FieryOpal
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Joined: 12/8/2013 From: Maryland Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze You are talking on a public board, now I can't help reading what you put out (and while I find some of the stuff really a bit funny as unintentional comedic value, not annoying enough to put you on ignore), I'm sorry if you think that you are so important that it's an interest in you if somebody reads a discussion, that's a bit of an inflated ego, but if it makes you feel better to tell yourself that I'm THAT interested in you, you're welcome, I consider it my good deed of the day. Your sig line had nothing to do with it, it has to do with that you are continuously down on others, especially guys who don't share your "me" fetish and aren't looking to give what you seek. Again not a problem with saying something isn't your thing, but you act like you're the high priestess of all things D/s and if it doesn't float your boat, how do the guys even DARE to bring it up. I'm not talking about the usual "Here I am, women fulfill my fetish" guys, but guys who come with a question and do have a fetish and the replies you give (the fact that I quoted what you said should give you an idea what I am on about, or are you being obtuse on purpose?) tend to devalue their kinks or fetishes completely. Have you ever considered that it *might* not be the easiest thing for a guy to be open about their fetishes? So not a problem if their fetish doesn't float your boat (unless of course they were applying to you in a personal mail, but again, I wouldn't know about the mails you get, I only see what you put out for the general public to see), but you tend to react as if searching for somebody who's fetish meshes with their's is a crime that disgusts every twue and weal Domme. Here's a surprise for you, some women might actually have fetishes and preferences as well. Hell, I have no problem with you wanting what you want (though I can't quite understand why you don't see the problem why you don't seem to be able to find it), I haven't paid all that much attention, but from the few things I couldn't avoid seeing, it seems you have a bit of a Princess thing going on, where everything is about you and how you want things, which is great, there are guys who are into that stuff, again, I don't know how you look or how old you are, but the guys looking for that usually tend to be into hot 20 somethings with killer bodies. Again, a valid fetish, kink, dynamic, only that it's (like every relationship) a demand and supply thing. You pick an arena where the men outnumber the women by far, your chances tend to be better than when it comes to vanilla dating.... Good luck in your search... As for passive aggressive, I do tend to notice that glasshouses have awfully strong reflections. Now that wasn't passive aggressive, that was me trying to avoid a gold letter, which I would surely get if I'd answer you a bit clearer and more to the point. So now you're trying to avoid getting a gold letter. Conscience much? It didn't seem to bother earlier within the last 24 hours thereabouts when you got into it with a couple forum posters on two other threads. I won't go as far as to call you a Drama Queen, but you sure do like to make personal attacks or why else would you be making a virtual hobby of it. As for your advice, didn't ask, don't care, and you don't have my consent to be in a dynamic with me. You live your life as you have been doing. There is a famous saying by one of your countrywomen Margaret Thatcher: "Being in power is like being a Lady. If you have to tell people you are...You aren't."
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