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Zonie63 -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/24/2014 11:06:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: deathtothepixies

if we're misspelling shit then

what if instead of god we said odd?


I could get behind that. I believe in Odd.




dcnovice -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/24/2014 11:15:23 PM)

“You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you odd.”

FLANNERY O'CONNOR




Kirata -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/24/2014 11:29:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Zonie63
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ORIGINAL: deathtothepixies

what if instead of god we said odd?

I could get behind that. I believe in Odd.

Yeah, it kinda fits. Odd things work in mysterious ways. [:D]

K.





crazyml -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/25/2014 2:17:31 AM)


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ORIGINAL: njlauren
A belief that same sex couples shouldn't get married or are sinners isn't homophobic, if that stays a belief.


I don't agree with this.

A belief that is homophobic is a homophobic belief.

An act that is homophobic is a homophobic act.

Both are examples of homophobia. Both are wrong.

But... I do accept your point that one (the belief) isn't something that a free society should be trying to control through law while the other is.

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Where it is homophobic is when you translate that belief into something that affects the lives of gay people. If you believe same sex marriage is a sin, and want to deny gays the right to legally get married by a JP, Clerk, or by a friendly religious group, it is homophobic, since you are using your belief to deny someone something based on your beliefs.


I completely agree with this!

Now... where could the law be applied?

Well, marriage is governed by law. Laws determine who is allowed to perform a marriage. A wedding has two quite distinct components, there is the religious ceremony, then there is the execution of the legal contract (the legal marriage).

While these two are often intertwined, the state determines who can lawfully perform a marriage, and who can lawfully get married.

So in the first instance, if the law offers one group of people access to one "form" of marriage while denying it to others then it is discriminatory. Interestingly, here in the UK when "civil partnerships" were created, I resented the fact that I, as a het male, would be discriminated against in not having access to a civil partnership, almost as much as I resent the fact that gay couples are still discriminated against when it comes to marriage.

So, rather than create a special and - absolutely by definition - discriminatory "form" of marriage, the law simply needs to be change to remove "man and a woman" and change it to "two people".

The next, step, is to accept that since the state determines who is allowed to perform a legal marriage, it is in effect nominating people to perform a public office. No person should be permitted to perform a public office unless they agree to perform that office in a non-discriminatory way.

If a pastor is a homophobe, and would refuse to perform the public office (I'm not talking about the religious service here, just the public office component of the legal marriage) then he should not be granted the right to perform that public service.

He can conduct the religious component, at which point the couple will be married in the eyes of God, but not in the eyes of the law, and then someone else (someone who isn't homophobic) can conduct the legal transaction.






chatterbox24 -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/25/2014 3:14:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

“You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you odd.”

FLANNERY O'CONNOR



I agree.[:D]




chatterbox24 -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/25/2014 3:17:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Kirata


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ORIGINAL: Zonie63
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ORIGINAL: deathtothepixies

what if instead of god we said odd?

I could get behind that. I believe in Odd.

Yeah, it kinda fits. Odd things work in mysterious ways. [:D]

K.




Yep true! Scratches head and says "What! no way" happens to me all the time.




Yachtie -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/25/2014 4:57:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: njlauren


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ORIGINAL: Yachtie

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ORIGINAL: njlauren


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ORIGINAL: Yachtie

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ORIGINAL: njlauren
Your quote said that people would be forced to change their religious beliefs because they would be forced to marry same sex couples, and that isn't true.


Quote me. Where did I say that? Don't say I said that, quote me... or I ask that you retract.


"Christians I have had such discussions with most all say "no problem" with a form of civil union which allows what you wish. But they do draw a line at altering their religious institution(s) allowing inclusion at the cost of opposition to God's Game, God's rules. In a sense one might argue that such are not prejudicial, their wanting to find a way without falling into opposition."

The key word here is altering their religious institutions, which implies that they would be forced to marry same sex couples..and you posted in a discussion about whether churches should be forced to marry people, which strongly says you believe the same thing, otherwise you wouldn't post in.


No, the key phrase you used is "change their religious beliefs." Nowhere did I say anything remotely like that. Yours is a bait and switch.

It is entirely possible to change an institutions doctrine by law without altering members beliefs. For instance, a wedding photographer who objects to gay marriage being forced, by law, to offer said service only alters the photographer's practice, not their belief. The photographer's belief, though still intact, is now sorely tested by the change in practice (doctrine) which, by doing such, is in opposition to God.


Wait a minute, where the hell did a photographer taking pictures come from?

Why, after the two words "for instance"



Stop the typical tactic of those in arguments who start using shotgun arguments to try and get out of a corner.


No shotgun argument at all. It was but a "for instance", being representative of making a point and not of anything else.



You were talking about religious institutions, not individual beliefs,


Yes, I was. I'm still curious as to why you attributed to me something other. (see green above) You still have not admitted you were wrong.


and I specifically pointed out that religious institutions don't have to marry anyone nor do they have to change their teachings, and the law cannot force a church to change its teachings....


Not yet at least. I do not put it past those who make laws.


A photographer is not a religious institution


You are correct. That should give you a warm fuzzy. But the "for instance" point is other than your objection, being as to practice regardless of belief.



and the subject of photographers


Was never any subject at all, again, was only to practice regardless of belief.


is a very, very different argument,


Which is why I did not argue it but merely used it as a point maker.



The rest is not germane as far as I am concerned.









MrBukani -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/25/2014 8:18:26 AM)


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ORIGINAL: dcnovice


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ORIGINAL: MrBukani

Many heterosexuals get physically sick by the thought of homosexual sex. Should that be changed also? Is that bad?

Many people, both straight and gay, get physically sick at the thought of reading gibberish from trolls.

Awww did it stick to your psyche? Take the blue pill. You had enough reds for one day.




MrBukani -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/25/2014 8:27:32 AM)

I think we have some Godohphobes in the house. People livin in fear of God. They think that's a good thing I guess. Heterosexual men feel let's say awkward, when they sit with gayfriends. And have thoughts like I hope he does not think I am sexy. Would he fantasize about me tonight.[:'(] Is he perhaps secretly in love with me. Does he fancy me. And they get [:'(]
So they end up being best friends to fashion victimized girls cause gay people have such better taste in clothes and such.
Every fashionvictim needs her gay dress advisor. It's sort of standard these days.




Lucylastic -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/25/2014 12:45:00 PM)

Yep another het male who think gay men will treat him like he treats females.
Entirely too much ego, and little reality.




JeffBC -> RE: "Religion will become as unacceptable as racism" (3/25/2014 2:45:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic
Yep another het male who think gay men will treat him like he treats females. Entirely too much ego, and little reality.

Much as I agree with your sentiment it does in fact happen. Probably not all that often since most people aren't that big on rejection but it happens. Happened to me and it was more than a bit awkward since the whole "inability to take no for an answer" thing also came up.




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