/7/2014 1:43:47 AM

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Maybe they are emotional because they see your pic which is all over the internet....

Can you clarify to whom you are aiming that please? Only it appears that it's in reply to me, and I know that my photos aren't all over the internet.

Cheers

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/7/2014 2:03:15 AM

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yet they get all pissy and insulting. Like little babies.

Doms don't, usually. While we are not perfect I do know you are not talking to Doms who are few an far between on CM and usually already not looking and if they are it is hard to find them, luck or perhaps fate plays more a role in finding a Dom rather than a sex wanker and those are the guys you are talking about. Be patient and keep your standard high and ignore the wankers and look more over in F.L.

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/7/2014 2:10:07 AM

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Über Lord Master Dom,

...yes?

Seriously, I worked hard on the other side to find a great matchup for me and when a girl never answered or decided not to continue phone calls it was simply time to move on and continue the "hunt" rather than an opportunity to cuss her out because frankly only little men do such things and there are plenty of little men here who have great covers and profiles but are basically needing you to cover for their lack of manhood. Some tipoffs are if they want to order you around and put you in slave positions, kind of like a little boy trying to get his new pet to do tricks for his momentary enjoyment and mastery.

Okay, guess I beat that horse enough.

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/7/2014 5:09:45 AM

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yet they get all pissy and insulting. Like little babies.

Doms don't, usually. While we are not perfect I do know you are not talking to Doms who are few an far between on CM and usually already not looking and if they are it is hard to find them, luck or perhaps fate plays more a role in finding a Dom rather than a sex wanker and those are the guys you are talking about. Be patient and keep your standard high and ignore the wankers and look more over in F.L.

I agree with this. I'm glad when they get all pissy and insulting, and when they whine and complain in their profiles and journals about women not responding to them, because they are telling us they aren't Doms, and I can move on and not waste time. At my age I have no time to waste

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/20/2014 3:20:47 PM

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Oh wow I'm glad I found this thread. A few weeks ago I had another account and just ended up deleting it because of the sheer stupidity and then just today I get some jackleg telling me that I'll never find anyone because I'm fat.

total stranger and he feels compelled to tell me this??

I'll admit I took the bait for a few emails and sunk his battleship, but inside I'm still stunned.

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting the same results. Don't these guys realize that the same ole "Ur bueutfil" and "Call me Sir" just don't work on women..

or does it?

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/20/2014 3:48:49 PM

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Nope, doesn't work. But then most of them have the blood rushing to the little head, you have to take that into account. It makes for a bit of a handicap.

You don't owe them an explanation, if there's no interest on your part simply block their profile & delete their msg. What you also have to understand is that you're on the new user list, so *koff* some think of that as a hunting ground for "fresh meat" to take advantage.

You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Yes, there are very good men here. Mostly on the discussion side. I welcome you to CollarChat, hang around, check out the various threads, most importantly have some fun.

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/20/2014 4:16:43 PM

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I'll admit I took the bait for a few emails and sunk his battleship

For your first month or so while you are on the New Users list, you will get a large volume of bizarre emails. Your experience here will be more pleasant if you are quicker on the Delete button :)

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/20/2014 4:24:17 PM

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Oh, and save the better ones for the Strange Messages From The Other Side thread, too! And hello and welcome from me as well. I wish I'd saved some of the ones I got from overseas. Hilarious.

PS. Ur bueutfil, and you can call me Sir.

(Sorry, couldn't resist)

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/20/2014 5:27:40 PM

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Sub bois get the same way too...block and delete. If they come back with a new profile, I forward the message to a mod as spam.

Of course I want just one Dom (preferably Daddy style) and he lives in the same state. We are too much alike so I call him a good friend.

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/20/2014 10:06:37 PM

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I have LITERALLY been on the site for 4 days and have had a guy go from being ALL into me... to calling me fat and telling me I had mental problems... I didnt even respond to any of his messages because I got so many I didnt get a chance.

The butthurt flows strongly in some people here.... yessssss yesss let the butthurt flow THROUGH you!

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/20/2014 10:13:36 PM

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...it's a self proclaimed dom who expects every female to get on her knees and suck his cock

Hey hey now... we like Ron.

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/20/2014 10:17:31 PM

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To the OP: I feel many men not all are simply incapable of dealing with rejection. Lots of them who claim to be dominant know nothing about it nor care...they just want to have their way. Insecure and no sense of integrity or respect for boundaries...then add control freak you got a BIG MALE MESS. Ignore them, delete them, hide them, block them....

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/21/2014 4:11:00 AM

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...it's a self proclaimed dom who expects every female to get on her knees and suck his cock

Hey hey now... we like Ron.

he is the exception though, but I'm still not sucking his cock.

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RE: Why do they get all emotional when you - 3/21/2014 5:07:17 AM

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Welcome to the discussion side Dangerous.

The profile side is full of HNG and wannabe doms -- and when you first create a profile, you get put on a fresh meat list.

That will calm down in a few weeks, during the meantime block and delete are your friends. BTW: DO take the time to block, b/c some will keep messaging whether they get a reply or not. Don't bother replying to anyone you don't want to talk to, it just sets you up for hostility b/c you rejected them.

Sorry, but that's just what the other side is like.

I note you live in FL, which is a kinky paradise, so get involved in your local BDSM community, you'll have much better luck there.

The forum side where you are now is what I like to call the fun side of CM.

We have games, just for fun threads as well as insightful discussions. You can learn a lot here, so stick around.

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